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Old 11-13-2008, 12:37 AM
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Place is like a prison ..

My school is one huge sausagefest. There's almost 400 students here, maybe 13 are girls. 3 are decently attractive, all are taken. On top of that, my busy schedule doesn't permit me to go out that much. The only female interaction I and a few friends can get is at the strip club during a rare free late-night weekend.

So saying that .. what options do I have to actually meet women? Utah has a surprisingly good amount of good-looking women here, maybe I should try to cut some time off to go about the town. I was considering going to SLC's huge library more often, but I'm not sure if I'll have much success bothering a girl studying. I'm trying to think up ways to break the ice in that situation actually.

Online matching, maybe? I would try something like that especially with my limited free time, I'm just not sure I can spend the $30 a month and get no results at all. I searched on this topic already, but I'm still not that convinced ..

Clubs and bars, not really into the scene. If I go to a bar, it's to drink, not meet people .. Clubs are cool every once in a while, but when it fills up, it's obnoxious ..
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Ok, where in in Utah are you? This is just sad and pathetic. You must be in some sort of interdimensional hellhole.

Join the Mormon church or at least associate with it somehow, there are PLENTY of "bad Mormon girls" who will break the whole "no sex until marriage" bit. Trust me.
Old 11-13-2008, 12:43 AM
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South Jordan, about 15 minutes away from downtown SLC. Other than the absence of women at my school, it's not so bad living here, as I see hot girls driving around every day, but that's it .. I just don't know where they gather heh.
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I just don't know where they gather heh.
Its Utah, I just told you
Old 11-13-2008, 12:50 AM
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Fair enough.

The Mormon church is a good idea. No mormonites I know have upheld the no-sex rule.
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Go to CA
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lol where in cali? Cause i think i need to move
Old 11-13-2008, 01:39 AM
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lol where in cali? Cause i think i need to move
Anywhere near my house. You'll find mad bitches. Ha ha...

On a serious note, so cal. The saying here in Temecula is, town of lifted trucks and dirty sluts. It works.
Old 11-13-2008, 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted by mystikk
My school is one huge sausagefest. There's almost 400 students here, maybe 13 are girls. 3 are decently attractive, all are taken. On top of that, my busy schedule doesn't permit me to go out that much. The only female interaction I and a few friends can get is at the strip club during a rare free late-night weekend.

So saying that .. what options do I have to actually meet women? Utah has a surprisingly good amount of good-looking women here, maybe I should try to cut some time off to go about the town. I was considering going to SLC's huge library more often, but I'm not sure if I'll have much success bothering a girl studying. I'm trying to think up ways to break the ice in that situation actually.

Online matching, maybe? I would try something like that especially with my limited free time, I'm just not sure I can spend the $30 a month and get no results at all. I searched on this topic already, but I'm still not that convinced ..

Clubs and bars, not really into the scene. If I go to a bar, it's to drink, not meet people .. Clubs are cool every once in a while, but when it fills up, it's obnoxious ..

I totally feel your pain, my school is pretty much the same way except we have maybe 1000 people. The women are either not attractive at all, lesbian or taken, it sucks.
Old 11-13-2008, 02:19 AM
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Originally Posted by zguy95135
I totally feel your pain, my school is pretty much the same way except we have maybe 1000 people. The women are either not attractive at all, lesbian or taken, it sucks.
Is the school in Ventura or San Jose...cause in SJ there are plenty of beezies around all over the place.
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In Ventura. Film school doesn't seem to bring in many attractive chicks, our photography campus in Santa Barbara on the other hand...
Old 11-13-2008, 12:10 PM
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I could use a vacation to CA right about now.

I just signed up on Match.com. Minus the fees, there's really nothing to lose ..
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I think you need to transfer schools...
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I'm with Ken. Join one of those mormon groups. don't they hand out young hot wife's?
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Do you snowboard? I always see mad hotties at snowbird, park city or canyons. I like snowboard betties, they in general are athletic, friendly, and adventurous. Strike up a conversation on the lift or chill out at the bar apres ski.

