So, am I in there?
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So, am I in there?
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"Private parties" FTW. We went out once before for drinks, hit it off. Now it sounds like she wants some alone time with teh rockt. She is about 10 years my elder, but still looking good as hell...A milf if you will, though she isnt married and has no kids. Maybe that would be a cougar? 
Yea, slight problem though...I'm married
*SIGH*
So, as Yummy asks, WYHI?
I'll be bored to tears until then lol...
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 3:21 PM, in message <48173D09.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H. wrote:
Thursday sounds good to me.
Im open to any place. Where ever we go we can just ignore the stuffy ones and make our own fun.
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:33 PM >>>
Man, busy woman!! I'm in Irvine next Tuesday, so Wed/Thurs sounds good. Thurs even better.
Though this time we need to pick a place a little less "stuffy"...
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 2:23 PM, in message <48172F5B.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H. wrote:
I am only working 3 days this week. Off on Mondays, and I have a vacation day Friday.
I am going to San Diego early Friday and staying through Monday so I wont be at the Cinco de Mayo lunch anyway, so the lack of inviting beverages wont really affect me, but I am certainly not opposed to pretending a different day next week is Cinco de Mayo and having a beer. If your schedule works next week.
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:20 PM >>>
Well, lemme check here....hmmmm, no...nope...no...Oh wait, yea I'm good right NOW =]
Jeez, its only Tuesday =[ Kill me now...
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 2:14 PM, in message <48172D46.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
you + me + beer + tequila = much fun-o
so next time it fits the schedule, we go
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:13 PM >>>
You + Beer + Tequila = Mucho Fun-o
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 2:09 PM, in message <48172C20.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
ok either we drink beer, or you drink beer and I drink tequila and we have our own party, or we stick with the work party and drink water. hmmmmmm which would be more fun?
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:06 PM >>>
I don't even know why I said that. Senior Tequila and I don't get along.
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 2:04 PM, in message <48172B05.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
It is with me....lol
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:04 PM >>>
Bummer...Tequila ok?
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 1:57 PM, in message <48172943.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
That would have to be our private Cinco de Mayo party. Pretty sure they wont let us here...lol
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 1:55 PM >>>
Beer included?
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 1:51 PM, in message <481727D2.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
Monday is Cinco De Mayo,
Please see the attached flyer and join us for the Fiesta!
TCC Committee
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 3:21 PM, in message <48173D09.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H. wrote:
Thursday sounds good to me.
Im open to any place. Where ever we go we can just ignore the stuffy ones and make our own fun.
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:33 PM >>>
Man, busy woman!! I'm in Irvine next Tuesday, so Wed/Thurs sounds good. Thurs even better.
Though this time we need to pick a place a little less "stuffy"...
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 2:23 PM, in message <48172F5B.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H. wrote:
I am only working 3 days this week. Off on Mondays, and I have a vacation day Friday.
I am going to San Diego early Friday and staying through Monday so I wont be at the Cinco de Mayo lunch anyway, so the lack of inviting beverages wont really affect me, but I am certainly not opposed to pretending a different day next week is Cinco de Mayo and having a beer. If your schedule works next week.
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:20 PM >>>
Well, lemme check here....hmmmm, no...nope...no...Oh wait, yea I'm good right NOW =]
Jeez, its only Tuesday =[ Kill me now...
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 2:14 PM, in message <48172D46.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
you + me + beer + tequila = much fun-o
so next time it fits the schedule, we go
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:13 PM >>>
You + Beer + Tequila = Mucho Fun-o
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 2:09 PM, in message <48172C20.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
ok either we drink beer, or you drink beer and I drink tequila and we have our own party, or we stick with the work party and drink water. hmmmmmm which would be more fun?
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:06 PM >>>
I don't even know why I said that. Senior Tequila and I don't get along.
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 2:04 PM, in message <48172B05.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
It is with me....lol
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 2:04 PM >>>
Bummer...Tequila ok?
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 1:57 PM, in message <48172943.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
That would have to be our private Cinco de Mayo party. Pretty sure they wont let us here...lol
>>> Joe 4/29/2008 1:55 PM >>>
Beer included?
