So this girl just broke up with her bf and now really likes me, but the thing is I don't like her. I think she is cool but I have no deep attraction to her and I definitely do not want to date her. I mean I was talking to her last week and all of sudden she deeply likes me. Now I am graduating in one month and will not be in the same town as her for a long time. So basically this girl really likes me and I don't like her. So I feel bad and I'm thinking of taking her out on a date, but I feel that is a douche bag move because I don't like her like that.

So should I tell this girl straight up I'm not feeling her or should I take her on a date and tell her then I don't want a girlfriend right now.

 

Talk to her.
Hint indirectly that she's not what you are looking for. If she doesn't catch your hints...be straightforward. You will feel worst if you gave her hope and shot her down.

 

Yea ok so I should make it look like I'm superbusy that I can't take her or should I just be like listen I don't want a gf right now especially in this town where I am only here for a month. Sorry I am not feeling you.

 

I'm not sure why you'd even take her out to discuss that you're not into her. Seems like you got a couple choices - either just tell her straight up you're not into her, or figure out that maybe the two of you want a one-month fling and will part company when you graduate. Just don't lead her on.

 

Eh I don't even want a fling with this girl she is a total bitch but for some reason she thinks I'm cool, but I don't even like her personality.

 

I wouldn't even spend money on the date then.

 

True but heres the problem I suppose to bring this other girl to the beach sometime soon but this girl is um much prettier and way more chill. But I don't want piss off the girl that likes me because shes a total bitch and I have class with her.

 

Nope.

 

^engrish please


and as far as your original question.
Honesty is the best policy IMO, but if she hasn't asked you out or anything i don't really see the point in you having to do anything at this point.
I don't even understand how you hang out with her, if you have no interest in her at all, don't like her personality, and think she's a bitch.
And by no means should you lead her on, it's way worse than the truth

 

Well she did ask me to hang out sometime but I brushed her off and told her I was busy. I left very quickly and told her I would let her know Monday.

 

tell her your :theghey: ?

 

Don't go on the date, if she asks you again, tell her you can't. She'll most likely get the hint. It doesn't matter if she has the same class you do, unless she's a psycho, it shouldn't be an issue IMO.

 

that's awful

 

If you don't like her in any way, there's no point in taking her out just so you can explain to her that you don't want to take her out.

 

are you serious OP? why waste your time and money.

 

seriously. why is this even a question? someone should slap you.

 

WTf, you don't even want rebound sex off of this one and you are wondering if you should take her out

 

Oh God, man the fuck up.

 

 

True its just my friends are pushing it hardcore but I don't have any attraction to her at all. I mean damn she doesn't make me feel special or make my heartbeat fast. So I'm just going to lie and say I have GF, which is one of my good friends who is a girl told me.

 

If shes hot I would get some rebound sex and end it there.

 

Answer: NO!

 

Eh shes ok I would say not worth even rebound sex, I have hotter girls I could bang a lot more easily.

 

ive done it. and yes i was lying

 

+1



poor kids these days

 

its a certified excuse. just tell her your really really into george michael. shell understand.

 

Why do you have to lie? She's a big girl, you don't need to protect her from feeling hurt (by the way, she'll feel worse if she finds out you lied to her).

Just tell her straight that you think she's a cool friend but you are not interested in going beyond friendship.

 

Ya i second that^^ be a man an tell her tha truth

 

Seriously? There is no way you are actually 23. Did you think lying about your age on a car forum would get you into bars or something?

 

Thats what a friend told me to do. And yes I'm 23 I go to the bars all the time too.

 

because 37 year olds dont lie...

 

You still live in England?

 

so if all of azine convinced you to let bennett give you a blowjob, youd let him?

 

HAHA no. Thats kind of :ghey:

 

Just do this when she comes knocking on your door:

*Edit*
Embed fail, here is the link:

http://www.hulu.com/watch/11488/family-guy-backup-guy

 

since ur a nice guy, and actually care about her feelings i say u need to talk to her and let her know what kind of feelings you have for her then take it from there, and if u decide u wana take her out on a date make sure that its very obvious that it is just on a casual date as friends, because u also dont want her to get the wrong idea and then get her feelings hurt, good luck!

 

If you think she's a total bitch I don't see why you're talking to her anyways. Just slowly gravitate away from her until you leave.

 

Case closed I have not been really talking to her I think she gets the point. So this thread can come to an end lol.