so i called this girl cause i really missed her and we havn't spoken in like 2 weeks except for a lil online bs

i hate how hindsight is 20/20 cause the whole call lasted 20 seconds of "im doing bio work, ill call you back"

all i can say is

live and learn

 

Damn I hate when that happens, you give in to the urge and nothing good comes of it. Will power man !

 

yes this is something i do not have :o

 

i saw my ex at school last week. i havent seen her since the breakup six months ago. she walked right by me and i had to look back just to make sure it was her. i think she knew it was me and she didnt turn around or said anything. i thought about calling her a few times, but i just know its a bad idea.

 

maybe we need one of those 10 step programs?

 

i think 10 step would be a liitle fast

wait a second, isn't it really really late in hawaii

 

Yeah, maybe 20 steps? lol.

hehe no, its only 7PM here. I'll probably be up until 4AM again...insomnia runs in my family

 

Use that willpower

 

I will if you will

 

I don't have any At least for certain things

 

I know

 

so today i made this promise to myself to just let her go and not think about her anymore and guess who sends me an instant message

 

Damn...sorry to hear that...but for some reason they always come back just when you are about to get on with life!

 

don't want to get your hopes up, but just because she IM'ed you doesn't mean she wants to get back together

 

i dont want to get back together, i want to get OVER, read the rest of the thread

 

You know, I e-mailed my 'ex' if you could call her that, just 2 days ago...no response, it really sucks too, shes the only one that it ever felt right with for the last 3 years. I feel your pain...they say there is no better way to get over than to get someone else, but it seems to be the hardest thing to do...

 

i was trying to say that she's probably not interested in hooking up.....but oops my bad. did you two split up on bad terms? i don't see the harm in trying to keep a friendship

 

nope, but its just wierd talking to her

i feel like "friends after dating" doesn't work in practice usually

 

update: i ran into her in school, which is the first time ive actually seen her in a few weeks and i just said "im late for class", which was true

i just didn't wanna bother with her cause it would have been wierd and all her firends were around, and its just a waste of my time

 

Good move!