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Old May 1, 2015 | 01:23 AM
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Moving to Florida.. you don't say. Shocking.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 01:25 AM
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Don't send nudes to Taco.. He's Canadien.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 06:50 AM
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Ouch. Sorry to hear this happen to you.

So she's about 34-35 years old, right? After dating for a year, I'm wondering if she got back together with her ex-fiance because you don't appear to take your relationship seriously (based on your statement that she wants to put her life in order which I'm interpreting as "I want to get married and have kids soon"). I'm not saying what she did is right, however, you guys were not exclusive and you rarely saw each other. She probably felt that she technically has the right to see whoever she wants including her ex (remember, Ross slept with someone while he was on a break with Rachel in Friends?).
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Old May 1, 2015 | 07:38 AM
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When he said graduated, he meant from jr high, not hs.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 08:14 AM
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Old May 1, 2015 | 08:15 AM
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both are 28.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 08:18 AM
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Dude!!?

<<<< By default.


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Old May 1, 2015 | 09:27 AM
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at least it wasnt the CLAP
Or a Cleveland Steamer.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 09:28 AM
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Moving to Florida.. you don't say. Shocking.
I can't help it...chicks dig me.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 09:29 AM
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Dude!!?

<<<< By default.
I figured you pic traded with Ack.. He sends you nudes, you send him boner pic.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 09:29 AM
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I can't help it... crazy chicks dig me.
ffa
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted by Majofo
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Don't send nudes to Taco.. He's Canadien.
:sigh: You always leave me off the list.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Majofo
When he said graduated, he meant from jr high, not hs.
When I read it, that was my initial thought. But then, reason kicked in and told me that's just dum.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Majofo
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Don't send nudes to Taco.. He's Canadien.
Yeah, wtf?! I called dibs on them!!
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted by wndrlst
:sigh: You always leave me off the list.
Alright.. fine. Always taking our wimminz..

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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted by Majofo




Alright.. fine. Always taking our wimminz..

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I can't help it if I've got game.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:29 AM
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Yeah, wtf?! I called dibs on them!!
Canada gets sloppy seconds.. it's da rules.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:31 AM
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ua7 squad #69
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:31 AM
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No nudes. Sorry.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by Majofo
Canada gets sloppy seconds.. it's da rules.
I'm okay with that.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by justnspace
ua7 squad #69
John Smith..

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No nudes. Sorry.
Just take your phone out, snap a pic of your boner, send it to list. Not that difficult. Maker does this daily.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by edzyy
No nudes. Sorry.
Lies!!
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Majofo
John Smith..

he's so tan and dreamy.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted by justnspace
both are 28.
Ah! I just re-read OP's post and realized they graduated from high school in 2001 and not from college.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Ah! I just re-read OP's post and realized they graduated from junior high school in 2001 and not from college.
fixed
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by justnspace
he's so tan and dreamy.
more like ripped and creamy..
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Majofo
more like ripped and creamy..
those washboard abs tho
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Old May 1, 2015 | 02:33 PM
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you can also post a NON nude pic of her, i can usually tell if she is a keeper or not.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 09:11 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
remember, Ross slept with someone while he was on a break with Rachel in Friends?
*crickets*

I'd rather not remember that show, tbh.

Also inb4 OP sends out nudes of himself instead of his ex. Send pics of girl, OP. Or else consequences will never be the same.

Last edited by Rapture; May 1, 2015 at 09:13 PM.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:07 PM
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Nah.

In other news, she's trying to contact me via her sister. Apparently she realizes she fucked up badly. There is no coming back from that kind of disrespect, though.
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:12 PM
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wow for the OP to put up with that, that poontang must be solid platinum.

Seriousy OP quit thinking with your penis and start thinking logically. If she is messing around with the two of you at the same time you need to RUN! FORREST! RUN!
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Old May 1, 2015 | 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted by YeuEmMaiMai
wow for the OP to put up with that, that poontang must be solid platinum.

Seriousy OP quit thinking with your penis and start thinking logically. If she is messing around with the two of you at the same time you need to RUN! FORREST! RUN!
Man, it was. And those boobs were pillow soft.
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Old May 2, 2015 | 12:45 AM
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Originally Posted by edzyy
Nah.

In other news, she's trying to contact me via her sister. Apparently she realizes she fucked up badly. There is no coming back from that kind of disrespect, though.
And then (hypothetically) if she was back with you, she would realize yet again that she fucked up, go back to her ex-fiancé, and just indefinitely bounce back and forth between the two of you.

...

If this is the way she tries to get Eiffel Tower'd, then I'd say cutting off all contact with her was the best thing to do.
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Old May 3, 2015 | 07:53 AM
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Go be single, hang out with your buddies, bang girls but tell them you are not ready to date (and mean it dummy), and as gay as it sounds, get to be happy with yourself. Go do things you haven't done and do them alone sometimes, learn to be ok at a restaurant or movie by yourself and learn woman like the confidence and you don't need a relationship all the time.

As for this girl's behavior, it was acceptable back when you met but not anymore, RUN. Unfortunately, you will go back via the sister, her mom, hell probably even her current dude, and get hurt. We have all been where you are and telling you from experience, you are too old to deal with this crap, GL.

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Old May 3, 2015 | 07:58 AM
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Old May 4, 2015 | 01:07 PM
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As good as the pussy is, once you bust you'll hate your life if you had stayed with her.
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Old May 4, 2015 | 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by edzyy
Man, it was. And those boobs were pillow soft.
Get outta here with that, you don't even have nudes of her.

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Old May 4, 2015 | 01:31 PM
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platinum pussy
pillow tits

.. I would have believed him more if he said they were like bags of sand.
OP's gf is his hand, it left him for another man. Nothing to see here.
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Old May 4, 2015 | 02:09 PM
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You know what your problem is, OP? You did this:

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Old May 4, 2015 | 02:11 PM
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I also realized last Friday that I too "graduated" from JH in 2001.
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