Do you expect some kind of commitment/relationship after sex? Or are most girls just down with good sex for the night with no strings attatched? I'm talking majority...of course it will differ between girls.

 

I've only had sex with guys I've been in some sort of relationship with...so I really wouldn't know. But I'm sure the other girls around here will give their

 

it really depends... i've had serious relationships, i've had dating things, and i've had hookups. if i hadn't known beforehand that the hookups were hookups, i'd be pretty hurt. (but i've been hurt anyway after a hook up, although it was my own fault for assuming something.)

for the most part: if she goes into it knowing that it is a hook up, then that's fine.
if she goes into it not knowing what it is, then it's best you clear that up. otherwise you will confuse her and probably end up hurting her-- she will be expecting something that you aren't willing to give.

and besides, sex while in a relationship is much better. physically and emotionally.

 

I've always thought that sex after a relationship is the best

 

it's sex after an arguement is the best!
aka make-up sex

 

It's when the chick isn't a prude, and knows what shes doing that sex is the best.

 

Not necessarily, it depends on the girl. A lot of girls only have sex with a bf or someone they have been seeing for some time, since most have trouble preventing themselves from getting attached. Girls whom you just met recently that are game for it normally assume that there are no strings attached and just wanna have fun.

Expectations only come in eventually when both parties have agreed to explicitely be sexually monogamous with one another or when feelings have already been expressed.

 

I don't know 1 girl that has ever had sex for the sake of sex. At least not admitted it.

 

thats great as well, but i still had better times after the relationship...maybe it was a type of make up sex?

 

ive only had sex in relationships.

though if i were to leave the relationship i was in, i dont think i would enter another one, but id still want some sex sometimes lol.

 

After the relationship there is no pressure or need to please the other person, but in the end you will do it better...seems to be the case.

 

maybe....i just know i tear it to shit cause maybe it will be the last time...

 

Keyword, majority. The majority of girls will expect something afterwards or would like something to happen afterwards.

 

i dont know where the girls u meet are from, but theirs girls all over here that just love to fuck and run. then keep the number in the phone book for backup.

 

I just met her face to face that day...And it just kinda happened. So I'm in the clear I assume. Thats what I was really hoping to find out.

 

Damn I need to visit my peeps in Chi Town.

**rep points given to all that responded**

 

If you just met her in person that day and had sex together, it is definite that she's not expecting anything from you. As long as you didn't say anything to her afterwards that might have led her on, there's no need to worry about it! Just hope you guys were smart about it.

 

Always.

 

true dat, i would say most close to our age are like that.

 

heh Jo is getting some

I think the majority of females would expect something afterward. For me, I only expect something if he tells me that I should expect something or I tell him I want something/he agrees etc...if not all is fair game

 

I have. Not proud of it of course....before I gave my life to Christ...and to Dark...I had no problem separating sex from emotion...but beware...if a girl can do that..it's nothing but trouble....Dark made me realize that sex and love are NOT supposed to be separate entities...but one with God's blessing..you asked!?

 

most girls i have found expect relatonships, very few are true freaks that just want sex. they are usually the ones involved with someone who is not meeting the need or cheating.

 

i know from experience because, regretfully, my frinds girl use to come for me, he wasn't taken care of it, i tried not to but she was hot, she use to beg him, but then asked me, when i heard no strings attached i was like sounds good. banged her so many times, then she messed it up by telling her friend about us, and figure out the rest

 

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