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Old 11-26-2007, 03:23 AM
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so i like this girl

So this weekend I was back in Miami and Hung out with this chick. I met her a while back actually, Our high schools were in the same building( yes two high schools in one building, really small high schools) and we happened to cross paths one day. So we chatted on the phone and all that throughout the summer but never got to see each other although I didnt think she was into me at all. So I get back and she says it would be funny if once again we didnt get to hang out. So I made a date on friday to go with her to the movies.
We meet up and things go well, well except the movie kind pissed us off( damn the mist!). Things are going good ( haha we even made a coke fountain with mentos, hey we had to improvise, the place was getting kind of boring).
So at the end of the night I walk her to her car, which is on the total opposite side of where i parked, she offered to drive me over to my car. so I get in the car and started tickling her which led into a kiss. Then we drove over to my car and talked for about 5 minutes and I got out and we went our ways. I called her the next day and talked to her for about 45 minutes.
Im back up at school now, six hours away. I think it sucks. Ok so now for a couple questions..

Should I have waited longer to call her?
If so what is the norm?
Should I not call her for a couple days and then give it a random ring?

So yea Im nervous and thinking about it too much and its a long shot,I live six hours away but it would be nice to have someone to hang out with over christmas break plus she may end up coming to my school next year.

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-I like a girl
- we went out i kissed her
- I live far away
- Dont know etiquette for calling
- Since i live far away dont know if its worth talking to her, even though i know it wont end up in a relationship but even a close friendship(and not benefit type friends) would be nice
Old 11-26-2007, 12:21 PM
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MIKE
How long do I wait to call?

TRENT
A day.

MIKE
Tomorrow?

TRENT
No...

SUE
... Tomorrow, then a day.

TRENT
... Yeah.

MIKE
So, two days?

TRENT
Yeah. I guess you could call it that.

SUE
Definitely. Two days. That's the
industry standard...

TRENT
(to Sue. shop talk)
... I used to wait two days. Now
everyone waits two days. Three days is
kinda money now, don't you think?

SUE
... Yeah. But two's enough not to look
anxious...

TRENT
Yeah, but three days is kinda the
money...

MIKE
(interrupting sarcastically)
Why don't I just wait three weeks and
tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and
found her number...

CHARLES
... then ask where you met her...

MIKE
Yeah, I'll tell her I don't remember and
then I'll ask what she looks like.
(pause)
Then I'll ask if we fucked. How's that,
Tee? Is that "the money"?

The guys laugh.

TRENT
Laugh all you want, but if you call to
soon you can scare off a nice baby who's
ready to party.

SUE
Don't listen to him. You call whenever
it feels right to you.

MIKE
How long are you guys gonna wait to call
your honeys?

TRENT & SUE
Six days.
Old 11-26-2007, 12:55 PM
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Just call her now so you can see her again at the X-mas break. G/L.
Old 11-26-2007, 01:04 PM
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screw it dude... imo there is no "standard"

if she let you have a kiss, and it seems like shes diggin u, go for it man

g/l x2

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if you have to ask us how long you should wait to call her, you already got one foot in the grave...you're thinking too much, now when you call her again, or dont call her at all you're gonna doubt yourself even more...good luck bro...btw, post 2 is incredible!
Old 11-26-2007, 03:09 PM
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yea haha thanks though and umm ill try to get some pictures up sooner or later hahaha
Old 11-26-2007, 05:15 PM
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I really havent doubted myself, just nervous and dont wana lay anything on too strong. Ok maybe it is a little doubt but you would be too if you didnt live remotely near the person(although I do go back often to visit the rents).
And its just I honestly havent really liked anyone in a long time, I mean Ive dated and what, but I guess I have high standards and every girl I meet tends to turn me off by like the third time we hang out, either that or Im just not digging them to begin with.
Old 11-26-2007, 07:07 PM
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Games & over-thinking ftl. If you like her, just call her.
Old 11-26-2007, 07:18 PM
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Yea just call her... update when you get laid. Lol jk...

Damn dude 6 hours away? Long distance relationships suck.
Old 11-26-2007, 07:21 PM
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ahhh to be 18 again....
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Dude...are you a virgin?

