View Poll Results: Would you have sex on a first date?
Yes, I do it all the time
33
17.01%
Yes, but only if I was really feeling the person
48
24.74%
No, Its against my religion or beliefs
12
6.19%
No, I wait to get to know the person better
36
18.56%
Not sure, it totally depends on the situation
65
33.51%
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Sex on a first date?
03-01-2006, 11:57 AM
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Sex on a first date?
Just curious, with seeing how much some folks seem to fall in love so quickly I'm wondering how many of you have had sex on a first date. If not how long do you wait?
03-01-2006, 11:57 AM
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I Never have
03-01-2006, 12:11 PM
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on to the next one...
I never have...
But, but that doesn't mean that I never would, I don't ever see it happening, but I can't rule it out...
I would have to go with "Depends on the situation".
By the way, I don't think having sex on the first date has anything to do with love...
But, but that doesn't mean that I never would, I don't ever see it happening, but I can't rule it out...
I would have to go with "Depends on the situation".
By the way, I don't think having sex on the first date has anything to do with love...
03-01-2006, 12:13 PM
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Never have. But, I'd wonder if the situation ever presented itself if I ever date again...
And oh, :ibte-pimpswhosaytheyhad1000sexon1stdates:
And oh, :ibte-pimpswhosaytheyhad1000sexon1stdates:
03-01-2006, 12:16 PM
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on to the next one...
Originally Posted by Yumchah
And oh, :ibte-pimpswhosaytheyhad1000sexon1stdates:
FYI: Xeno is no longer around...
Oh, and before we forget Nicky Pass, dry humping doesn't count.
03-01-2006, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted by bgsm1th
Oh, and before we forget Nicky Pass, dry humping doesn't count.
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I've done it in the past, but I think it totally depends on the situation.
03-01-2006, 12:18 PM
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Originally Posted by bgsm1th
FYI: Xeno is no longer around...
Oh, and before we forget Nicky Pass, dry humping doesn't count.
Oh, and before we forget Nicky Pass, dry humping doesn't count.
It usually takes 3 dates on average.
03-01-2006, 12:20 PM
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I've never had sex on the 1st date... I'm kinda shy at start... and would never be that aggressive, maybe if she was REALLY forward...
...this subject was brought up on "Love-Line" the other night and Dr. Drew said that though sex on the first date isn't a wise thing... but it doesn't necessarily mean it's doomed from the start... there was a time when that would've been the case, but times changed
...this subject was brought up on "Love-Line" the other night and Dr. Drew said that though sex on the first date isn't a wise thing... but it doesn't necessarily mean it's doomed from the start... there was a time when that would've been the case, but times changed
03-01-2006, 12:28 PM
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Wouldn't turn it down, but I would also have no illusions of that relationship being more then just sex - at this point in my life I wouldn't be looking for that type of relationship anymore.
03-01-2006, 12:30 PM
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Wasn't this topic already discussed a while back?
Normally, I wouldn't respect a gal if I had sex with her on the first date. Right or wrong, that's how I feel. I guess I subscribe to the stereotype that if a gal puts out too early, she is usually trying to fill an emptiness/void or lacks self-respect. So there's something amiss, usually of the emotional variety ... and my "damaged goods" radar would be screaming.
But it's all relative. For example, a friend of mine went on a first "official" date with a dude she had known and had been friendly with for quite some time. So yeah, they had sex after this "first" date but I didn't brand her with the stigma I usually reserve for low-self-esteemed, sleep-with-anything whores. Just kidding.
Normally, I wouldn't respect a gal if I had sex with her on the first date. Right or wrong, that's how I feel. I guess I subscribe to the stereotype that if a gal puts out too early, she is usually trying to fill an emptiness/void or lacks self-respect. So there's something amiss, usually of the emotional variety ... and my "damaged goods" radar would be screaming.
