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Old Jun 7, 2005 | 10:56 PM
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Orgasm May be Genetic

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,158859,00.html
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Old Jun 7, 2005 | 11:01 PM
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A woman's genes might affect her ability to achieve orgasm, British researchers report.

They haven't found an "orgasm gene," and they don't dismiss other influences (such as cultural, social, and psychological traits). They also say they know they're wading into a "highly speculative and controversial" topic.

However, Kate Dunn of London's St. Thomas Hospital and colleagues say science has overlooked female sexuality for too long. "Until recently, little research has explored female sexual function, and yet women commonly report sexual dysfunction," they write in the journal's early online edition of Biology Letters.

The lack of scientific interest in the topic may stem from the previous consensus that the female orgasm plays no role in reproduction, they write. Recent research has challenged this concept, showing that orgasm plays a role in sperm retention.

Glance at a newsstand of women's magazines, and the blaring headlines about hot sex tips and steamy affairs may make you think there's no problem in the bedroom. But that's a far cry from real life for many women.

Take the 2003 study cited by Dunn and colleagues. It showed that more than half of British women reported at least one sexual problem lasting a month or more during the previous year, and around a quarter rarely had orgasms, at best, in the previous three months.

Dunn's team sent confidential surveys to women in a U.K. registry of identical and nonidentical twins. That approach has been used in studies on many topics. It's thought that genetic influences would show up in identical twins, who share their genes, as well as upbringing.

About 4,000 women completed the questionnaire. They were about 50 years old, on average.

The survey showed that orgasms were rare for many of the women:

—About 32 percent said they were unable to achieve orgasm during intercourse more than a quarter of the time. Half of those women never reached orgasm during intercourse.

—14 percent said they always achieved orgasm during intercourse.

More women were able to orgasm during masturbation:

—34 percent always reached orgasm.

—21 percent were still unable to orgasm more than a quarter of the time, two-thirds of whom never achieved orgasm during masturbation.

There was no difference between the proportion of identical and nonidentical twins who never or infrequently reached orgasm by either method.

However, there was less variation for the frequency of orgasm during intercourse and masturbation in identical compared with nonidentical twins, suggesting a clear genetic influence for both.

"We found that between 34 percent and 45 percent of the variation in ability to orgasm can be explained by underlying genetic variation, with little or no role for the shared environment (e.g. family environment, religion, social class, or early education," write the researchers.

"Our data lend support to the idea that variation in female orgasmic ability has a biological basis," say Dunn and colleagues.

Recently, WebMD hosted a discussion with Jennifer Berman, MD, co-founder of the FemaleSexual Medicine Center at UCLA. Berman is also the director of female urology and sexual medicine at the Rodeo Drive Women's Health Center in Beverly Hills, Calif.

During the discussion, a 22-year-old woman said she had never had an orgasm during sex and asked Berman's advice. Here's what Berman said:

"In reality, only 30 percent of women experience orgasm with penovaginal intercourse. If you can experience orgasm through other ways such as oral sex, self-stimulation, or other, that is great and normal. For you to achieve orgasm during intercourse, you are going to need to have sufficient clitoral stimulation.

"If it is important for you to achieve orgasm during intercourse, I would encourage you to focus on increasing the level of foreplay prior to sex and try positions that increase clitoral stimulation and even consider incorporating a vibrator," Berman continued. "That being said, you should not feel pressured to achieve orgasm during sex."
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Old Jun 7, 2005 | 11:01 PM
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Old Jun 7, 2005 | 11:02 PM
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so my ex's mom cums easy...cool
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Old Jun 7, 2005 | 11:04 PM
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LOL... that's what I was thinking
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Old Jun 7, 2005 | 11:05 PM
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Female Orgasm = hottest thing evar IMO
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Old Jun 7, 2005 | 11:09 PM
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Female Orgasm = hottest thing evar IMO


but i have yet to see one not on a computer screen, which are likely faked
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Old Jun 7, 2005 | 11:13 PM
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Old Jun 7, 2005 | 11:14 PM
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 12:31 AM
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"penovaginal intercourse"

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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:33 AM
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as long as she doesn't squirt, it's all good with me baby
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:36 AM
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as long as she doesn't squirt, it's all good with me baby
Squirters are the best...
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:45 AM
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How many guys here have asked their woman if they cum and/or how often they cum? And if so, do you believe them?
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:46 AM
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How many guys here have asked their woman if they cum and/or how often they cum? And if so, do you believe them?
Uuuuuh....I can usually feel the contractions so I dont have to ask.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Uuuuuh....I can usually feel the contractions so I dont have to ask.
They can fake that you know.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:48 AM
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Originally Posted by TLover
They can fake that you know.
I fake my orgasms all the time....
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:50 AM
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I fake my orgasms all the time....
Cup of hot yogurt?
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:55 AM
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Cup of hot yogurt?
You know that too....I thought I was the only one.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 02:01 AM
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well, a chick can 'cum' without squirting...by the way, why is it that some chicks squirt and others dont?

