read your fucking post...you commented directly to me...even said "forgive me if I'm being forward". I don't think that is the only way you could take it what I said. I was just pointing out the rewards, since someone said they didn't know about them. And who gives a shit if I or someone I know can spend 30k a year at NM? You questioned me directly about how much I expect a man to spend on me a year. If you didn't think it was some inordinate amount, why would you have asked? Bottom line, guys DON'T spend a lot of money on me, not anymore anyway, and I don't have a problem with that.

I starting to despise money since its sort of a problem with my current bf. Thats why I started this thread in the first place.

 

Geisha, sounds like i hit a sore spot eh? Well sorry but i asked specifically howmuch do you make / (meaning or to the layman) how much do you expect a man to spend...

You also contradict yourself...
Imma end this with points for you as good will, but i stand by what i said, if i misunderstood your first post i apologize. As for the quote on golddigging women, you know it's true and i hope you know that that was not directed at you.

 

How did I contradict myself? As for your pity points you can keep them. I do know you were asking how much I expect a man to spend, and I don't expect him to spend anything on me. If it came down to it I'd be content paying for my own things with my own money.

To clear what I said up:

When I said that I don't have a problem with him not spending money on me I MEANT that he doesn't have to buy me gifts blah blah.

When I said that money is sort of a problem with my bf and I, I was talking about how we are trying to find a way to split expenses fairly. It wasn't about him spending money on me, its more about how we should split spending for "us" etc.

 

Wait a minute did think that i meant how much do you make as in your personal income or how much you force a man to spend on you? because i meant thte former, that might be the misunderstanding.

 

lol I thought u meant how much I expect a man to spend on me. Theres the misunderstanding

 

So apology accepted then?

 

No apology accepted



































LOL j/k you
j/k

 

of course

 

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my mom worked at NM for 5 years...30k/year is nothing...a lot of people would spend that much in a couple of months, just cause they can

she met some of the most shallow people on earth there...but then again the commission was good

 

depends on the girl... my current girlfriend believes in sharing expenses...

other girlfriends i've payed everything for...

 

I can tell you how it used to be in my marriage...We split everything down the middle...except when it came to my kids...I paid for all that...If I bought groceries without him, I would give him the receipt and he would pay for half....Dark and I haven't really worked out a system yet...so far I cook dinner at my house on my days off and I usually buy the groceries for it...he doesn't really help me out that much. Just gets there in time for dinner!!

 

I pay for the mortgage, house bills, and personal bills. She pays for the groceries, her bills, and our party money.....she also takes wonderful care of our child

 

This is the way it needs to be!

 

That's essentially what most relationships are. Guy takes girl out to eat, girl puts out. Guy makes easymac, girl does not put out.

 

I guess it works out that way for certain types of relationships, which is sad. I'd never sell myself for a meal Steak < Dignity. Don't get me wrong, I've slept with a guy after we've gone out to dinner, but I'd do it even if the dinner were not involved or I had to pay for the meal. A lot of times guys who take me out to dinner don't get shit I hope they weren't under the impression that they would be trading a $50 meal for sex.

 

Sadly they probably were. It's the way most women operate.

 

we split everything 50/50 for the most part. we make about the same amount of $$ so it works better. i pay for my car loan though

 

I date rich MILFS