Nothing wrong with that...but #1....you have a nice car.....girls love nice cars......unless you're brain dead......the TL is a real chick machine.....nail her before someone with a shitty Mustrag gets her first. GOOD LUCK Dude!!!!
Old 11-26-2007, 07:33 PM
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Originally Posted by JetJock
Dude...are you a virgin?

Nothing wrong with that...but #1....you have a nice car.....girls love nice cars......unless you're brain dead......the TL is a real chick machine.....nail her before someone with a shitty Mustrag gets her first. GOOD LUCK Dude!!!!
actually i am haha.. theres even a whole thread about it
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Originally Posted by JetJock
Dude...are you a virgin?

Nothing wrong with that...but #1....you have a nice car.....girls love nice cars......unless you're brain dead......the TL is a real chick machine.....nail her before someone with a shitty Mustrag gets her first. GOOD LUCK Dude!!!!

SH!T...
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TL is not really a pussy magnet. What kind of girls you talking about?
Old 11-26-2007, 11:53 PM
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well i was going to call her today but i got extremely sidetracked with my studies. so hopefully i can drop her a call tomorrow
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Originally Posted by Walshstl
TL is not really a pussy magnet. What kind of girls you talking about?
"All kinds of ladies from the lowlyiest bus station skank to the most highest high class high scociety bus station skank" ~ Leon Phelps

but seriouly a chick told me my car (04TL) looks like it would be driven by a "fun loving guy that plans to eventually settledown" a good thing acording to her. but she also mention that would go for any "sport sedan" and if it has luxury then that just means they got money to boot.

INVISI- no better time like the present! dont stall around too much
Old 11-27-2007, 12:00 AM
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What the fuck do all of these threads have in common????

I met a chick, should I ask her out? Should I call her? You know what...NO! Don't ask her out. Don't call her. She wants someone who will call, who will ask her out, who will with "..."!!!! That isn't you, because you are on here asking shit that the chick would say "oh hell no, he's scared?" to if she knew about!

So man up, press up, and go up (in her)! Or leave us the fuck alone!!!

Can we get somebody in here with a story that starts out like:

"So I met this chick...I fucked her!!!!!" (Like Dice Clay) Hahahahahaha...

Yeah, mods should start a rule saying that if you don't fuck, or at least have a plan of attack on HOW to fuck her...you can't post! I guess then there will be nothing to read huh man? LOL!

Good luck OP...just fucking witcha, but you guys need it man...
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Originally Posted by darksom1
What the fuck do all of these threads have in common????

I met a chick, should I ask her out? Should I call her? You know what...NO! Don't ask her out. Don't call her. She wants someone who will call, who will ask her out, who will with "..."!!!! That isn't you, because you are on here asking shit that the chick would say "oh hell no, he's scared?" to if she knew about!

So man up, press up, and go up (in her)! Or leave us the fuck alone!!!

Can we get somebody in here with a story that starts out like:

"So I met this chick...I fucked her!!!!!" (Like Dice Clay) Hahahahahaha...

Yeah, mods should start a rule saying that if you don't fuck, or at least have a plan of attack on HOW to fuck her...you can't post! I guess then there will be nothing to read huh man? LOL!
Hey, it's a car forum, not Penthouse-- you're lucky some of us guys even know any girls, let alone try to date them.
Just imagine the material if this was a Star Trek or Star Wars forum...
Old 11-27-2007, 12:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Will Y.
Hey, it's a car forum, not Penthouse-- you're lucky some of us guys even know any girls, let alone try to date them.
Just imagine the material if this was a Star Trek or Star Wars forum...
Star trek chicks are hot! And Kirk was a pimp, with fucking the baddest alien written into his contract!! Bad analogy! LOL!
Old 11-27-2007, 01:04 AM
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@ the last three posts. You do have a point though, most of the threads on here are started by people with no game looking to get cheats .. I've had my moments though. No offense to anyone of course!
Old 11-27-2007, 05:26 AM
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Originally Posted by mystikk
@ the last three posts. You do have a point though, most of the threads on here are started by people with no game looking to get cheats .. I've had my moments though. No offense to anyone of course!
so is it back back square or up down triangle?
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Originally Posted by darksom1
What the fuck do all of these threads have in common????

