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Old 05-12-2005 | 09:35 PM
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Strip Clubs

Do you go to strip clubs? How often?

For the guys - do you tell your girlfriends/wives you're going to a strip club? How do they react?

For the ladies - how would you feel if your boyfriend/husband told you he's going out with guys to a strip club? Would you make a big deal out of it?
Old 05-12-2005 | 09:46 PM
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I frequent Scores Eastside and Westside once a month. I never tell any girl that I go to the strip club. When your young like myself, :whocares: if you go...unless your in a relationship and you're fucking one of the strippers, then that might be a problem.
Old 05-12-2005 | 09:56 PM
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i don't go. don't see the point of going. spend tons of money to get horny as hell just to end up going home to jerkoff is not my cup of tea. I can do that at home watching free porn anyway
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:00 PM
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I never go. To me its pointless and degrading to women.

Pointless in that they are complete strangers and are being PAID to do it. Its depressing. I'd much rather see someone do it for ME and me alone (and of course, free)

But really, to me its just sleazy but thats my own opinion.
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:05 PM
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i don't go. don't see the point of going. spend tons of money to get horny as hell just to end up going home to jerkoff is not my cup of tea. I can do that at home watching free porn anyway
Originally Posted by KEN1997TL
I never go. To me its pointless and degrading to women.

Pointless in that they are complete strangers and are being PAID to do it. Its depressing. I'd much rather see someone do it for ME and me alone (and of course, free)

But really, to me its just sleazy but thats my own opinion.
I feel like such a loser now.
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
I feel like such a loser now.
Don't. If thats your thing, go for it.

Just isnt mine, thats all.
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:12 PM
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Waste of money, IMO.
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:13 PM
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I don't think any woman feels comfortable with her boyfriend/husband going to a strip club. If they're saying they're fine with that, they're lying (or just don't care about their relationship).
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
I feel like such a loser now.
i'm sorry about that

j/k. i'm w/ ken
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:17 PM
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Heh...its not like Im hurt from your comments, its that Im feeling like chauvinistic pig. I think I should really change my views about women, and respect them a little more.
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
I never go. To me its pointless and degrading to women.

Pointless in that they are complete strangers and are being PAID to do it. Its depressing. I'd much rather see someone do it for ME and me alone (and of course, free)

But really, to me its just sleazy but thats my own opinion.


lol you're paying for IT in one way or another..........
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:26 PM
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I don't go to strip clubs. They're dirty, and there's nothing for my group around this damn city. Thankfully, every Friday night at the Roost (a local gay bar) there's a free male stripper and female stripper provided. The male one is upstairs and the female is downstairs, but they're 30 min apart so you can watch both if you want.You pay cover, and its the same amount as what it would be normally. Oh and in Alberta strippers go down to nothing . And on Saturday night, there's another gay bar with no cover that has a stripper at 11pm.

One time at the roost i saw this female stripper that got dragged across the stage by her assistant by her collar with a heavy chain

Oh yeah, and the guys are always better! They have fire and stuff!! The women are boring and just dance around.
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:38 PM
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Do you go to strip clubs? Yes
How often? dunno its at random whenever myself or a friend wants to go id say mebe every 2-3 months

For the guys - do you tell your girlfriends/wives you're going to a strip club? How do they react? dont have a GF/wife so i guess i

but i see Chinisimo's point on getting horny as hell and then just going back home and jerking off.. thats why ive decided to stop going


Old 05-12-2005 | 10:44 PM
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lol you're paying for IT in one way or another..........
Meh, I suppose. But my underlying goal is friendship, not stripping
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:56 PM
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whenever I am about to do something like this, think about how I'd feel if she did it, in this case, go to a male strip club, and i wouldn't be very happy, so I wouldn't go if I had a girlfriend
Old 05-12-2005 | 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Meh, I suppose. But my underlying goal is friendship, not stripping
And in LEGAL strip clubs, you're not going to get a happy ending, only frustrated.
Old 05-12-2005 | 11:18 PM
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I uh, made the mistake of, uh





calling my fiancé in the middle of a lapdance


that said, I just wanted to share my first strip club experience. Suprisingly they do nothing for me. Will most likely never go back to one, unless of course I'm w/ her and we are going to laugh at the bitches in clear heels
Old 05-12-2005 | 11:24 PM
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Originally Posted by CLpower
I uh, made the mistake of, uh





calling my fiancé in the middle of a lapdance


that said, I just wanted to share my first strip club experience. Suprisingly they do nothing for me. Will most likely never go back to one, unless of course I'm w/ her and we are going to laugh at the bitches in clear heels
stupid cracka'

Ive been twice. No big thang. this old skanky stripper kept trying to take my/my friends' money and acted all innocent and blah blah blah.

