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Old 10-09-2008, 04:15 PM
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just have sex already, dont be a little bitch. Yea its your beliefs but you will have to marry some church girl to marry a virgin. And if you tell a girl thats had sex that you wanna wait till you get married, you are getting dumped my friend. Sex is just too much fun to pass up on and when you are 40 years old you will regret not having as much of it as possible. Cuz once you get married sex life is shit (so i have herd). fuck teh hot neighbour and be happy
You're so well spoken Myron.
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Cuz once you get married sex life is shit (so i have herd).
It depends on the type of herd you're fucking around with, actually.
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herd sheep are the best....
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herd sheep are the best....
dude don't listen to what everyone else says.. there is always varying opinions on everything and you know what, only your opinion of yourself matters in the end. I'm 22 and i can confidently say that I am still a virgin.. ya people might bug you about it and say that you might be gay, this and that.. just don't stress it, if i can do it, you can do it. For me personally though i just believe that i haven't found the right girl yet, religion also has something to do with it but it's mostly just about finding a girl that i want to do it with. and no im not some kind of freak who sits around at home all day wearing a hat made of tin foil.. I've messed around with different girls, all not worth it in my eyes..
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Loser....

If this is what you want then good for you. If your friends nag you about it, then get new friends.

I will say though that even though I admire your restraint, that I think you may be missing out on life. Maybe you need to decide if this is what you want in life. The last thing you need is to realize that you missed out on something, or someone.
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Call me prude, but this is the most arrogant post in here.



Originally Posted by myron
just have sex already, dont be a little bitch.
I want to sterilize people like you. Saying someone's a bitch because of their choice of waiting till marriage to have sex? Classy.

Yea its your beliefs but you will have to marry some church girl to marry a virgin.
Is that a problem???

And if you tell a girl thats had sex that you wanna wait till you get married, you are getting dumped my friend.
If that was the case for me, than they're weren't worth it anyways.

Sex is just too much fun to pass up on and when you are 40 years old you will regret not having as much of it as possible.
I beg to differ. What an accomplishment it is to bang every chick you can.

Cuz once you get married sex life is shit (so i have herd).
Just from this post, I can tell it will be shit for you.

fuck teh hot neighbour and be happy
Awesome advice.
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You're 18, we'll see what the story is when you're in your 20's
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Originally Posted by zguy95135
You're 18, we'll see what the story is when you're in your 20's
Maybe, maybe not.

I'm betting the latter.

I can't say I am going to wait till marriage, but I can bet money I'll at least be engaged before I allow the monster to enter any caves.
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Old 10-09-2008, 09:34 PM
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thnaks for the backing bro, kinda 2nd thinking it all because i was getting it from everyone.

oh and for the record Im 19
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When I was younger I used to think sex was something sacred (not in a religious sense), but as I got older I realized that really, it's not. I can't say the same for everybody but your views on things do change a lot over the years, people change . That's just my opinion though.

Props to anyone who has the conviction to stay a virgin until they're married though, thats definitely something respectable.
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Old 10-09-2008, 09:38 PM
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Originally Posted by zguy95135
When I was younger I used to think sex was something sacred (not in a religious sense), but as I got older I realized that really, it's not. I can't say the same for everybody but your views on things do change a lot over the years, people change . That's just my opinion though.

Props to anyone who has the conviction to stay a virgin until they're married though, thats definitely something respectable.
If you're bangin up on all the chicks...you're right.

It's NOT going to be sacred.

It's just going to be another hollow and shallow attempt at temporary gratification.
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Old 10-09-2008, 09:40 PM
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Haha or maybe it's just sex? :P

Either way, people will follow whatever path they feel is right for them and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
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yea...but i stopped giving a shit. honestly i just dont really care ive realized that there is no womann worth saving it for
Then think of the woman you may meet that's worth dieing for. Someone you love more than your own life. Is SHE worth saving it for? Don't settle! People can be so bitter and jaded about who is "out there". Don't fall into that. That just comes from people who are bitter and miserable themselves and want to drag you along too. You have an opportunity here that you only get one shot at, and that is to live out a life with no regrets about your decision here. Even if there is no woman in front of you right now that's "worth it", YOU ARE.
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Originally Posted by zguy95135
Haha or maybe it's just sex? :P

Either way, people will follow whatever path they feel is right for them and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
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Old 10-09-2008, 09:47 PM
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Don't listen to anyone man. It's OK that you have a small penis.
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Old 10-09-2008, 09:54 PM
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Old 10-09-2008, 11:40 PM
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if your a hopeless romantic and you cant wait for that intimacy your gonna have with your future wife, or if your religious, or both then good luck and kudos to you for doing it

if not, then i say get on with it already, i lost my v card at 18 and yes i was guilty of putting it on a pedestal. after my first time all i thought was "thats all it is?? wow.. lets do it again!"

those are my
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People are always trying to belittle sex in the "decision-making process" and accuse those who "chase" it as superficial. Well, I guess I'm just a superficial mofo, because I love it! But it takes two to make a thing alright!

Over-used analogy, but it works: You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it. It's true, because you view it as a high value item. Well, isn't the one whom you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with of greater value than a car?

