Relationship expenses...
10-07-2004, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted by charlesgage
READ THE DAMN POST, i am only trying to say that there are some women out there for an easy ride in exchange for favors, you know it we all know it, i wasn't implying you. Also, from what your original post said, you would be an idiot not to take that as "I, or someone close to me has 30k to spend at NM in a year"I starting to despise money since its sort of a problem with my current bf. Thats why I started this thread in the first place.
10-07-2004, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted by charlesgage
Forgive me if i am being forward but how much do you make / expect a man to spend on you in a year? 
You also contradict yourself...
Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
Bottom line, guys DON'T spend a lot of money on me, not anymore anyway, and I don't have a problem with that.
I starting to despise money since its sort of a problem with my current bf. Thats why I started this thread in the first place.
I starting to despise money since its sort of a problem with my current bf. Thats why I started this thread in the first place.
10-07-2004, 10:59 AM
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How did I contradict myself? As for your pity points you can keep them. I do know you were asking how much I expect a man to spend, and I don't expect him to spend anything on me. If it came down to it I'd be content paying for my own things with my own money.
To clear what I said up:
When I said that I don't have a problem with him not spending money on me I MEANT that he doesn't have to buy me gifts blah blah.
When I said that money is sort of a problem with my bf and I, I was talking about how we are trying to find a way to split expenses fairly. It wasn't about him spending money on me, its more about how we should split spending for "us" etc.
To clear what I said up:
When I said that I don't have a problem with him not spending money on me I MEANT that he doesn't have to buy me gifts blah blah.
When I said that money is sort of a problem with my bf and I, I was talking about how we are trying to find a way to split expenses fairly. It wasn't about him spending money on me, its more about how we should split spending for "us" etc.
10-07-2004, 11:01 AM
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Wait a minute did think that i meant how much do you make as in your personal income or how much you force a man to spend on you? because i meant thte former, that might be the misunderstanding.
10-07-2004, 03:46 PM
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my mom worked at NM for 5 years...30k/year is nothing...a lot of people would spend that much in a couple of months, just cause they can
she met some of the most shallow people on earth there...but then again the commission was good
my mom worked at NM for 5 years...30k/year is nothing...a lot of people would spend that much in a couple of months, just cause they can
she met some of the most shallow people on earth there...but then again the commission was good
11-02-2004, 04:49 AM
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I can tell you how it used to be in my marriage...We split everything down the middle...except when it came to my kids...I paid for all that...If I bought groceries without him, I would give him the receipt and he would pay for half....Dark and I haven't really worked out a system yet...so far I cook dinner at my house on my days off and I usually buy the groceries for it...he doesn't really help me out that much. Just gets there in time for dinner!! 
11-02-2004, 12:45 PM
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I pay for the mortgage, house bills, and personal bills. She pays for the groceries, her bills, and our party money.....she also takes wonderful care of our child 
11-02-2004, 02:01 PM
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you guys are dating a bunch of prostitutes
11-02-2004, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by ABreece
That's essentially what most relationships are. Guy takes girl out to eat, girl puts out. Guy makes easymac, girl does not put out.
Steak < Dignity. Don't get me wrong, I've slept with a guy after we've gone out to dinner, but I'd do it even if the dinner were not involved or I had to pay for the meal. A lot of times guys who take me out to dinner don't get shit I hope they weren't under the impression that they would be trading a $50 meal for sex.
11-02-2004, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
I guess it works out that way for certain types of relationships, which is sad. I'd never sell myself for a meal Steak < Dignity. Don't get me wrong, I've slept with a guy after we've gone out to dinner, but I'd do it even if the dinner were not involved or I had to pay for the meal. A lot of times guys who take me out to dinner don't get shit I hope they weren't under the impression that they would be trading a $50 meal for sex.
Steak < Dignity. Don't get me wrong, I've slept with a guy after we've gone out to dinner, but I'd do it even if the dinner were not involved or I had to pay for the meal. A lot of times guys who take me out to dinner don't get shit I hope they weren't under the impression that they would be trading a $50 meal for sex.
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