I met a chick, should I ask her out? Should I call her? You know what...NO! Don't ask her out. Don't call her. She wants someone who will call, who will ask her out, who will with "..."!!!! That isn't you, because you are on here asking shit that the chick would say "oh hell no, he's scared?" to if she knew about!

So man up, press up, and go up (in her)! Or leave us the fuck alone!!!

Can we get somebody in here with a story that starts out like:

"So I met this chick...I fucked her!!!!!" (Like Dice Clay) Hahahahahaha...

Yeah, mods should start a rule saying that if you don't fuck, or at least have a plan of attack on HOW to fuck her...you can't post! I guess then there will be nothing to read huh man? LOL!

Good luck OP...just fucking witcha, but you guys need it man...
I like you.
Old 11-27-2007, 09:59 AM
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look, she is into you obviously. So don't play games and just call her. I did not read all the responses, but if you 2 do not live too far apart, then go out again. Cook her dinner and that way, you 2 are indoors and not too far from the couch or bed.

use protection!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Call her today/tonight. Don't play stupid games.

Christmas Break is coming soon, so use what time you have before that to plan what activities you're going to do with her when you go home. Use the time to your advantage...the more prepared the better.

If she kissed you, she undoubtedly likes you....a girl that doesn't like you won't kiss you.

You'll be fine. You're already light years ahead of this disaster.
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^^^hahahahahahahaha, that was the funniest thread i have ever read in my life...stopped reading after i felt like my own game with girls was getting tainted!! so basically invisible, you have already planted a seed, use the time b/w now and xmas break to help it develop into a plant...THEN FUCK THE PLANT!!
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Unless invisible's moral values have changed, there will be no plant fucking...
Old 11-27-2007, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Scottman111
Unless invisible's moral values have changed, there will be no plant fucking...

nah, the only way plant fucking will occur is if she magically turns into Megan fox and picks me up in Jazz (ya know the autobot who died) and since hes dead, its not possible.
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get your dick wet son, you'll like it!!
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did you call yet?
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not yet cause i know for a fact that she hasnt gotten outa school yet. cause her dance shit keeps her there til late as hell. plus on top of that i got a trig test tonight and i have to memorize sooo many equations, thats the only thing on my mind right now, which is a good thing cause i wont dwell

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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
not yet cause i know for a fact that she hasnt gotten outa school yet. cause her dance shit keeps her there til late as hell. plus on top of that i got a trig test tonight and i have to memorize sooo many equations, thats the only thing on my mind right now, which is a good thing cause i wont dwell

you could always call and leave a nice message. when you do talk to her, you'll be relieved and your head will be a little clearer.
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mmm goood call haha
Old 11-27-2007, 06:59 PM
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so i called her and talked to her for a couple minutes but she had to go cause she was getting on the train comin home from school
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
not yet cause i know for a fact that she hasnt gotten outa school yet. cause her dance shit keeps her there til late as hell. plus on top of that i got a trig test tonight and i have to memorize sooo many equations, thats the only thing on my mind right now, which is a good thing cause i wont dwell
While you are memorizing equations and shit, can you break out your slide ruler and your Texas Instrument Calculator so you can fiure out that:

DICK + PUSSY = SEX!!!!!!!!
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Let me ask you something. When she sends you IMs does she end them with "!!" or "!!!" ?
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Originally Posted by darksom1
While you are memorizing equations and shit, can you break out your slide ruler and your Texas Instrument Calculator so you can fiure out that:

DICK + PUSSY = SEX!!!!!!!!
the problem with that is, iirc this guy doesnt want any of that until some later event..
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Originally Posted by darksom1
While you are memorizing equations and shit, can you break out your slide ruler and your Texas Instrument Calculator so you can fiure out that:

DICK + PUSSY = SEX!!!!!!!!
and calm the eff down, you sound you're like about to go ape sh!t on someone
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and calm the eff down, you sound you're like about to go ape sh!t on someone
If you really believe that, you been reading this shit too long...
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actually im starting to realize something..every girl that has commented on how i speak ends up liking me and she always is saying how i says pants funny..cause i say pance


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