So I finally ran into that girl that was TA'ing my chem course a year ago...we talked for about 20 minutes, then I had to run to class, conversation seemed to go well.

But when I asked her for coffee, she told me to go up to her office, and did not give me her number...should I be persistent and head up to her office with a couple of cups, head up and see if she is free for coffee, or just write it off?

 

Might as well stop by and say hi. No harm, no foul. Just say you were in the area.

 

Hmm, I think I've seen plently of videos on what happens when a student visits a TA's office.

 

What did she means when she told you to go up to her office? Out of context, it sounds a little..

 

Go...

 

just go...you have nothing to lose...

if you don't go, then she'll be like "okay, so he wanted to go get some coffee but doesn't have the balls to come up to my office"...

remember, you are the one that wants something here, so you gotta be more persistent about it than she has to...

 

Go to the office, but don't bring the coffee with you.

 

For a guy who claims to be shy and no catch, you seem to have more women..............................

GO! If it gets too threatening, leave the door open.

 

^ Only cause I already have an in with her...we saw each other once a week for a whole semester.

Put me at a party with a ton of new people, or at a bar, and its no dice, unless the women start to approach me...which has happened, like once.

I'll head up to her office on Monday, see what's what...unless I should give her a few more days?

 

ya give it a couple days...you don't want to seem "desperate"...it's very difficult to find the thin line between persistency and desperate, so make sure you play your cards right...and who knows, maybe over the next couple days, you might see her again