Alright here's the situation. There is this hott girl in my school, shes a junior and im a senior. She's not in any of my classes, and the only time i really see her is when we're walking the opposite way in school. Now, I just found out her name and her s/n from a friend. How do i go about talking to her, because there is no real opportunity to talk to her at school? Thanks in advance

 

Soooo.....your question is how do you pick up a girl????

Find a common interest.

 

Bruin, you can't send her an IM unless you got her sn from her. The only thing that would be worse is if you called her without getting her number from the source. You have to be ballsy and just talk to her. It's never easy to break the ice, but if you want to get in there, show some balls, dude. The key is to be smoothe. Don't ever say some shit like, I've been noticing you for a long time now and...that bullshit will get you nowhere but stalker status. Come up with some good conversation. Ask her some school related question to break the ice. Do you happen to know Principal skinner's office hours? Do you know where they're giving out SAT tutorial classes? I don't know high school shit as I'm outa the loop, I just bang high school age chicks, but that's another story. Go for it, Bruin, and if you need more help, send me a PM.

 

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thanks for the advice dean...yeah i wasnt planning on im'ing her or calling her cell without her giving it to me. But the tough part is just breaking the ice, i'm usually shy when i first meet people but after a lil bit i'll be fine.

 

Bruin, you can do this, dude. The number 2 mistake guys make is saying some stupid shit to a girl and losing his opportunity forever with her. Want to know what the number 1 mistake is? Not talking to her at all out of fear of rejection. Let's get rid of these 2 mistakes, ok? First of all, just be confident and stop worrying about rejection. The worst thing that could happen to you is she either ignores you altogether or she gives you negative feedback in which case you move on to the next victim (girl). The second thing is not to say some dumb shit to her. Just be smoothe, that's all. Ask her about school stuff or common friends or anything that doesn't look like a come on. The key is not to make it look like a come on. You can do this, bro, just be confident.

 

Easy man. Whoever gave you her S/N probly knows her, right? Thats your in right there. I mean most ppl meet and/or start to date someone from mutual friends. If i think back, most of the gf's I had came about from meeting them through mutual friends. Get yourself into a social situation where your out with your friend that knows her and her as well. At that point it would just be rude to not say hi. The hardest part like you said is the initial ice breaker. Once youve done that, tkae it from where the Love Doctor left off. Good luck, brutha

 

hit her up on AIM... if she has attraction to you she'll be flattered you found out her SN... at that point just get in good and get the phone #

 

Dude bump into her or something. You gotta do something so u 2 can meet without it being weird or stalkerish.

 

Man, this one is too easy.

Either "build" her a cake or draw her picture.

 

^^^ Or sunting

 

thats exactly what i was told not to do haha i donno....i have her s/n

 

Invite her to a party.

 

Bruin, remember when I told you to do this?

 

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Anyway, back to the topic:

BstonBruin: Here's the deal, you gotta lay the groundwork first man, you can't simply jump into it and IM her right away . You said you see her at school sometimes right? Well the next time you do, say hello to her. Show her that you notice her. But don't use her name right away cause she'll wonder how you got it in the first place. If she has some interest in you she'll make it a point to say hello to you when she see's you. She'll show interest if there's something there. After you do this we'll work from there.

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~ B.Good :boogie:

 

hes right, whoever gave you her screen name obviously knows her and probably already said something to her,,, youre best line,,,, "hi, my name is......, "

 

yeah you should go over to her house and camp out on her front lawn,,,, when i do that it ALWAYS

 

gets the girls attention!!

 

find out who her friends are, see if you know any of them and get in that way, thats the way i alwayys used to do it, now i just ask them if they wanna watch a movie in my car with me, works everytime

 

I'm gonna agree with iambgood. First, just say hi in passing...see if you get a positive response. If she smiles too, you're in. Next step is just to say excuse me, maybe ask a question. Does she play any sports or something or do you know the group she hangs out with? If she plays sports, make sure to flatter her. That's my advice.

 

haha damn dood your situation sounds just like mine haha. I was digin this chick but i didnt kno her or anything and we had no classes cause shes younger than me. Yea just try and see her inbetween classes when you can, you know plan it so you happen to walk near it and just say hi. If she thinks anything of you she will respond. Then just do this the next day and see if she remembers you, if she does, bam tell her your name, ask for hers, ask if shes on any sports teams or what not. Pretty much all i did and now its chill. Oh yea if shes on a sports team just like slobeatz said, complimentsssssss. But yea i know how hard it is sometimes, haha jus suck it up and tap it .

 

thanks for the advice everybody

 

if you want any advice from a chick....

Please don't IM her without asking her first. It honestly scares the crap out of me when people do that. Just go up and talk to her, be nice, and I'm sure she'll you!

 

Or accdientally stop on the back of her shoes, I did that to a hot sophmore today and the opening is there say sorry and them something like hows school going or something. Dont be a pussy ur a senior you wont be here next year if she is freaked out move on.

 

Christoph, listen to this woman, she knows what she's talking about.

 

it does work rofl