When you get married, you don't marry with the potential of divorce in mind if things don't work out. It's a promise for forever! Given that, shouldn't no stones go unturned? I think so. Sex is a fucking boulder in the "compatibility" department! Many a marriage dies out because of it.

If you are a very passionate person, and your lady is a lazy lay, that shit will get old quick! What if your sex-game was not all SHE thought it was cracked up to be either? And when you are a young dude, surrounded by the fellas regaling you with their wildest stories about sex all the time, you will soon begin the descent down the road called "What's behind door #2". Especially if your girl thinks giving head is nasty and don't even think about anal! Haha! And it's not because you are no good or hell-bent on betrayal, it's because you put all your eggs in one basket and now you wonder what the "rest of the world" is like!

I over-simplified it to make the point, as there are other contributing factors, but yes, these things take place with the strongest of couples. It may not be ALL about sex, and it may not be the most important thing...but it is "up there" on the list and it is important.

I'm not going to sit here and try to say the "right thing". No, the right thing is to tell you to test drive it! Do it, or you'll be sorry...
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Old 10-10-2008, 01:52 AM
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I was 22 when I was with my 1st gf. Not everyone think about sex. However, once you have it, you'll crave for it.
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Old 10-10-2008, 08:38 AM
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If you want to have sex don't be like this dude I used to be friends with. At last check he was 26 and still a virgin. He really only had one gf and we hung around with him enough to know he wasn't gay. He wanted to get laid but dude had no balls nor confidence. He didn't even get head in his life. Just make sure with whatever you end up doing don't half ass that shit.
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Old 10-10-2008, 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted by TS_eXpeed
Maybe, maybe not.

I'm betting the latter.

I can't say I am going to wait till marriage, but I can bet money I'll at least be engaged before I allow the monster to enter any caves.
Your a total newb. You haven't had sex yet b/c you have no game.
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Don't listen to anyone man. It's OK that you have a small penis.
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Originally Posted by SupaRookie
I was 22 when I was with my 1st gf. Not everyone think about sex. However, once you have it, you'll crave for it.
Yep true, sometimes it's good sometimes it's bad. You end up messing up other people's lives just for your sake for having sex.
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^ How do you mean exactly?
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Old 10-10-2008, 01:14 PM
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Yep true, sometimes it's good sometimes it's bad. You end up messing up other people's lives just for your sake for having sex.
screwing around with an ex?
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Old 10-10-2008, 01:18 PM
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Orgy FTW! You'll thank me later :wink:
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Old 10-10-2008, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Doom878
If you want to have sex don't be like this dude I used to be friends with. At last check he was 26 and still a virgin. He really only had one gf and we hung around with him enough to know he wasn't gay. He wanted to get laid but dude had no balls nor confidence. He didn't even get head in his life. Just make sure with whatever you end up doing don't half ass that shit.
for one, i still flirt and if you met me its not like I act different than everyone else and let them know I am. Im not one of those introverted weirdos who when they get around a girl act weird as shit.
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Old 10-10-2008, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
for one, i still flirt and if you met me its not like I act different than everyone else and let them know I am. Im not one of those introverted weirdos who when they get around a girl act weird as shit.
well that's good.

reminds me of the nerd from grandmas boy who makes the robot noises...J.P. or someshit.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c7iaNFFynxM


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLZjP...eature=related

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Old 10-10-2008, 03:16 PM
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^how can he see me Yea, dont be like him....
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When you save yourself for the "special someone" and you get married, what happens if you get a divorce?

Do you:

a. Go back to "G.I. Joe w/Kung-fu Grip"?

-or-

b. Continue fucking with a new drive and determination now that you have bitten the apple and know what women look like naked?

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Old 10-10-2008, 08:48 PM
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ive seen plenty of woman naked and have had plenty of everything else except sex. I know whats up nd i do realize that by choosing this i am closing alot of potential girlfriends and fucks
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Old 10-10-2008, 08:55 PM
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That explains the "resident cutie" tag. No guy would come on an online car forum and write that unless you have tons of girl "friends" and are overly sensitive/gay

Oh, there is no hot neighbor that he can jump into bed with
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I didn't read all that to care to comment on your life.

I read all that in hopes of day dreaming my next beat.

Now post pics of the big booby friend already and make our times worth while!

Love you!
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screwing around with an ex?
Screwing with a decent girl just cuz. I mean, she may wanted more, now you just ruined her.
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Old 10-11-2008, 12:46 AM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
ive seen plenty of woman naked and have had plenty of everything else except sex. I know whats up nd i do realize that by choosing this i am closing alot of potential girlfriends and fucks

if this is the truth then whats the big deal?!?!
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
ive seen plenty of woman naked and have had plenty of everything else except sex. I know whats up nd i do realize that by choosing this i am closing alot of potential girlfriends and fucks
Dude....don't feel the need to justify yourself to a bunch of guys on a forum.

IMO, if you want to remain a virgin, then good for you. If you have the expectation than you will end up with a chick that choose to do the same, then you are eliminating a lot of potentially great women because of your views.

Make your decision and stick to it. Do not get defensive when people comment about your decision. You kinda left yourself out there for people to make comments. And they are not all going to be positive.
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