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Old 11-23-2013, 01:04 AM
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Race and dating

Is this accurate? do you guys feel that this is accurate?
I am asian and most of the girls that i've dated are latinas. Its not that i aint into asian chicks. its that where i grew up, the school i go to and my coworkers are mostly latin. so yeah i hook up with my latinas coworker, etc. And also, I seem to have a harder time to get with asian girls cause they are shy ass hell and shit.

Old 11-23-2013, 01:30 AM
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another funny thing about this study, 2 of my sisters are dating white dudes, lol.
Old 11-23-2013, 10:58 AM
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I think it's interesting information, but I wouldn't go so far as to say this data alone is enough to draw a conclusion that people of one race demonstrate a consistent a preference for another race. I think it's much more individual than that, and probably has more to do with your environment as you grew up.

I think the woman had a line on it - if you prefer someone with dark features (hair, skin), it makes sense that Latinos or Blacks would be a natural fit. If you preferred dark hair and dark eyes, well that describes almost all Asians so there you go.

I also think racial stereotypes play a role in these results. Like a Latino woman is going to be extremely passionate and an Asian woman demure. So they push the button not just because of physical attraction but because what they also think the person is like based on race. But in reality that's just not accurate.
Old 11-23-2013, 11:11 AM
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^^Thats true.
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There is a real world face-to-face version of this study also.

On the street, researchers have found:

1. Some group members will look at another group member and smile.

2. Some will glance away and continue to mind their own business.

3. One group will attempt a one-punch knockout.
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I'd never date an Asian. I find them ugly. :/
Old 11-24-2013, 02:18 AM
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Everyone got their own prefference, aint nothing wrong with that.
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Race only becomes an issue whe people make it one.....
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Originally Posted by YeuEmMaiMai
Race only becomes an issue whe people make it one.....
And its usually strangers that make it an issue. I can't tell you how many times when i go out with my latin girlfriend, and latin dudes will be stairing at me and Mad dogging me hardcore like they want to kick my ass. it was uncomfortable at 1st, but then my girl was like "who give a fuck what that nobody thinks, let him hate all he wants, we don't know them , who gives a fuck about them". after that I just didnt give a fuck what anyone thinks no more.
To me i just don't care about who dates who, i just mind my own business. Like when i see an asian girl dating a white dude or what ever, I really couldnt care less about them. from time to time my asian friend would make a smirk remark like " look at that asian whore dating that white guy". I would tell him, "why do you even fucken care? do you know them? Quit being a fucken hater, you aint getting any pussy thats why your hating " thats one way to know how people are racist.

my other cousin is also dating a mexican girl , and the last time we went to a club thats predominately mexicans. we go there , i drop them off at the front and look for parking. when i walk to the door, they came walking back, and i am like "what the fuck?" apparently the door guy talk shit to my cousin and his girl in spanish. then my cousins girlfriend went off at the door guy and arguing with them. we end up going to a club in the O.C, its kinda like a white club, lol. funny how the less racist people i ever deal with in southern california are white people, lol. it is what it is. I aint saying asian ain't racist either, cause from my experiance, asians are just as racist when it comes to interracail dating as anyone.

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another funny thing about this study, 2 of my sisters are dating white dudes, lol.
shocking
Old 12-11-2013, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted by MySoCalLife
And its usually strangers that make it an issue. I can't tell you how many times when i go out with my latin girlfriend, and latin dudes will be stairing at me and Mad dogging me hardcore like they want to kick my ass. it was uncomfortable at 1st, but then my girl was like "who give a fuck what that nobody thinks, let him hate all he wants, we don't know them , who gives a fuck about them". after that I just didnt give a fuck what anyone thinks no more.
To me i just don't care about who dates who, i just mind my own business. Like when i see an asian girl dating a white dude or what ever, I really couldnt care less about them. from time to time my asian friend would make a smirk remark like " look at that asian whore dating that white guy". I would tell him, "why do you even fucken care? do you know them? Quit being a fucken hater, you aint getting any pussy thats why your hating " thats one way to know how people are racist.

my other cousin is also dating a mexican girl , and the last time we went to a club thats predominately mexicans. we go there , i drop them off at the front and look for parking. when i walk to the door, they came walking back, and i am like "what the fuck?" apparently the door guy talk shit to my cousin and his girl in spanish. then my cousins girlfriend went off at the door guy and arguing with them. we end up going to a club in the O.C, its kinda like a white club, lol. funny how the less racist people i ever deal with in southern california are white people, lol. it is what it is. I aint saying asian ain't racist either, cause from my experiance, asians are just as racist when it comes to interracail dating as anyone.
depends on what part of socal too. But socal is a different beast in terms of race. Since we have people that are recently immigrated or 1 generation removed, many are still of that mentality that they have to date their own. And since those populations are rather large, enough to make communities on their own, they feel much more comfortable segregating themselves.

On white people, when I went to Arizona State, which is 95% white, I found they were the least racist ones. In terms of dating, no white girls ever made a fuss about me being Filipino. In fact, I think it was a bit of an advantage to be honest.
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shocking
we call those dragon slayers.

Slay those dragons, white men!
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Whatever you're into buddy. I wont judge.
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You guys need a study to see the obvious genetically predisposed human behavior? Just watch the animal planet. You'll get it
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