>>> On Tuesday, April 29, 2008 at 1:51 PM, in message <481727D2.75B2.004D.0@xxx.com>, Kimberly H wrote:
Monday is Cinco De Mayo,
Please see the attached flyer and join us for the Fiesta!
TCC Committee
Yea, slight problem though...I'm married
*SIGH*So, as Yummy asks, WYHI?
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You should only hit it if you want the Mrs to hit you with divorce papers.
You should stop the flirting or you'll wind up sucked into things and/or lead her on and/or leave amunition/incriminating evidence for the Mrs.
You should stop the flirting or you'll wind up sucked into things and/or lead her on and/or leave amunition/incriminating evidence for the Mrs.
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You are married 
...
The risk you are taking isn't worth the 1... 2... 3... full on sex nights then all the drama that follows...
If you were not married... i would say
...
the solution to the equation...
(+) 1 much fun-o (-) 1 Mrs. rockt = 0 Mrs. rockt
...The risk you are taking isn't worth the 1... 2... 3... full on sex nights then all the drama that follows...
If you were not married... i would say
... the solution to the equation...(+) 1 much fun-o (-) 1 Mrs. rockt = 0 Mrs. rockt
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Originally Posted by darksom1
WTF is the purpose of this thread?...
bet darksom1 says yes and explains how...
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Originally Posted by darksom1
WTF is the purpose of this thread?...
Here, a language you'll understand
"Yo homie, shoul'ds I gets up in DEM GUTZ?"
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Originally Posted by joerockt
To prove you're retarded? Figure it out...
Here, a language you'll understand
"Yo homie, shoul'ds I gets up in DEM GUTZ?"
Here, a language you'll understand
"Yo homie, shoul'ds I gets up in DEM GUTZ?"
Besides...you aren't asking a question - you already wimped out dude...no "guts" for you tonight! :shakehead
Check this out ya'll...some of these clowns perceive themselves as hecklers. Like this guy spooky3ce right here:
I'm glad you didn't understand the purpose of this thread...
bet darksom1 says yes and explains how...
bet darksom1 says yes and explains how...
Yo, a lot of people jock/heckle me. That's normal, cuz I'm the Lion up in here, and I must have jackals
...but dude...you are seriously following me from thread to thread? Hahahahaha! Daaayyyuummmm man, you may not have a life, but you sure as hell got a lock on my jock like a pitbull!!! WTF! Do you have me on RSS feed? You are like popping up out of man-hole covers and shit! Your life is mine young padawan! 
Damn it's good to be king!
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Originally Posted by fleshy
Oh.. I thought this thread was a question someone asked you ... as in
"... that's it? is it in? I can't even feel it "
"... that's it? is it in? I can't even feel it "
And
as to this thread.....
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Originally Posted by fleshy
Oh.. I thought this thread was a question someone asked you ... as in
"... that's it? is it in? I can't even feel it "
"... that's it? is it in? I can't even feel it "
Don't you have a pocket pussy to fuck?
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Originally Posted by fleshy
.. how about something not stupid that I can post a witty response to and continue talking about my E-Penis size?
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Well let me just throw out my thoughts on this..
You're stupid to post something like this on here.
Why? Because cheating is a bad thing; you're an asshole if you do it. If you're not happy with your marriage, and you're not being satisfied in all aspects, then it's time for a divorce; but you don't fuck around on the person you committed your life to. That's fucked. End it first before you start something new.
No one is going to tell to you go for it; and i'll tell you why... because everyone who reads their response is going to think they are assholes now too. What good person would encourage someone to cheat on his wife? Honestly, if someone on here would do it they aren't going to post about it.
I recommend you stop talking to this person, and figure out how you really feel about your current lifestyle/marriage/etc.
Hmm.. well maybe this is what you need.. a little reality check? Dunno.. but if posting this thread and having us all tell you NO has helped, glad to be of service.
You're stupid to post something like this on here.
Why? Because cheating is a bad thing; you're an asshole if you do it. If you're not happy with your marriage, and you're not being satisfied in all aspects, then it's time for a divorce; but you don't fuck around on the person you committed your life to. That's fucked. End it first before you start something new.
