Hey, things are basically still the same. We have talked and there is some possibilty of us getting back together, but she needs time to think. Right now i'm just giving her the space and time she needs. Not much else to report. She did call me for my birthday (today), which is a good step.

 

Sounds like there is still hope for you two to be together again. I'm pulling for ya........





PS: Don't let that little bouncing ball beat you too much.......

 

As someone who has been there before, it seems like you are doing the right thing. Continue to give her the space and time she needs.

Her call to you for your birthday, is a good sign in that she has not totally cut you off. Be optimistic but, prepare for the contingency that she might want to move on (from you). In the very difficult meantime, taking up a productive hobby that could redirect your attention can go a long ways towards keeping you sane. (During my dating years, was when I became a car enthusiast.....which helped me to deal with my breakups.)

Women are wonderful but inexplicable behaved creatures. (After 17 years, I still try to figure my wife out sometimes.) Let her sort things out.

 

Thanks for the advice. I find myself heading to the driving range much more often now that I am "single"

 

She probably just needs some time. It sounds like she just needs a break. Maybe she's been stressed out about something unrelated to you. Just give it some time. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. In the meantime, keep doing what you're doing, don't wallow in your self-pity, find things to do, hang out with the homies, etc.