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Old 09-16-2003, 12:17 PM
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it was only a matter of time...

....before i ran into the ex
coming back from lunch with my boys
i spot her and i'm like uh oh,
they're like what?
robin
oh shit, where
by that time i was up on her and she's talking to some dude, and i tap her on the back and she turns around and is like oh hi

that's it...

i was in such a good mood before that, and the rest of my day has been just moping.

such a dork i am
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why did ya go up to her?
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Damn, Stef.
Old 09-16-2003, 01:58 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
why did ya go up to her?
Its the worst when you see them with something else, it should have been you who she bumped into when you were with two women and you should be like, oh hi. She is one up on you, you gotta get another woman.
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okey dokie. didnt understand it.

he should have squeezed her ass and went hey baby in front of the guy.. and then left.

its only sexual harassment after she says stop the first time lol
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you guys are funny
i couldn't not walk past her - she was on the corner of the intersection we were crossing - too late to do anything else - the dude she was talking to looked work-related but i don't know
i'm ok with it i guess - i have to be
just need to work on myself and get to a good place - i stopped working out like a MONTH ago, and i've been pretty down -end of summer always does it to me-
i'll be ok

later for her
Old 09-16-2003, 02:13 PM
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Its the worst when you see them with something else, it should have been you who she bumped into when you were with two women and you should be like, oh hi. She is one up on you, you gotta get another woman.
actually it's funny when we broke up i started seeing someone and i am still (it's not the same like robin), BUT she's really good looking -model and pr person for dept. of transportation - and we're kinda still dating and still def good friends -- anyway, last week (robin's first week back) we went for a walk and walked right in front of robin's new office -- it would be hard for her to see us, BUT GOD I HOPE SHE DID
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at least that went w/o incident besides wishing it never happened.

when my chick broke up w me and i saw her in her car on the street i gave her the finger as i passed her... she totally saw me and tried to ignore me...
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anyway... i know that sucks
the way u get back at her is by proving ur doin soo much better w/o her....
Old 09-16-2003, 04:51 PM
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ran into mine the other day at school. i had to stop and look because i had no idea she was going to my school now becasue she moved earlier. i was just like.. holy shit. fucking unbelievable.

revenge will be mine by the end of the semester. payback will be a bitch.
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Old 09-16-2003, 05:19 PM
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Originally posted by YuppieCL
at least that went w/o incident besides wishing it never happened.

when my chick broke up w me and i saw her in her car on the street i gave her the finger as i passed her... she totally saw me and tried to ignore me...
dude i read that the other day
you gave her the finger?!?!!??! WTF?!!
that made me smile man



you gave her the finger?!?!?!?!!

*still laughing*
Old 09-16-2003, 05:27 PM
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the finger is classic.
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Hell yeah it is...Imma give it to that biatch that blew me off for her 'long distnace' loser...gonna fell hella good...just like when I heard him and her washed out...hell yeah WOOOOOOT!
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lol... i dunno why i did that.... it was either that or throwing the stupid ass stuffed piece o shit monkey she gave me thru her open window....
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too funny
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Originally posted by YuppieCL
lol... i dunno why i did that.... it was either that or throwing the stupid ass stuffed piece o shit monkey she gave me thru her open window....
That would have made a more intersting post.
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WTF

i'm reading WAY too much into this but after bumping into my ex yesterday, she sends me an email saying it was good seeing me and tells me Bryan and her broke up. BRYAN?!?! He's the idiot she started seeing when WE broke up in December and like March she ended up on my doorstep crying and they weren't working out.
i thought they eneded that a long time ago.
and why tell me
actually not that i want to get back together, but i guess it makes me feel a litlle better.
ok i'm done with this.
sorry to bore you guys and thanks for listening
Old 09-17-2003, 08:35 AM
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Uh oh.....easy there Killer...that's bad news. Apparently things didn't work out so she's on the prowl again. RUN AWAY!!! LOL
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u could be right

but i am SO okay with everything now
i had to run to city hall to bail out some electrical contrator who shut down the phone system there - i'm in and out of the mayor's office b.c we want to fix him first (obviously) and robin's new office is down the hall - well everyone on the floor is freaking out b/c no phones so after about 10 minutes i figured out what the dork did and fixed it - so i'm talking to the mayor's secretary explaining what happend and i notice a whole bunch of people having cake and looking in my direction (everyone knew or knows who i am at that point) well the secretary hands me the phone and it's my mayor whose in ny today: he asked me what happened and i told him and then made some jokes and thanked me (he's WAY cool) and then everyone starts clapping for me (WTF they're just phones), but i'm like no problem and i talk to a couple of people and smile and on my way
well robin send me the third email today saying that she was there having cake and saw me, but i didn't see her ---

this is getting really weird, but for some reason i am in a really good mood - no i don't want her back and i really don't think she wants anything either, but it was cool having all these people be like ur the man and her have to see it
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quote: this is getting really weird, but for some reason i am in a really good mood - no i don't want her back and i really don't think she wants anything either, but it was cool having all these people be like ur the man and her have to see it


ahhhh, male ego! lol, kidding. thats cool though, shows you're over her and you've moved on. good on ya!
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ahhhh, male ego! lol, kidding. thats cool though, shows you're over her and you've moved on. good on ya! [/B][/QUOTE]

lol
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Originally posted by swclown
ahhhh, male ego! lol, kidding. thats cool though, shows you're over her and you've moved on. good on ya!

lol
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great to be here! lot better than some other boards ive been on this year! for example, y'all dont suck goat ballz and go insane when things get "off topic"...always a plus
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How can I say this...






RUN AWAY!!!

Really though, from experience...you guys are on a road to rekindling whatever you had...but that don't mean it's a good thing.
Sounds like you've started seeing someone pretty fantastic lately...but is she your type or just look good on your arm, etc. There may be some bigger issues to think about, but the best thing you could do now is give yourself some space...both physically & mentally from the ex. Stop the sub-conscious "chance" meetings where you walk by her house...etc.

If it's meant to be...and it may be/may not be...it will happen regardless. BUT, giving in to these old feelings before you can make any connections with someone new is selling yourself short...

Play it safe with the ex & see where this new relationship takes you...for a while atleast...then, if it fizzles...
dowhatchalike>>>>

from the wise ol man...
Old 09-18-2003, 06:18 AM
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Originally posted by chris3240929
How can I say this...






RUN AWAY!!!

Really though, from experience...you guys are on a road to rekindling whatever you had...but that don't mean it's a good thing.
Sounds like you've started seeing someone pretty fantastic lately...but is she your type or just look good on your arm, etc. There may be some bigger issues to think about, but the best thing you could do now is give yourself some space...both physically & mentally from the ex. Stop the sub-conscious "chance" meetings where you walk by her house...etc.

If it's meant to be...and it may be/may not be...it will happen regardless. BUT, giving in to these old feelings before you can make any connections with someone new is selling yourself short...

Play it safe with the ex & see where this new relationship takes you...for a while atleast...then, if it fizzles...
dowhatchalike>>>>

from the wise ol man...
ur 100% on bro thanks

i'm not going back - i REALLY don't think she has that in mind and to be honest, i'm not ready right now for ANY relationship thing -

maybe friends, but i don't even know about that
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It is a damn good things my Ex HATES my guts!

I still her from friends that she talks shit about me and still hates me after almost a year.
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yah... shes on the prowl again.
careful.... she may use u as a layover and leave once she finds what shes looking for
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