No one is going to tell to you go for it; and i'll tell you why... because everyone who reads their response is going to think they are assholes now too. What good person would encourage someone to cheat on his wife? Honestly, if someone on here would do it they aren't going to post about it.
I recommend you stop talking to this person, and figure out how you really feel about your current lifestyle/marriage/etc.
Hmm.. well maybe this is what you need.. a little reality check? Dunno.. but if posting this thread and having us all tell you NO has helped, glad to be of service.
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Originally Posted by fleshy
Well let me just throw out my thoughts on this..
You're stupid to post something like this on here.
Why? Because cheating is a bad thing; you're an asshole if you do it. If you're not happy with your marriage, and you're not being satisfied in all aspects, then it's time for a divorce; but you don't fuck around on the person you committed your life to. That's fucked. End it first before you start something new.
You're stupid to post something like this on here.
Why? Because cheating is a bad thing; you're an asshole if you do it. If you're not happy with your marriage, and you're not being satisfied in all aspects, then it's time for a divorce; but you don't fuck around on the person you committed your life to. That's fucked. End it first before you start something new.
Let him explain the situation first.
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
If you aint a cheater, why bother?
I'm not advocating cheating, but under certain circumstances I can certainly understand it.
I would argue that it's his wife's duty to please her husband. Marriage isn't a one-way street.
Granted, he could be an ungrateful bastard with a gorgeous woman at home, but we don't know that.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Brotha, you don't know if his wife is a fat bitch that let herself go in favor of a life of gluttony or an innocent princess worth defending. Passing judgment without knowing all the facts isn't smart.
Let him explain the situation first.
Let him explain the situation first.
That doesn't matter; breaking your commitment is a fuckhead thing to do. If she has decided to let her body go and become large and unattractive that does not warrant deception and cheating. That warrants you looking at your life and asking if you're really happy; if the answer is no, and theres no solution other than splitting up, you split up, and you go back out on the dating scene.
And i'm not trying to be smart; it's just the fucking truth.
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Fuck it...since it's out there now...let's run with it...what's wrong with your wife?
Why are you on hoes when you have a wife at home? Not putting out? Let herself go? Won't cook? What...?????
Why are you on hoes when you have a wife at home? Not putting out? Let herself go? Won't cook? What...?????
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Originally Posted by fleshy
That doesn't matter; breaking your commitment is a fuckhead thing to do. If she has decided to let her body go and become large and unattractive that does not warrant deception and cheating.
That warrants you looking at your life and asking if you're really happy; if the answer is no, and theres no solution other than splitting up, you split up, and you go back out on the dating scene.
But let me ask you this; if we knew his wife didn't care if he slept around, would you feel differently?
And i'm not trying to be smart; it's just the fucking truth.
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From: noitacol
Originally Posted by amisconception
But let me ask you this; if we knew his wife didn't care if he slept around, would you feel differently?
Doing it behind her back or doing it and having her consent [.. or full participation...] are two completely different things.
In regards to the other stuff; I doubt the vows included "and I promise to be 110 lbs for the rest of my life"
And again.. cheating is bad; that's not an opinion, it's a fucking fact - otherwise it would be called something like.. "making fun", not CHEATING.
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Originally Posted by fleshy
Yup; because she is aware of it, and won't be hurt in the process, lied to, etc.
Doing it behind her back or doing it and having her consent [.. or full participation...] are two completely different things.
Doing it behind her back or doing it and having her consent [.. or full participation...] are two completely different things.
Let's assume that she is not the same person now that he fell in love with. Let's assume she changed physically and they're no longer compatible.
Let's also assume that she knows she's different, and no longer as compatible as they once were.
Given these assumptions, could we conclude that it's possible she not only gave up her commitment to him (to be his wife, the woman he fell for), albeit indirectly, but also possible that she has no reservations about him sleeping around.
My point is that it's possible that it's not what you're making it out to be and that we should wait for him to explain the situation if he wants to. That's all
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What's funny is that not once did I actually say I would go through with this. Actually go down the path of cheating. Its simply an opportunity at this point. So would I actually go through with this? There is a very high probability that I won't.
Is it my fault that I connected with another woman? And how often does that really happen to any of us? I guess it really is simply the fact that the opportunity is there, and its exciting. Is that not human nature?
