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Old 03-10-2005, 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted by alleyesonmeee
Hmm...Well I guess she must see something in him to stick around. I'm sorry...that sucks I hate to see nice girls with guys that aren't good for them, I used to be one.
Glad to see that you changed!!
Old 03-10-2005, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
assholes do a good job of acting like one.
Can argue with you there.
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Originally Posted by ATXCLS
Can argue with you there.
Can or can't?
Old 03-10-2005, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted by alleyesonmeee
Not true darlin...Case in point: my boyfriend!


Does this girls bf currently have alot of money? That could be one reason she stays with him even though he sucks.
read my post right above this one damn it!!!

Originally Posted by ABreece
Nobody i would consider a good guy is with a chick like that.

Perhaps your definition of "good guy" and our definition of "good guy" aren't one in the same?
Perhaps, or maybe the good guys I've seen just have worse judgement

and yes ATXCLS you and dark could fall into that margin
Old 03-10-2005, 04:22 PM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Can or can't?
:slap: Can't
Old 03-10-2005, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
read my post right above this one damn it!!!
I did...I just had to throw in my spare change.
Old 03-10-2005, 05:05 PM
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Originally Posted by alleyesonmeee
I did...I just had to throw in my spare change.
I see, but I still think what I said is true, of course with that slight margin of error. Of course not ALL the good guys are hung up on a slutbag, I have a bf too and hes definitely not with a slut

What it sounded like was that you were showing an exception to the rule, which I had provided for in an earlier post. We're on the same page now though.
Old 03-10-2005, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
I see, but I still think what I said is true, of course with that slight margin of error. Of course not ALL the good guys are hung up on a slutbag, I have a bf too and hes definitely not with a slut

What it sounded like was that you were showing an exception to the rule, which I had provided for in an earlier post. We're on the same page now though.
We always were on the same page.... It was supposed to be a funny, G!!!
Old 03-10-2005, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
Perhaps, or maybe the good guys I've seen just have worse judgement
No, i think it's that the good guys got sick of bitches stringing them along or ignoring them so they settle for the ho bags - at least they pretend to be interested in them.
Old 03-10-2005, 08:49 PM
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Yep, treat a girl like shit and she is yours forever.

Its one of the universal truths.
Old 03-10-2005, 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
No, i think it's that the good guys got sick of bitches stringing them along or ignoring them so they settle for the ho bags - at least they pretend to be interested in them.
Nice guys finish last, another universal truth. I'd much rather have a subservient ho who does my bidding.
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Nobody i would consider a good guy is with a chick like that.

Perhaps your definition of "good guy" and our definition of "good guy" aren't one in the same?
Does your definition involve a PA?
Old 03-10-2005, 11:10 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
read my post right above this one damn it!!!



Perhaps, or maybe the good guys I've seen just have worse judgement

and yes ATXCLS you and dark could fall into that margin
Geisha, you are kind beyond reason...my, my...
Old 03-10-2005, 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted by spidey07
Yep, treat a girl like shit and she is yours forever.

Its one of the universal truths.

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THis thread is the story of my life



Old 03-10-2005, 11:24 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithCL
Geisha, you are kind beyond reason...my, my...
Old 03-10-2005, 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Minch00
THis thread is the story of my life



so change it!! That is the beautifull thing about life-if you don't like it, change it!!!
Old 03-10-2005, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted by spidey07
Nice guys finish last, another universal truth. I'd much rather have a subservient ho who does my bidding.
Not me. I am not going to accept this "universal truth" and I WILL NOT finish last. I am going to change that truth to read "Nice guys finish first"
Old 03-10-2005, 11:30 PM
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Originally Posted by ATXCLS
so change it!! That is the beautifull thing about life-if you don't like it, change it!!!

Sorry, but that's MUCH easier said than done.
Old 03-10-2005, 11:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Minch00
THis thread is the story of my life



Old 03-10-2005, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Minch00
Sorry, but that's MUCH easier said than done.
Trust me, I know. I have struggled with it for most of my life. I just came to the realization that life is what you make it-and I wanted more, so I am going after more.

If you really want something, all you have to do is take it.
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Hey TUY3T
Old 03-10-2005, 11:42 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
Does your definition involve a PA?
Is it that hard to keep discussion about my penis contained in one thread?


edit: i just realized that the answer to that question is no. My wang is too huge to be confined to one thread.
Old 03-10-2005, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Minch00
Sorry, but that's MUCH easier said than done.
Minch, confidence is everything.

EVERYTHING.

Either get some or learn to fake it well (being an asshole is an easy way to fake it) and you'll be amazed at how things change.

