So I was a a debate gathering tonight and I met an attractive young lady. She told me where she works (actually at school, in the library) So at the end of the night, she said that I should stop by and say hello sometime. When? How long...3days a la Swingers (that would be Monday) or go in soon?

I am definitely interested...

 

How many times have I said not to go by the movies, Gilg? Go in there right away and ask her to hang. You said yourself, you're not into games, so why do you want to play a waiting game with her? What's my motto, Gilg? Confidence! Go in there and be confident, and if she plays games, you know my next motto; ditch her and move on. It's better to get your answer right away then to wait around for nothing. You hate games, so don't play them.

 

listen to all the pimps on the board, they say to go by that movie

 

All right all right

 

I didn't see that movie, but I know that most hollywood writers are gay and know nothing(the gay ones anyway), about male to female relationships and pursuits.

 

go confident like he said....but dont go looking corny and desperate girls smell that....

 

i have never seen it either, but anytime someone posts a thread like this, or mine for example a few months back, alot of people said to do exactly what happened in the movie.

 

I agree with Dean, if you're not into playing games nothing should be stopping you from going right away Good luck!

 

i would wait two days, let her marinate, i hate waiting, but you dont want to push up on her, i found that when u push on a girl she gets bored quickly and looses interest, when you be patient and wait she calls you wanting more. good luck wit that

 

If you two are real crazy about one another meeting up the next day isn't a big deal. This whole waiting thing is stupid...

I know many people who met and have never been apart, they are happily married today.

So if you are playing the "im gonna nail you and then not see you again" game then do this crap. Otherwise it's a waste of time.

 

If it was the other way around and you told her to stop by where you were at... wouldn't you like it if she came by today?

Count on that she is feeling the same way. Go today.

 

i agree w/ batin.

if you're confident, you can pretty much call whenever you want. be charming. CHARM overrides all characteristics. Charm will get you the girl and charm will let you keep her.

if you're not so confident, you can be a douchebag and wait a few days. personally, i hate that.

and if she doesn't like you, you would have called her the next day and found out sooner so you can go out and look for someone else instead of pining after her for no reason.

 

I'd wait a day and half. If you saw her last at night, say on saturday, go see her Mon. afternoon. dont wanna seem too anxious.

 

 

i think you should go see her right away, no reason to wait if you are interested

 

theirs no right or wrong thing to do...........do what you want to do, if she wants to hang out sweet, if she wants to pick up the phone sweet, but if u call like twice and she never calls back, move the fuck on.

 

You crack yourself up.

 

I hope you went to see her already, he who hesitates masturbates....

 

Went twice in fact, she was not there either time.