First time was meh. second time was more meh. Just didnt do it for me.

-Alex
Old 05-12-2005 | 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted by CLpower
I uh, made the mistake of, uh





calling my fiancé in the middle of a lapdance

holy crap man
Old 05-12-2005 | 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
Meh, I suppose. But my underlying goal is friendship, not stripping

? companionship is a part of a relationship but not the driver. Sex is huge huge part. You can't deny it. Subtract sex from relationship....you have intimate friendship but that can be had without girlfiend\wife\fiance.
Old 05-12-2005 | 11:57 PM
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american strip clubs are so tame. I dont understand why anyone would go. The only real strip clubs in North American are in Ontario. The rest are a waste of time and money.
Old 05-13-2005 | 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Mr.Fiddizzle
american strip clubs are so tame. I dont understand why anyone would go. The only real strip clubs in North American are in Ontario. The rest are a waste of time and money.
Hmmm...Im thinking about taking a trip to Amsterdam now.
Old 05-13-2005 | 12:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Mr.Fiddizzle
american strip clubs are so tame. I dont understand why anyone would go. The only real strip clubs in North American are in Ontario. The rest are a waste of time and money.
whats so good about the strip clubs in Ontario?
Old 05-13-2005 | 12:09 AM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
whats so good about the strip clubs in Ontario?

come and find out. many americans do
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holy crap man


yea, I got grounded
Old 05-13-2005 | 12:09 AM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
whats so good about the strip clubs in Ontario?
They probably fuck you for free.
Old 05-13-2005 | 12:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
They probably fuck you for free.
Old 05-13-2005 | 12:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Mr.Fiddizzle
come and find out. many americans do


probably wont ever go there so why dont ya tell me?
Old 05-13-2005 | 07:24 AM
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um - the process of the erotic removal of clothing is best shared privately...... and best shared. (why should I stay clothed when she....).
Old 05-13-2005 | 07:58 AM
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They can be kinda fun of you get the right group of guys going, just for fun, but not really my thing to do...

Over the years I've gone probably once a year or less...
Old 05-13-2005 | 09:08 AM
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I've gone about 8 times, all for bachelor parties, in that atmosphere its fun just being out with a group of 10 people or more. But i never will be the old single guy walking in there with a cooler in my hand. Paying for it takes all of the thrill out of anything.
Old 05-13-2005 | 09:29 AM
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i was at one on saturday night drunk as hell and i started yelling at the strippers like "ITS MOTHERS DAY, WHAT WOULD YOUR MOM THINK OF YOU!" and stuff like that and got kicked out, it was a good time though
Old 05-13-2005 | 09:41 AM
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Its really not my cup of tea either...why get all frustrated.
Old 05-13-2005 | 09:44 AM
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I haven't gone in such a long time
Old 05-13-2005 | 09:45 AM
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Montreal strip clubs >* (or at least anything in the US)
Old 05-13-2005 | 09:46 AM
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My wife and I go to a stip club together in vegas.
Old 05-13-2005 | 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Sdog2012
i was at one on saturday night drunk as hell and i started yelling at the strippers like "ITS MOTHERS DAY, WHAT WOULD YOUR MOM THINK OF YOU!" and stuff like that and got kicked out, it was a good time though

I don't really like em. Some people get into it, I'm just more of the "ok this is a waste of money" kind of guy. Favorite thing to do at the strip club is get one of those ten dollar massages. Fan-fucking-tastic stuff

That all being said, I'm heading to Centerfolds this weekend for my buddy's bachelor party and I may or may not have fallen in love with a stripper in Las Vegas last month
Old 05-13-2005 | 10:43 PM
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been there .. especially when traveling on business .. What else is a guy gonna do???

As long as you realize that the girls are there to make money and they really couldn't care less if your there or not it's all good.
Old 05-14-2005 | 12:39 AM
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I don't think any woman feels comfortable with her boyfriend/husband going to a strip club. If they're saying they're fine with that, they're lying (or just don't care about their relationship).
Totally disagree. I feel like that if I am that insecure with my relationship that I dont feel comfortable with my man going to a strip club, then I have bigger problems...but to each his/her own.
Old 05-14-2005 | 12:46 AM
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My girl friends and I have been to Danny's in Windsor, it was a riot! Only time I've been to a strip club, and we were laughing our asses off...the guys were definitely gorgeous!

My ex used to go to the strip club with his friends...it didn't bother me, because I knew at the end of the night, he was coming home to me!


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