It's amazingly simple and easy to do once you figure out how.
Old 03-10-2005, 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Is it that hard to keep discussion about my penis contained in one thread?


edit: i just realized that the answer to that question is no. My wang is too huge to be confined to one thread.
Old 03-11-2005, 01:29 AM
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Originally Posted by ATXCLS
Like Me and Dark??
like you
Old 03-11-2005, 01:36 AM
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Sometimes, a woman can treat her man like a king and still end up losing in the end, making the girl wonder what the hell did I do wrong? It will be the basis for every relationship from then on. Why do guys dump the girls that treat them the way they say they want to be treated and they way they deserve? I will forever wonder what I did wrong and it makes you not want to have another relationship. You will always be thinking, man I did everything right and he still left, what do I have left to offer anyone else?
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
Sometimes, a woman can treat her man like a king and still end up losing in the end, making the girl wonder what the hell did I do wrong? It will be the basis for every relationship from then on. Why do guys dump the girls that treat them the way they say they want to be treated and they way they deserve? I will forever wonder what I did wrong and it makes you not want to have another relationship. You will always be thinking, man I did everything right and he still left, what do I have left to offer anyone else?
Being treated well isn't everything.

There has to be that spark of attraction there. There has to be some spice in the relationship. And some guys are just asshats who will dump their woman for someone who looks a little better without even thinking about it.

The trick is to find someone who appreciates what you bring to the table.
Old 03-11-2005, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Being treated well isn't everything.

There has to be that spark of attraction there. There has to be some spice in the relationship. And some guys are just asshats who will dump their woman for someone who looks a little better without even thinking about it.

The trick is to find someone who appreciates what you bring to the table.
Without a spark, there is no fire.

However, Lady Sith does have a point. I have met many a lady who has said that. On the other hand, I can give you countless examples of a sex reversal-where the ladies get treated the way they want, A nice guy to settle down with, and then leave as soon as they realize that they are getting what they asked for.

This is what pisses me off sooooooo much. Don't f*cking lie to me. If you really want a nice guy with a big spark, then look me up. Otherwise, don't pull the act of "Oh, I just want a nice guy to take home to mom" and then run off with the first asshat that she sees.
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Originally Posted by ATXCLS
. Why is it that all of the good chicas go for the complete assholes???!!!
Well I dont consider myself a "Complete" asshole...but I have been one in the past. My take is this, if you are a subserviant, pliable wimp you will get walked all over. If you are confident, authoritive yet compassionate and loving you can have whatever you want.
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Originally Posted by Minch00
THis thread is the story of my life





To Minch and all the others out there that feel that way,,,,(used to be one of you many moons ago) The way to change the way your life is going, be it relationship wise, career wise or otherwise ...is to make the concious decision to use the gifts that God (or insert your personal diety choice here) gave you. We all have talents and gifts, some find them early some find them late. Choose to be the kind of person you WANT to be, don't be swayed by other's perceptions, don't allow the "social norm" to mold you, mold yourself. We are all briought up differently which makes us all well, different. I guess what I'm saying is be yourself, seek out the things in life that make YOU happy and I guarantee you will be more successful in every way, even with women, from what I've gathered over many years and relationships (let's face it girls are just confusing) women like a man with confidence, most of the girls that go with the losers see them as confident whether it's fake confidence or not, your confidence in YOURSELF will attract the girls, I don't mean be boastful, sarcastic, abusive, whatever, I mean be happy with yourself and you'll exude confidence, the rest WILL happen
I've been around more damn blocks than I want to think about and I know this is true and I know it will lead you to a happier life!

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Originally Posted by 1killercls
Well I dont consider myself a "Complete" asshole...but I have been one in the past. My take is this, if you are a subserviant, pliable wimp you will get walked all over. If you are confident, authoritive yet compassionate and loving you can have whatever you want.
Old 03-11-2005, 11:48 AM
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atxcls, your friend's worthless for bringing a woman who's not single or simply for not telling you she wasn't from the beginning. :shakehead


Originally Posted by 1killercls
Well I dont consider myself a "Complete" asshole...but I have been one in the past. My take is this, if you are a subserviant, pliable wimp you will get walked all over. If you are confident, authoritive yet compassionate and loving you can have whatever you want.



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Yep, treat a girl like shit and she is yours forever.
Its one of the universal truths.
Originally Posted by spidey07
Nice guys finish last, another universal truth. I'd much rather have a subservient ho who does my bidding.



anyway, abreece is right on. confidence is key.
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Originally Posted by ABreece
Being treated well isn't everything.

There has to be that spark of attraction there. There has to be some spice in the relationship. And some guys are just asshats who will dump their woman for someone who looks a little better without even thinking about it.

The trick is to find someone who appreciates what you bring to the table.
I thought I had...
Old 03-12-2005, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
Same with all the good guys...always hung up on some slut hobag bitch
Haha, I like you.
Old 03-13-2005, 02:33 AM
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Haha, I like you.
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how did i miss this thread G....youll find the right one soon enough....ive always got your back....i need to quit playin my games and find me a serious one.....BUT.....well see how that goes
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another "universal truth" to say.. regardless of what gender you are

once you stop looking to actively be with someone, they fall right into your damn lap.

Ive seen it happen many of times, and to I as well.


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