Excellent. Well i just got a call from my brother. my new front lip for the CL has Arrived so i will be putting that on when i get home then probaly chill until later go to the races tonight then go party at my friends appartment. going to be a good night

 

How many threads about this chick do you have to start to get a clue?

Do yourself a favor and read your past D&R threads...

Same shit. Different day. Move on.

 

i kniow

 

post her pics
move the fawk on

 

sometimes its hard to walk away from someone you really love and care for. I have been there and done that. Even though every thought in your head knows its the wrong thing to do by staying with them but alas you stay there in hopes that things will get better or go back to the way they were. But we all know that shit like that doesn't happen. (well at least for most of us) Im just glad to see that he seems to be taking it quite well. Atleast it wasnt a thread like My girl cheated and i still love her and done care and how do i get over the fact she slept with someone else.

 

Hopefully you won't cave in to her like the rest of the bitches here. The best thing to do now would be to find another chick to bone so at least you don't go back to her for the easy fuck.

Whatever you do don't puss out. Don't forget to post her pics also.

 

poetic.

 

And listen to the advice your getting.

 

Dude your just 21 years old. You'll meet someone better along the way. Move on and be OPEN and AVAILABLE. Once upon a time I was in your shoes. Its hard to leave someone you love but man its worth it. You'll meet somebody that will be more than you have expected.

 

I may be an asshole, but my bitches don't cheat on me.

 

get one last bang and then let her go.

 

Been there done that. He was being an idiot and he deserved to be left. He acted like a weirdo afterwards so I havent gone back to him. Does it suck? A bit. Should I have done any different? Hell no.

This is the kinda stuff Maury relies on for his show.

 

Well we havent seen eachother or really talked since monday night. We are having lunch today. Actually i am leaving now for lunch.

 

:ibyouthrowupyourlunch:

 

:ibyoubuylunchforherandtreatherlikeyourgf:

 

make sure you wear protection...hopefully she has washed down there too...wouldnt want a rotten lunch.

 

haha that too mike

 

Well that was a emotinal lunch. We agreed that would be the last time we see eachother. I dont know whats up this sucks though, i mean we both love eachother but love inst enough sometimes. If either one of us ever need anything we agreed to help caues of the mutual care for eachother. So its a fucked up situation. I miss her to death nothing seems satisfying, or bittersweet. i miss sleeping and rolling over to kiss her, but now she isnt there anymore. i actualy rolled over in my sleep last night to spoon and i relized no one is there

 

dood...quit sounding like a little bitch....suck it up

 

I guess Saki and I are the only ones that remember that Shaved22CL posts this shit every other month or so.......



P.S. At least with Nicky Pass is a different chick every time....

 

It's tough to let go of someone you love but you'll just hurt yourself if you continue to hold on to her and hope for things to change. Discipline yourself and cut ties. Stop the phone calling and meeting up!!!

I know it's easier said than done but for now, you need to stop looking back and just move on. Only time and distance can blur the ache.

 

So true!

 

A lesson I'm trying to learn.

 

I suspect the struggle you've composed for yourself is that you want to stay in the relationship but you also want to retain the anger and grief of her betrayal of her. What you do depends entirely on which emotional set is stronger.....

Certainly her behavior causes a great deal of mistrust, and I wouldn't suggest a casual "getting over it", but it would be worth trying to figure out whether her behavior is part of a pattern of behavior or was an abberition. If this atypical behavior for her, then it is far more straightforward than if you feel that there is a legitimate pattern that is emerging......I would note, parenthetically, that both men and women can have a "fling" when faced with the anxiety of a committment to a LTR emerges... that is not intended to be an excuse for you ex's behavior, but might be something of an explanation.

If you do want to return to this woman, then keep in mind that you really have to "let go" of your anger/mistrust (really a fear that she might do it again, fear that her love for you might not be strong enough to co-opt another betrayal) by processing it. I have no idea whether you have talked it through with her in any comprehensive way....

If you do want to hold on to your sense of betrayal, then calling a halt to the relationship was the wisest thing to do. That said, cut it clean, mourn the loss of the relationship privately (i.e. NOT with her) and sort out what your priorities are before you find yourself in another LTR.

I might suggest that, at 21, you have plenty of time to find another individual that you can share a life with. I would also suggest that, at 21, you haven't lived much, and the concepts of compassion and forgiveness are usually not youthful ones......but, that as you grow older, you may become more aware of your own fallibility and the fallibility of others.....

 

I hope someone somewhere is collecting all these comments for a book ^^