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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 09:38 AM
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Second trip to Vegas in two weeks... Is it love?

This time to Vegas, I went with my roommate, our friend Ashley (who is a guy) and a girl named Kristi- who works with Ashley. We booked the trip the same day that I went to Vegas two weeks ago. This time, it was budget oriented and only cost about $380/person for airfare and two rooms at Bally's.

I woke up with food posening the day of the trip (last Friday). That really destroyed most of my eating pleasures that Vegas has to offer. I was fine with only a few bites of food a day and some booze.

Anyways, Kristi and I spent a lot of time together. She is the first redhead (well, strawberry blonde anyways) that I have ever been physically attracted to. She has a banging body, she is my age (25), and she is SMART! She is a Geo-Physicist and has 2 Masters degrees, and she is getting ready to go back to school for her PhD.

We really hit it off the entire trip except for late into the last night. There was a couple of hot 21 year old blondes and of course I had to be-friend them. I guess I didn't know how much I liked Kristi because I wouldn't of done it if I could've forcasted how she would have reacted. She didn't really say much about it the day we came home but she was much more distant. My roommate told me she probably thinks I am a player now so she isn't interested. I'll be damned if I let this one get away. I can't stop thinking about her and I haven't had these same feelings for any other chicks that I have met here.

Anyways, I'm afraid to call her because I actually like her... a lot! She was even in my dreams and all we were doing is talking. Talk about wierd shit!

Anyways, here are a couple of pics...

Ashley, Kristi, Becca, and Me.



Kristi



Me and the wierd hot blondes...


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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 09:48 AM
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the only girls who like players are the ones who will play you themselves.

Most girls with half a brain stay away from players.
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 09:49 AM
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Kristi > Blondes, but then, I have a thing for redheads...
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 10:27 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
the only girls who like players are the ones who will play you themselves.

Most girls with half a brain stay away from players.
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 11:42 AM
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Nice.

Go get her...
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 11:59 AM
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 12:07 PM
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 12:39 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
the only girls who like players are the ones who will play you themselves.

Most girls with half a brain stay away from players.
most girls don't have half a brain
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 12:50 PM
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wait, wait, wait...

So youre trying to say youre not a player???

That youd change youre playing ways for this chick that just met???

Something is missing in this story.
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 02:29 PM
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Originally posted by sarlacc23
wait, wait, wait...

So youre trying to say youre not a player???

That youd change youre playing ways for this chick that just met???

Something is missing in this story.
You are correct.
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 02:54 PM
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Originally posted by Ashburner
You are correct.
Well, damn it, fill us in! Or are you say yes to both those questions?
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 03:21 PM
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Well, damn it, fill us in! Or are you say yes to both those questions?
My relationships where love has been involved have been felt in my heart. The last four years with my ex-wife were great, before that 2 1/2 years with my first true love. Women may come and go in between my loves, and I can feel what is real and what is just for fun.

The last four months have been just for fun. Now I feel something entirely different with Kristi. You know, that warm buzz you wake up with because your heart is tingling. That's the ultimate feeling that I want... the rest was to just keep my mind off of the lonliness.

I can see a long term relationship with this woman. She stimulates my mind, and that rarely happens for me. Yes, I may be falling- too fast.
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 04:03 PM
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most girls don't have half a brain
Yup. that is true. That is why women were made to be very beautiful, or they wouldnt get anywhere in life.
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 04:05 PM
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Originally posted by Ashburner
My relationships where love has been involved have been felt in my heart. The last four years with my ex-wife were great, before that 2 1/2 years with my first true love. Women may come and go in between my loves, and I can feel what is real and what is just for fun.

The last four months have been just for fun. Now I feel something entirely different with Kristi. You know, that warm buzz you wake up with because your heart is tingling. That's the ultimate feeling that I want... the rest was to just keep my mind off of the lonliness.

I can see a long term relationship with this woman. She stimulates my mind, and that rarely happens for me. Yes, I may be falling- too fast.
Then by all means go for it. and good luck.
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 04:29 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
Yup. that is true. That is why women were made to be very beautiful, or they wouldnt get anywhere in life.
lol.

that reminds me of a joke:

"Why did God give women breasts?

So men would have a reason to talk to women"
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 04:42 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
Yup. that is true. That is why women were made to be very beautiful, or they wouldnt get anywhere in life.

damn no wonder I am getting no where fast
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 04:46 PM
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dude your stripper g/f is much hotter than kristie imo.
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 04:53 PM
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Originally posted by Gilgamesh
Kristi > Blondes, but then, I have a thing for redheads...
When there's red on top there's a fire in the hole!!