The biggest problem I see with this is the fact that not only does she work in the same office as me, I really don't know her that well, which is a huge risk in itself. And its the main reason why I wouldn't do it. A while back before I was married, I did the same thing and hooked up with a girl at work. We both had significant others, but we knew neither of us would ever go further then what it was. Hell, I was even at her eventual wedding to the same guy...But, I really knew this person and connected with her on a very deep level.
I'm not going to get into reasons. But I will say this: I love my wife, but its nice to know that my wit and humor can still bag one. That's all.
I do appreciate all the serious comments. Though, it makes me wonder if some of you really have such a high moral fortitude that you would NEVER in your life consider cheating, even if the opportunity was handed to you on a plate. Unless you've been put into this situation, your moral high horse is just a crock of shit.
Is it my fault that I connected with another woman? And how often does that really happen to any of us? I guess it really is simply the fact that the opportunity is there, and its exciting. Is that not human nature?
The biggest problem I see with this is the fact that not only does she work in the same office as me, I really don't know her that well, which is a huge risk in itself. And its the main reason why I wouldn't do it. A while back before I was married, I did the same thing and hooked up with a girl at work. We both had significant others, but we knew neither of us would ever go further then what it was. Hell, I was even at her eventual wedding to the same guy...But, I really knew this person and connected with her on a very deep level.
I'm not going to get into reasons. But I will say this: I love my wife, but its nice to know that my wit and humor can still bag one. That's all.
I do appreciate all the serious comments. Though, it makes me wonder if some of you really have such a high moral fortitude that you would NEVER in your life consider cheating, even if the opportunity was handed to you on a plate. Unless you've been put into this situation, your moral high horse is just a crock of shit.
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EDIT:
Just read what you wrote Joe...
You said probable, so you still rank as scum if your wife read this. You gotta remember playboy, it's only ok if your wife approves. Otherwise, it's cheating - unhappy or otherwise...
Just read what you wrote Joe...
You said probable, so you still rank as scum if your wife read this. You gotta remember playboy, it's only ok if your wife approves. Otherwise, it's cheating - unhappy or otherwise...
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Originally Posted by joerockt
What's funny is that not once did I actually say I would go through with this. Actually go down the path of cheating. Its simply an opportunity at this point. So would I actually go through with this? There is a very high probability that I won't.
Is it my fault that I connected with another woman? And how often does that really happen to any of us? I guess it really is simply the fact that the opportunity is there, and its exciting. Is that not human nature?
The biggest problem I see with this is the fact that not only does she work in the same office as me, I really don't know her that well, which is a huge risk in itself. And its the main reason why I wouldn't do it. A while back before I was married, I did the same thing and hooked up with a girl at work. We both had significant others, but we knew neither of us would ever go further then what it was. Hell, I was even at her eventual wedding to the same guy...But, I really knew this person and connected with her on a very deep level.
I'm not going to get into reasons. But I will say this: I love my wife, but its nice to know that my wit and humor can still bag one. That's all.
I do appreciate all the serious comments. Though, it makes me wonder if some of you really have such a high moral fortitude that you would NEVER in your life consider cheating, even if the opportunity was handed to you on a plate. Unless you've been put into this situation, your moral high horse is just a crock of shit.
Is it my fault that I connected with another woman? And how often does that really happen to any of us? I guess it really is simply the fact that the opportunity is there, and its exciting. Is that not human nature?
The biggest problem I see with this is the fact that not only does she work in the same office as me, I really don't know her that well, which is a huge risk in itself. And its the main reason why I wouldn't do it. A while back before I was married, I did the same thing and hooked up with a girl at work. We both had significant others, but we knew neither of us would ever go further then what it was. Hell, I was even at her eventual wedding to the same guy...But, I really knew this person and connected with her on a very deep level.
I'm not going to get into reasons. But I will say this: I love my wife, but its nice to know that my wit and humor can still bag one. That's all.
I do appreciate all the serious comments. Though, it makes me wonder if some of you really have such a high moral fortitude that you would NEVER in your life consider cheating, even if the opportunity was handed to you on a plate. Unless you've been put into this situation, your moral high horse is just a crock of shit.
