Glad to see that you changed!!

 

Can argue with you there.

 

Can or can't?

 

read my post right above this one damn it!!!

Perhaps, or maybe the good guys I've seen just have worse judgement

and yes ATXCLS you and dark could fall into that margin

 

:slap: Can't

 

I did...I just had to throw in my spare change.

 

I see, but I still think what I said is true, of course with that slight margin of error. Of course not ALL the good guys are hung up on a slutbag, I have a bf too and hes definitely not with a slut

What it sounded like was that you were showing an exception to the rule, which I had provided for in an earlier post. We're on the same page now though.

 

We always were on the same page.... It was supposed to be a funny, G!!!

 

No, i think it's that the good guys got sick of bitches stringing them along or ignoring them so they settle for the ho bags - at least they pretend to be interested in them.

 

Yep, treat a girl like shit and she is yours forever.

Its one of the universal truths.

 

Nice guys finish last, another universal truth. I'd much rather have a subservient ho who does my bidding.

 

Does your definition involve a PA?

 

Geisha, you are kind beyond reason...my, my...

 

 

THis thread is the story of my life

 

 

so change it!! That is the beautifull thing about life-if you don't like it, change it!!!

 

Not me. I am not going to accept this "universal truth" and I WILL NOT finish last. I am going to change that truth to read "Nice guys finish first"

 

Sorry, but that's MUCH easier said than done.

 

 

Trust me, I know. I have struggled with it for most of my life. I just came to the realization that life is what you make it-and I wanted more, so I am going after more.

If you really want something, all you have to do is take it.

 

Hey TUY3T

 

Is it that hard to keep discussion about my penis contained in one thread?


edit: i just realized that the answer to that question is no. My wang is too huge to be confined to one thread.

 

Minch, confidence is everything.

EVERYTHING.

Either get some or learn to fake it well (being an asshole is an easy way to fake it) and you'll be amazed at how things change.

It's amazingly simple and easy to do once you figure out how.

 

 

like you

 

Sometimes, a woman can treat her man like a king and still end up losing in the end, making the girl wonder what the hell did I do wrong? It will be the basis for every relationship from then on. Why do guys dump the girls that treat them the way they say they want to be treated and they way they deserve? I will forever wonder what I did wrong and it makes you not want to have another relationship. You will always be thinking, man I did everything right and he still left, what do I have left to offer anyone else?

 

 

Being treated well isn't everything.

There has to be that spark of attraction there. There has to be some spice in the relationship. And some guys are just asshats who will dump their woman for someone who looks a little better without even thinking about it.

The trick is to find someone who appreciates what you bring to the table.

 

Without a spark, there is no fire.

However, Lady Sith does have a point. I have met many a lady who has said that. On the other hand, I can give you countless examples of a sex reversal-where the ladies get treated the way they want, A nice guy to settle down with, and then leave as soon as they realize that they are getting what they asked for.

This is what pisses me off sooooooo much. Don't f*cking lie to me. If you really want a nice guy with a big spark, then look me up. Otherwise, don't pull the act of "Oh, I just want a nice guy to take home to mom" and then run off with the first asshat that she sees.

 

 

Well I dont consider myself a "Complete" asshole...but I have been one in the past. My take is this, if you are a subserviant, pliable wimp you will get walked all over. If you are confident, authoritive yet compassionate and loving you can have whatever you want.

 

To Minch and all the others out there that feel that way,,,,(used to be one of you many moons ago) The way to change the way your life is going, be it relationship wise, career wise or otherwise ...is to make the concious decision to use the gifts that God (or insert your personal diety choice here) gave you. We all have talents and gifts, some find them early some find them late. Choose to be the kind of person you WANT to be, don't be swayed by other's perceptions, don't allow the "social norm" to mold you, mold yourself. We are all briought up differently which makes us all well, different. I guess what I'm saying is be yourself, seek out the things in life that make YOU happy and I guarantee you will be more successful in every way, even with women, from what I've gathered over many years and relationships (let's face it girls are just confusing) women like a man with confidence, most of the girls that go with the losers see them as confident whether it's fake confidence or not, your confidence in YOURSELF will attract the girls, I don't mean be boastful, sarcastic, abusive, whatever, I mean be happy with yourself and you'll exude confidence, the rest WILL happen
I've been around more damn blocks than I want to think about and I know this is true and I know it will lead you to a happier life!

 

 

atxcls, your friend's worthless for bringing a woman who's not single or simply for not telling you she wasn't from the beginning. :shakehead








anyway, abreece is right on. confidence is key.

 

I thought I had...

 

Haha, I like you.

 

awww

 

how did i miss this thread G....youll find the right one soon enough....ive always got your back....i need to quit playin my games and find me a serious one.....BUT.....well see how that goes

 

another "universal truth" to say.. regardless of what gender you are

once you stop looking to actively be with someone, they fall right into your damn lap.

Ive seen it happen many of times, and to I as well.