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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 02:06 PM
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The one that got away

Back in college there was this BEAUTIFUL redhead. Big tits, small waste...gorgeous eyes and really athletic. EVERY guy in the dorm (and campus) wanted this girl and somehow I became friends with her.

We started hanging out a little bit, but after about a month we were seeing each other for hours each day. Then she springs on me that she has a boyfriend in the marines and that he is at boot camp. She couldn't talk to him since he was in boot camp, so I guess I was the replacement for 3 months. Things were going so well, that I thought she was going to dump her boyfriend for me. Of course, I was on cloud 9, cause this girl was awesome. There was no ambiguity to our relationship...late night making out, I even went to go meet her parents.

Well, boot camp ended and she starts ignoring me. I ask her what the deal was and she said "it was never my intention to dump my boyfriend". I was crushed hard core and it took a couple of years to get her out of my head. Even know, I'm like "dang". WTF?
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 02:37 PM
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 02:45 PM
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Fuck that...I hate that backup boyfriend bullshit. Women that do fucked up shit like this should be shot or hung. Same with guys that do this...(no double standards here)

If its just a physical thiing...its cool, but both parties should know it from the start...I hate the emotional 'leading on' that goes on.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 02:51 PM
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well to be fair. she DID say she had a boyfriend.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 02:52 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
well to be fair. she DID say she had a boyfriend.
Ack...totally blew right by that...hehe :o well maybe that should have raised a red flag...or did she lead you to bleieve that it was gonna be over with them?
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 03:03 PM
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unless the words "im going to break up with him" came out of her mouth, she did not mean it. you can take any kind of flirting anyway you want, but unless those words came out of her mouth, you got played
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 03:19 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
unless the words "im going to break up with him" came out of her mouth, she did not mean it. you can take any kind of flirting anyway you want, but unless those words came out of her mouth, you got played
yay!! rachael i love you!

so blunt and to the point!!

tomfoolery- i think you let you "fantasy" overtake reality..stupid girls
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 03:20 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
unless the words "im going to break up with him" came out of her mouth, she did not mean it. you can take any kind of flirting anyway you want, but unless those words came out of her mouth, you got played
Well with mine I never knew that there was another guy in the mix until he decided to come into town and she blew me off...I had to hear from her friends that there was another guy and that was why she blew me off...I thought I was the only one...so maybe my feelings are a little biased here
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 03:21 PM
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that sucks bro, atleast it was good while it lasted, right?
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 03:26 PM
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Sex = attatchment from the girl.

Gotta have the sex...then she'll stay with you.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 03:45 PM
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I don't think it's fantasy that I'm suckin on her huge tits. It wasn't a dream. The words didn't come out of her mouth that she was dumping him. I guess I just thought she would since we made out all the time and to all outside observers we were BF/GF. By the time she told me she had a BF, we were already making out.

No sex. I was a virgin at the time and was trying to stay that way. Hard battle, I eventually lost, but not with her.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 07:07 PM
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Originally posted by tomfoolery
I don't think it's fantasy that I'm suckin on her huge tits. It wasn't a dream. The words didn't come out of her mouth that she was dumping him. I guess I just thought she would since we made out all the time and to all outside observers we were BF/GF. By the time she told me she had a BF, we were already making out.

No sex. I was a virgin at the time and was trying to stay that way. Hard battle, I eventually lost, but not with her.
Yeah...not to much left for her to give up if you were knee-deep in the D-cup...

I feel your pain...
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 07:26 PM
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oh she was making out with you? that makes her a cheating whore to her bf lol
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 07:39 PM
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what a cum guzzling gutter slut. i hate chicks that do that kinda shit, if you got a man, fer cryin' out loud, tell us!
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 07:41 PM
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what a cum guzzling gutter slut. i hate chicks that do that kinda shit, if you got a man, fer cryin' out loud, tell us!
Yeah...tell us...we can keep secrets too...

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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 07:41 PM
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you should like non chalantly run into her bf and act like she just started seeing him. be like yeah we dated for about 3 months and then she dumped me,but boy did we have fun.



or you can fuck her mom.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 07:44 PM
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no joke.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 07:50 PM
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i was referring to the revenge video.

so screw the mailbox while youre at it
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 08:25 PM
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Damn...that SUCKS! I have never understood why some losers aren't up front about this kind of thing! If she is the kind of girl to cheat on her bf...you don't want her anyway.. You can probably find someone a lot better who isn't otherwise attached
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 09:48 PM
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Another reason why marriages of enlisted soldiers is the highest divorce rate in the country

Sucks, that girl sounds cold hearted and if she cheated on him, she would have eventually cheated on you. You cant ever think it will just stop with you cause your different, cause that just aint the case.