But it's all relative. For example, a friend of mine went on a first "official" date with a dude she had known and had been friendly with for quite some time. So yeah, they had sex after this "first" date but I didn't brand her with the stigma I usually reserve for low-self-esteemed, sleep-with-anything whores. Just kidding.
03-01-2006, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted by PillsburyChoboy
Wasn't this topic already discussed a while back?
I did a search but I couldn't find anything.
03-01-2006, 12:48 PM
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No incling of a relationship in the future? - Sure I would.
Relationship kind of girl? - No, I'd wait.
i'm with you on this one
Relationship kind of girl? - No, I'd wait.
Originally Posted by Tireguy
Wouldn't turn it down, but I would also have no illusions of that relationship being more then just sex - at this point in my life I wouldn't be looking for that type of relationship anymore.
i'm with you on this one
Just seems right that way.
03-01-2006, 03:55 PM
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Eh... depends on the situation. If we just really hit it off and it feels right, she gets the sausage and she'll get another call.
But a lot of guys have a hard and fast rule against dating a girl they bang on the first date, so they either don't do it, or leave it as a 1 nite stand.
But a lot of guys have a hard and fast rule against dating a girl they bang on the first date, so they either don't do it, or leave it as a 1 nite stand.
03-01-2006, 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
No, I like to have something to look forward to.
If she puts out on the first date then there wont be a 2nd cuz then i already got what i wanted.
If she puts out on the first date then there wont be a 2nd cuz then i already got what i wanted.
It's okay, we won't laugh.
03-01-2006, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
No, I like to have something to look forward to.
If she puts out on the first date then there wont be a 2nd cuz then i already got what i wanted.
If she puts out on the first date then there wont be a 2nd cuz then i already got what i wanted.
03-01-2006, 04:46 PM
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One of the current girls i'm dating we had sex on the 1st night and 3years later where still together. Actually by total accident we had anal sex too, and I busted in her ass lol....
03-01-2006, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted by F900
Actually by total accident we had anal sex too, and I busted in her ass lol....
someone should write this down...its one of those sentences thatt probably won't be written/said again for at least a few years
sex on the first date is alright but waiting a few dates is almost like a non sexual foreplay...building up the tension...i prefer that
03-02-2006, 01:25 AM
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depends on the situation. But most of the time, no.
wow, still together, thats, different.
Originally Posted by F900
One of the current girls i'm dating we had sex on the 1st night and 3years later where still together. Actually by total accident we had anal sex too, and I busted in her ass lol....
wow, still together, thats, different.
03-02-2006, 04:46 AM
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Had sex with my wife of 9 years on the first date.
03-02-2006, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Yumchah
So, you're essentially trying to say is that 98CLChick cockblocked you on the first date...
It's okay, we won't laugh.
It's okay, we won't laugh.
Depends on the situation (how drunk I am and if i would consider pursuing things further).
03-02-2006, 11:59 AM
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I agree with most ppl on here. Even though i have had sex on the first "date/meeting", if thats what you want to call it, I dont think i would if i was looking at the girl for a serious relationship. In my past i have only dated seriously one girl i have slept with on the first night. We dated for 8 months and then that was it.
03-02-2006, 03:29 PM
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I had sex on a first date once. we met on the net and chatted on the phones a couple weeks until she wanted to meet me. So we did and I bang the crap outta of her. did some really nasty shit too. Ahhhh.... memories!!
03-02-2006, 04:20 PM
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if a girl has sex on the first date she'll never be more than just a fuck to me, she'll probably end up being a booty call or maybe just leave it at an ONS
03-06-2006, 07:35 PM
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I've had sex on the first date quite a few times, sometimes within a couple hours of the date. Interestingly enough I never go after it, I might open up an opportunity but I leave the decision up to the female.
03-06-2006, 09:11 PM
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It's happened to me, but it's def not the norm.
I like what was said earlier, that if you wait, it builds a bit of tension and it ends up being much better.
I like what was said earlier, that if you wait, it builds a bit of tension and it ends up being much better.