I haven't observed too much hawtness around slc, some cute girls at macaroni grill once in awhile. Last year i went to vortex on a friday with my boy and it was a cockfest with fugly chicks.
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Well you're definitely not going to meet any worthy women in the strip club. Just go to different social places like restaraunts, malls or something like that. You can always catch a group of girls pregamin at a restaraunt on the weekends and you might need to change your goals as far as goin to the bar. It's definitely not hard to drink and look for women at the same time. Not a buzz killer for me....
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I would not waste a lot of time in SLC unless you are Mormon. Honestly, they'll date you for a bit until they either figure out you are not or they can't convert you. Then they'll dump you. It's a waste of time. This happened to me...twice. A lot of them will be friendly with the aim to convert you, not date you. But it's hard to tell the difference early on. Also, they use women almost exclusively in recruiting around Temple Square, which gives the appearance of a target rich environment but couldn't be more the opposite.

Stick to girls with common interests and backgrounds. I don't know if moving schools is an option, but UT is going to be Mormon-rich in general. You can't catch a deep-sea fish in a lake my friend.
Old 11-13-2008, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted by mystikk
On top of that, my busy schedule doesn't permit me to go out that much. The only female interaction I and a few friends can get is at the strip club during a rare free late-night weekend.


If you don't have time to go out and meet women, do you have the time to spend with one on a regular basis, or commit to a relationship? (Not sure what you're looking for).
Old 11-13-2008, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
If you don't have time to go out and meet women, do you have the time to spend with one on a regular basis, or commit to a relationship? (Not sure what you're looking for).
I think, at the very least, his hand wants a break
Old 11-14-2008, 09:23 AM
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What horrible school is this so I can warn everybody not to go there?



And it sounds like the Mormons created this place to punish all the non-Mormons
Old 11-14-2008, 11:03 AM
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I would not do the Mormon thing. You may get brainwashed. They are very friendly but to extream.
Old 11-14-2008, 11:39 AM
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go to Vegas. they got legal prostitutes dude.
you can pick up a legal hooker in front of a cop and there's nothing he/she can do.
Old 11-14-2008, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted by stright-(paint)balling
go to Vegas. they got legal prostitutes dude.
you can pick up a legal hooker in front of a cop and there's nothing he/she can do.
Actually, prostitution is illegal in Vegas. It's legal in most other parts of Nevada though
Old 11-14-2008, 12:48 PM
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Well, there's always that option.
Old 11-14-2008, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by TommySalami
Actually, prostitution is illegal in Vegas. It's legal in most other parts of Nevada though
still you can get a hooker near Vegas and nothing they can do.
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Originally Posted by surfer rick
Do you snowboard? I always see mad hotties at snowbird, park city or canyons. I like snowboard betties, they in general are athletic, friendly, and adventurous. Strike up a conversation on the lift or chill out at the bar apres ski.
+1 Go for the snowboard chicks.
Old 11-14-2008, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted by slvrdrgn123
+1 Go for the snowboard chicks.
there's a snowboard/ski "mountain" (but it's a giant hill) over by MAP/ELP.(Marysville Auto Plant)/(East Liberty Plant) I occassionally go over there after work.
Old 11-14-2008, 07:43 PM
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Brilliant! Go hang out with Water, he brings all the girls in

Originally Posted by stright-(paint)balling
there's a snowboard/ski "mountain" (but it's a giant hill) over by MAP/ELP.(Marysville Auto Plant)/(East Liberty Plant) I occassionally go over there after work.
Old 11-14-2008, 08:06 PM
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Old 11-15-2008, 02:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
If you don't have time to go out and meet women, do you have the time to spend with one on a regular basis, or commit to a relationship? (Not sure what you're looking for).
If I know I'm gonna be in a relationship, I'll make the time .. I'm not really willing to go out if there's a suspicion I might come home "empty-handed".

Snowboard chicks indeed. I'll be going to Brighton pretty regularly soon.

Oh, and I'm going to Colorado for Thanksgiving, I'll have to check out the clubs there.
Old 11-15-2008, 12:31 PM
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Brilliant! Go hang out with Water, he brings all the girls in
hell yeah, go to the airport and hit on airport check in lady(that's how i got my current g/f). got her number and i'm dating her now.
Old 11-15-2008, 01:13 PM
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Snowboard chicks indeed. I'll be going to Brighton pretty regularly soon.
Coolness, You guys getting some fresh pow-pow yet? I like hitting brighton for some night boarding action. Going to whistler in january, cannot wait, want now.
Old 11-17-2008, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted by surfer rick
Coolness, You guys getting some fresh pow-pow yet? I like hitting brighton for some night boarding action. Going to whistler in january, cannot wait, want now.
I wish Brighton was getting hit, but the whole freaking state is expected to have sunny, cold-ass days for at least a week.
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Damn, no chicks and no snow. 0 for 2 cowboy
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