(yeah i like redheads too--wild)
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 05:09 PM
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Originally posted by CL Hype
dude your stripper g/f is much hotter than kristie imo.
I'm still seeing her but she has a lot of baggage and not much going on upstairs...
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 05:56 PM
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I'm still seeing her but she has a lot of baggage and not much going on upstairs...
as is the case with most strippers,
I dated one from ASU for almost a month (I'm sure she still fucked other guys, cause I was still fucking other girls) at any rate she was fucking dumb as a day is long, and was so baby-emotional and complained about everything. I couldn't stand it, even though her body was amazing.
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 07:36 PM
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Old Jan 7, 2004 | 10:07 PM
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damn no wonder I am getting no where fast
im talking about women with no brains, not you. :P
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 01:05 AM
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Originally posted by PavDog
When there's red on top there's a fire in the hole!!


(yeah i like redheads too--wild)
Does the carpet match the curtains? lol...
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 03:15 AM
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im talking about women with no brains, not you. :P

haha I know, I was kidding
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 07:13 AM
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Ash,
I assume Ms. Kristi is in the O&G business since she is a geophysicist. I am a geologist/mining engr by trade and know many people in the Houston O&G business. My advice to you is follow your heart and persue this woman. If she was distant because of the way you were flirting then it is obvious that she has feelings for you too. Be honest with her and truly let her know how you feel. Don't give up and let this one slip away. I didn't and I have been married for 24 yrs. now & don't regret it a bit.

BTW, looking forward to your house-warming party.

Pic taken on the Stratosphere? Did you do the coaster & rocket ride on there?
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 07:14 AM
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damn no wonder I am getting no where fast
Geisha,
If I wasn't happily married I would be in Hawaii in a Texas two-step courting you.
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 08:22 AM
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Geisha,
If I wasn't happily married I would be in Hawaii in a Texas two-step courting you.
ALOHA!!
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 10:18 AM
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 12:00 PM
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Ash,
I assume Ms. Kristi is in the O&G business since she is a geophysicist. I am a geologist/mining engr by trade and know many people in the Houston O&G business. My advice to you is follow your heart and persue this woman. If she was distant because of the way you were flirting then it is obvious that she has feelings for you too. Be honest with her and truly let her know how you feel. Don't give up and let this one slip away. I didn't and I have been married for 24 yrs. now & don't regret it a bit.

BTW, looking forward to your house-warming party.

Pic taken on the Stratosphere? Did you do the coaster & rocket ride on there?
Hey Miner,

You are right in your assumptions. She emailed me last night and said she wasn't mad and asked about the pictures. I told her she will get the pics and then I told her that it was wierd waking up and realizing that I wasn't going to get to spend time with her today. I then proceeded to ask if she would like to go out with me sometime. I haven't heard back from her yet.

The house closes on the 29th of this month. I'm definitely looking forward to the house warming party... it's going to be crazy.

Yeah, we rode the rides on the Strato... scared the shit out of me being afraid of heights and all. Also, my stomach was already quesy from the food poisoning- but it was still fun.
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 02:45 PM
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Yeah, we rode the rides on the Strato... scared the shit out of me being afraid of heights and all. Also, my stomach was already quesy from the food poisoning- but it was still fun.
So which buffet needs avoiding?
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 03:07 PM
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So which buffet needs avoiding?
haha... nah, i got it before i left. Not a fun plane flight.
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Old Jan 8, 2004 | 03:35 PM
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ALOHA!!
Things might have slowed down since u got a man now.
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Old Jan 9, 2004 | 02:00 PM
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Update... She denied me Anyone know of any tall bridges in the Houston area?
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Old Jan 9, 2004 | 02:04 PM
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For what? A date, a 2nd trip to Vegas, Your Love? On what terms bro
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Old Jan 9, 2004 | 02:14 PM
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Update... She denied me Anyone know of any tall bridges in the Houston area?
doooooooooooood...you OK?
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Old Jan 9, 2004 | 02:23 PM
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doooooooooooood...you OK?
She might be playing hard to get (don't want to be grouped with ur conquest list over there). Send flowers and shit. Show her how much u love her. Chicks dig that shit.
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Old Jan 9, 2004 | 04:36 PM
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For what? A date, a 2nd trip to Vegas, Your Love? On what terms bro
No date... she said she is not dating anyone right now. She needs to be alone for a while and get over some past relationships... I don't really know the story behind it but I'm still sad.

I don't understand why I can't choose the women I want to date... I always get denied. Yet, if I woman chooses me, I will always at least give it a try.
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Old Jan 9, 2004 | 09:11 PM
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Originally posted by Ashburner
No date... she said she is not dating anyone right now. She needs to be alone for a while and get over some past relationships... I don't really know the story behind it but I'm still sad.

I don't understand why I can't choose the women I want to date... I always get denied. Yet, if I woman chooses me, I will always at least give it a try.
I felt that way before. I think most chicks decide right away if they going to have a relationship with a dude right away.
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Old Jan 9, 2004 | 10:20 PM
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oh my GOD! the vegas-zoro strikes again. Please post pics of your exploits
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Old Jan 9, 2004 | 11:24 PM
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I felt that way before. I think most chicks decide right away if they going to have a relationship with a dude right away.
No worries... she will be mine. I can charm her into my life. I just didn't want to work so hard
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