You'll fall in love with someone better. Shes not the one that got away, you never had her to begin with. and its better you didnt.
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Old Oct 13, 2003 | 10:08 PM
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when girls dont tell u they have boy friends it gets u into alot of trouble

happened to me a couple times at the club/bar, usually ends up in a her boy friend wanting to fight and getting kicked out of the club
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 05:34 AM
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Re: The one that got away

Originally posted by tomfoolery
Back in college there was this BEAUTIFUL redhead. Big tits, small waste...gorgeous eyes and really athletic. EVERY guy in the dorm (and campus) wanted this girl and somehow I became friends with her.

We started hanging out a little bit, but after about a month we were seeing each other for hours each day. Then she springs on me that she has a boyfriend in the marines and that he is at boot camp. She couldn't talk to him since he was in boot camp, so I guess I was the replacement for 3 months. Things were going so well, that I thought she was going to dump her boyfriend for me. Of course, I was on cloud 9, cause this girl was awesome. There was no ambiguity to our relationship...late night making out, I even went to go meet her parents.

Well, boot camp ended and she starts ignoring me. I ask her what the deal was and she said "it was never my intention to dump my boyfriend". I was crushed hard core and it took a couple of years to get her out of my head. Even know, I'm like "dang". WTF?
Sorry dude, ur heart must have been crushed into a billion pieces.
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 06:59 AM
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Man, I had a lot of grammar errors in my original message. My bad.

Yeah, it hurt, but that was like 3 years ago. I just thought it was a good "kick ya in the nuts" story. Obviously, it still hurts a little since I brought it up.

Anybody else been through this type of thing? The one that got away that you wanted to hold on to?
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 07:04 AM
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yeah but hes in a better place now. locked up in my closet

LOLOL jk all
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 07:18 AM
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Originally posted by tomfoolery
Man, I had a lot of grammar errors in my original message. My bad.

Yeah, it hurt, but that was like 3 years ago. I just thought it was a good "kick ya in the nuts" story. Obviously, it still hurts a little since I brought it up.

Anybody else been through this type of thing? The one that got away that you wanted to hold on to?
I would have screwed her. In the not too litteral sense. I would have written a message or proof that she was cheating on him. Forget that at least warn that dude because it kinda fuked up and shit that she did that. But we live in a fuked up world.
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 07:29 AM
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You should have busted in her face!
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 08:05 AM
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Well, from what I know, I'm the only incident. She is a "good" girl who just got emotionally attached to me. I painted her out in a bad light, but she nice. Actually, she is still with the guy. The boyfriend lives hours away and I never saw him. It wouldn't have done any good for me to tell him what happened. Then she would be pissed and I'd still be in the same position. Oh well.
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 08:10 AM
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Originally posted by tomfoolery
Well, from what I know, I'm the only incident. She is a "good" girl who just got emotionally attached to me. I painted her out in a bad light, but she nice. Actually, she is still with the guy. The boyfriend lives hours away and I never saw him. It wouldn't have done any good for me to tell him what happened. Then she would be pissed and I'd still be in the same position. Oh well.
Hmm..
http://www.acura-cl.com/forums/showt...hreadid=115224
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Sorry for whoring Eclipse's topic
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 08:21 AM
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Originally posted by tomfoolery
Well, from what I know, I'm the only incident. She is a "good" girl who just got emotionally attached to me. I painted her out in a bad light, but she nice. Actually, she is still with the guy. The boyfriend lives hours away and I never saw him. It wouldn't have done any good for me to tell him what happened. Then she would be pissed and I'd still be in the same position. Oh well.
I think its good you didn't tell him. Afterall, its not your problem but might have been if you had told. personally I don't like this ratting people out because you are pissed stuff so I think you did good.
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 08:27 AM
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I think its good you didn't tell him. Afterall, its not your problem but might have been if you had told. personally I don't like this ratting people out because you are pissed stuff so I think you did good.
True, just didn't know how bitter he was. I probably would have, maybe depends, I wasn't him so I dunno. There maybe was a chance she wanted u to try to win her over but who the hell knows?
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Old Oct 14, 2003 | 10:25 AM
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Originally posted by tomfoolery
Well, from what I know, I'm the only incident. She is a "good" girl who just got emotionally attached to me. I painted her out in a bad light, but she nice. Actually, she is still with the guy. The boyfriend lives hours away and I never saw him. It wouldn't have done any good for me to tell him what happened. Then she would be pissed and I'd still be in the same position. Oh well.
oh poor baby, she might angry if it comes out that she cheated on her bf?

I think anyone who cheats on anyone has whats coming to them.
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