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Old 12-18-2007, 12:55 PM
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So I have a Pastor playing match maker

I get a call last night from the Pastor of a church I go to sometimes. I've known him for a while.
He proceeds to tell me he has this bible school teacher that he knows & would like to introduce me to her.

I'm like ok. So then he says that another church is having a singles X-mas dinner tonight & wants me to go & meet her there.

Now I have family in & already had plans with them tonight.

So do I blow off my family & go to this dinner?(they are leaving in the morning & I haven't seen them yet)

I already know I wouldn't be getting any since she's a church girl.

It's not a blind date, just a meet & greet with other people. I know none of them though.
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Old 12-18-2007, 01:10 PM
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Go see the family. You'll have other opportunities with the girl but not the family.

Or go to both? Cut out early at one of them.
Old 12-18-2007, 01:21 PM
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Go see the family. You'll have other opportunities with the girl but not the family.

Or go to both? Cut out early at one of them.
Agreed, try to balance it out. If you can't, this probably won't be the only time you get to meet her or other singles. It's not like they aren't local.
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If he has told you theres a party this late in the game - Id be hesitant. Why didnt he tell you sooner?

Id do the family thing.
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go to the dinner, grab the broad, bring her to meet the family....2 birds 1 stone
Old 12-18-2007, 01:56 PM
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be with your family...

If is meant to be with this girl you will have your chance
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Bring the family along...
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Originally Posted by spdy0001
be with your family...

If is meant to be with this girl you will have your chance
Agree 100%
Old 12-18-2007, 04:53 PM
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be with the family.

i'm sure there will be other chances to meet the girl.
Old 12-18-2007, 04:56 PM
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If you do go, don't go with any expectations. Like, don't expect an erection any time soon.
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Originally Posted by SakiGT
If he has told you theres a party this late in the game - Id be hesitant. Why didnt he tell you sooner?

Id do the family thing.
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Next setup can be on your terms/at your location...
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Yeah ok, Family it is.
Old 12-18-2007, 07:08 PM
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Family no doubt. Women can wait...
Old 12-18-2007, 07:18 PM
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A'zine relationship advisor thread ftw.
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dude it's the holidays. definitely spend it with your out-of-town family blood>water ftw!
Old 12-18-2007, 09:25 PM
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I would have dinner with the family and then have dessert at the church Christmas dinner (of course, you might want to tell the pastor that you already made plans with your family so you'll be late)
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You can meet her tomorrow when the family leaves
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Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
I already know I wouldn't be getting any since she's a church girl.
LOL...SKR8 (sp?) had a church girl in his thread. She came over and got pissy drunk and he didn't want to have sex with her. He also told her that he doesn't like sex like other guys.

I am just gonna go out on a limb and assume we don't have to tell you not to follow his lead when you DO finally meet her.
Old 12-19-2007, 03:01 AM
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Women can and will use any excuse/reason if and when they feel it is necessary to reject you lightly. Church/religion is very convenient. Not that it isn't possible she could be totally into her religion... But 97.4% (fact-checked for accuracy) of all good looking "church girls" will kneel at a pew and pray to your Johnson if they really dig you.
Old 12-19-2007, 05:30 AM
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you never know if you might get some......keep the catholic school girls in mind!
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Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
I get a call last night from the Pastor of a church I go to sometimes. I've known him for a while.
He proceeds to tell me he has this bible school teacher that he knows & would like to introduce me to her.

I'm like ok. So then he says that another church is having a singles X-mas dinner tonight & wants me to go & meet her there.

Now I have family in & already had plans with them tonight.

So do I blow off my family & go to this dinner?(they are leaving in the morning & I haven't seen them yet)

I already know I wouldn't be getting any since she's a church girl.

It's not a blind date, just a meet & greet with other people. I know none of them though.
Don't blindly assume that...but chances are if she does put out soon she'll turn into a stage 5 clinger pretty quickly.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
... But 97.4% (fact-checked for accuracy) of all good looking "church girls" will kneel at a pew and pray to your Johnson if they really dig you.

Oh, and , based on personal experience.
Old 12-19-2007, 04:45 PM
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Haven't you guys seen rescue me. Even NUNS can be converted...

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Old 12-19-2007, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception


Women can and will use any excuse/reason if and when they feel it is necessary to reject you lightly. Church/religion is very convenient. Not that it isn't possible she could be totally into her religion... But 97.4% (fact-checked for accuracy) of all good looking "church girls" will kneel at a pew and pray to your Johnson if they really dig you.

Old 12-19-2007, 05:41 PM
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Catholic girls put out too...

Mine does. She insists on marriage before we live together and will not kiss in public, but get her alone....

You go nail that Hussy!!
Old 12-20-2007, 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Will Y.

Oh, and , based on personal experience.
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