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Old 01-24-2006, 11:41 AM
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Ok here is the situation that made me spawn this thread. So im with my girl that I have been talking to for about a month. We have always mest around with each other but never had sex. So we finally decided guess it was time, but for some reason i could not cum, bust a nut, climax, or whatever you want to call it. I dont know if i was to nervous or what. Dont get me wrong it felt great. Is there something wrong with me, the girl, what.
Old 01-24-2006, 11:42 AM
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Old 01-24-2006, 11:43 AM
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why not just try again to see what happens?
Old 01-24-2006, 11:46 AM
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probably nervous......


happned to me before

Old 01-24-2006, 11:48 AM
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I recall this happened to me the first time I got a hand job. I don't think the body was use to someone else touching it.

Your first time?
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Did you fake it?
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Originally Posted by fdl
Did you fake it?
guys can fake it?
Old 01-24-2006, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
guys can fake it?

of course
Old 01-24-2006, 11:53 AM
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Myfirst time was the same, we went at it for hours but no result. in fact we did it on 2 different weekends, but i felt real guilty. i was 16
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Personally I'd have her working on it all night just so long as I came. But there are guy who would rather just fake it and go to sleep.
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Originally Posted by fdl
of course
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
guys can fake it?
we can do anything we want, like tell you we love you, tell you we care, tell you that you are the only one, you get the idea.
Old 01-24-2006, 12:01 PM
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we can do anything we want, like tell you we love you, tell you we care, tell you that you are the only one, you get the idea.


<--can tie his own shoes sometimes
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oh man I cant wait to see where this thread goes....
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Stress and alcohol will kill it every time....
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Snaps you fag, you cant nut? Quit thinkin its your sister and you'll be aight..
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I don't know my first time it was virtually instant. I'd blame it on nerves and try again.
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maybe it was the condom or she was too loose?
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Originally Posted by trancemission
Snaps you fag, you cant nut? Quit thinkin its your sister and you'll be aight..
post a pic of her up, if someone (not myself) can bust a nut faster to her on screen than you can with her, that is a problem. good luck next time, at least it looks better for you than busting after 5 seconds.
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^^Im just messin with him....lol!!
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Originally Posted by Tireguy
I don't know my first time it was virtually instant. I'd blame it on nerves and try again.
my first time flew by, however the girl did not help much doing the 5,000 rpm hip swivel. I was like come on, give a guy a break here!!
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Originally Posted by trancemission
^^Im just messin with him....lol!!
I think we all are, he really has nothing to be worried about, at least she is real!!
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just nerves. Happens to me sometimes with a new girl...
Old 01-24-2006, 12:23 PM
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She told me she came so that at least made me fell good The O GOD comments were awesome I think I was just to nervous but i feel like a dick, because I wanted to bust one so fawking bad it was unreal!
Old 01-24-2006, 12:24 PM
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You were probably just nervous.
Old 01-24-2006, 12:25 PM
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were you having sex with civicgirl? cuz she didn't get off either
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Stop taking your anti-depressants, and the bust-a-nutz ability will return.

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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
were you having sex with civicgirl? cuz she didn't get off either
Old 01-24-2006, 03:06 PM
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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
were you having sex with civicgirl? cuz she didn't get off either
Old 01-24-2006, 03:06 PM
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Odd, I was just having this conversation with the girl I'm dating. Sometime in the last two years my stamina switched "poles" (no pun intended, i swear) from 2 pump chump to super cock. Now it takes me forever to cum and I can really enjoy me some sex.

The girl I'm with now is pretty quick and its giving her a complex that she always climaxes 2-3 times before my first. I would think she'd be excited about great sex but it really frustrates her. I told her hey, welcome to our world. For centuries men have worried about being a little 2 pump bitch in bed and now that the script has flipped, it's giving you a complex? I see, So its still our fault then eh?

Anyway, I hope this isnt marking my slow decent into erectial dysfunction with this lasting a while thing.
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
guys can fake it?
Roll over and fall asleep? Hell yeah.

Old 01-24-2006, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted by fdl
Personally I'd have her working on it all night just so long as I came. But there are guy who would rather just fake it and go to sleep.
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
Odd, I was just having this conversation with the girl I'm dating. Sometime in the last two years my stamina switched "poles" (no pun intended, i swear) from 2 pump chump to super cock. Now it takes me forever to cum and I can really enjoy me some sex.

The girl I'm with now is pretty quick and its giving her a complex that she always climaxes 2-3 times before my first. I would think she'd be excited about great sex but it really frustrates her. I told her hey, welcome to our world. For centuries men have worried about being a little 2 pump bitch in bed and now that the script has flipped, it's giving you a complex? I see, So its still our fault then eh?

Anyway, I hope this isnt marking my slow decent into erectial dysfunction with this lasting a while thing.

My girlfriend doesn't like the fact that it can take me a long time as well, and she can be in triple digit orgasms before my first.
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
Odd, I was just having this conversation with the girl I'm dating. Sometime in the last two years my stamina switched "poles" (no pun intended, i swear) from 2 pump chump to super cock. Now it takes me forever to cum and I can really enjoy me some sex.

The girl I'm with now is pretty quick and its giving her a complex that she always climaxes 2-3 times before my first. I would think she'd be excited about great sex but it really frustrates her. I told her hey, welcome to our world. For centuries men have worried about being a little 2 pump bitch in bed and now that the script has flipped, it's giving you a complex? I see, So its still our fault then eh?

Anyway, I hope this isnt marking my slow decent into erectial dysfunction with this lasting a while thing.

Finally someone sees where im coming from
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Originally Posted by Teh Snaps
Finally someone sees where im coming from

you just got in that other thread https://acurazine.com/forums/dating-relationships-14/cheating-330073/

I think we know exactly where you are coming from
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Originally Posted by btsilver
maybe it was the condom or she was too loose?
What's a condom? Loose can have a slight effect. Kind of like Dom's comment a while back about throwing a hot dog down a hallway.



He was probably just nervous. He should be thankful that he at least got wood. Thankfully, I have never had either problem.
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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
were you having sex with civicgirl? cuz she didn't get off either

bingo
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Originally Posted by kurt_bradley
What's a condom? Loose can have a slight effect. Kind of like Dom's comment a while back about throwing a hot dog down a hallway.



He was probably just nervous. He should be thankful that he at least got wood. Thankfully, I have never had either problem.
Dom got that from clpower....
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Originally Posted by Teh Snaps
Finally someone sees where im coming from
Its okay snaps....if your wee wee is small


Actually its not that okay...but youre stuck...they do penis enlargement surgery....


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