btw, my girl says she cums all the time...she faked it once just to get me off one time.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 02:02 AM
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by the way, why is it that some chicks squirt and others dont?
Genetics
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 02:06 AM
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now I haven't witnessed a squirter in real life yet (thank god), but what exactly is it that they secrete? It looks like it's a urine type substance, however I know that it has a similar texture to cum? Correct me if I'm wrong.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 02:09 AM
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Read this.

http://www.doctorg.com/myth_reality1.htm
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 02:19 AM
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interesting...thanks

Does anyone's girl ... after having the big 'O', kind of go through convulsions, or twitch for about a minute or 2? Like minor ones, you know?
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 02:24 AM
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interesting...thanks

Does anyone's girl ... after having the big 'O', kind of go through convulsions, or twitch for about a minute or 2? Like minor ones, you know?
I've had the leg twitching thing happen.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 02:46 AM
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nah, I'm talking almost full body twitches lol...the other night I got my girl to have one intense O, and her entire body was twitchin...it was NUTS!
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 02:57 AM
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Originally Posted by Dem1K
interesting...thanks

Does anyone's girl ... after having the big 'O', kind of go through convulsions, or twitch for about a minute or 2? Like minor ones, you know?
Dude yea. She tells me to STFU cause she doesnt want me to kill it. Well back when I was with her. It was funny.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 03:18 AM
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haha I hear you on that...she's done that a few times

Sometimes, I'll poke her just for the hell of it...it's funny
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 10:53 AM
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Damn, my girls sis and mom must be amazing in bed.
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Originally Posted by Xenogen
Squirters are the best...

squirt = piss
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 11:57 AM
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Originally Posted by PillsburyChoboy
in my country, men come first and women come second ... or sometimes not at all.

Yeah your country sucks ass.
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Yeah your country sucks ass.
Shit, even after i make my girl cum, i dive in mouth first till she cant breath anymore, or starts screamning "i'm blind, baby you made me go blind."
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 12:37 PM
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I think its all psycological on a woman being able to cum or not. For me I actually have to like the guy a lot for me to cum and its usually through oral, not actual penetration.

As for the squirting thing, it fascinates me, but its scary at the same time, I've only seen it while watching porn though.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 12:48 PM
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squirting is pretty damned cool ... huge ego boost and definitely POSITIVE feedback.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 12:54 PM
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Originally Posted by PsychoInDenial
I think its all psycological on a woman being able to cum or not.

I agree wholeheartedly. It's all about the mood I'm in. Personally, I have never had an orgasm during intercourse, although I have come close, and I think if I were a little better-prepared, I may have actually finished. The problem with me is that I'm impatient... for some reason, even though I technically NEED lots of foreplay, I always want to get to it.

Drives Scott nuts (not in the good way)... he feels like it's a failing on his part when it's really not at all... it's just the way I am. I have come to the conclusion that my parts aren't lined up the way they should be; they say you should be able to cum during intercourse because the penis rubs against your clit, but that never happens... it's like mine is too high up or something. Okay that was way TMI for you guys, but I'm gonna leave it anyway.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by PillsburyChoboy
squirting is pretty damned cool ... huge ego boost and definitely POSITIVE feedback.


sorry to say it has more to do with the girl than than the guy.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:02 PM
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it's like mine is too high up or something. Okay that was way TMI for you guys, but I'm gonna leave it anyway.
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Old Jun 8, 2005 | 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
Okay that was way TMI for you guys, but I'm gonna leave it anyway.
:shakehead

Waaaaaaay too much.
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Originally Posted by Caliadria
I agree wholeheartedly. It's all about the mood I'm in. Personally, I have never had an orgasm during intercourse, although I have come close, and I think if I were a little better-prepared, I may have actually finished. The problem with me is that I'm impatient... for some reason, even though I technically NEED lots of foreplay, I always want to get to it.

Drives Scott nuts (not in the good way)... he feels like it's a failing on his part when it's really not at all... it's just the way I am. I have come to the conclusion that my parts aren't lined up the way they should be; they say you should be able to cum during intercourse because the penis rubs against your clit, but that never happens... it's like mine is too high up or something. Okay that was way TMI for you guys, but I'm gonna leave it anyway.
Don't complain. At least you've HAD an orgasm! There are so so SO many women, even in their 40's, who are like "I've never had an orgasm" when they call Sue Johanson on the Sunday Night Sex Show (I know, I used to watch it when I was 15)
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Don't complain. At least you've HAD an orgasm! There are so so SO many women, even in their 40's, who are like "I've never had an orgasm" when they call Sue Johanson on the Sunday Night Sex Show (I know, I used to watch it when I was 15)

:sqnteek: I wasn't complaining, I was sharing my personal experience, and agreeing with Psycho that it's all psychological.

But I feel for those women, I really do.
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