older men..
01-07-2005, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
not going to say what i'm thinkinkg, but you know.
01-07-2005, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
There is higher probability that an older man is mature due to tons of experience (so they know how to please a girl), confident without being arrogant, and has direction in life. But of course, not all of them are like that.
I prefer older men myself. As they say, men age like fine wine.
01-07-2005, 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted by vtec_types
ok - so let's recap. a man old enough to be your father is flashing his money around, is buying you drinks (when you're not legally able to drink), and takes you back to his house the first night he meets you and appears to have fed you some pretty decent lines.20 year-old girls see things a lot differently than 38 year old single men. just be cautious. if you're out to just have fun - that's cool - just look out for #1
btw, he didnt' know i was underage until the next day, so i can't hold that against him. even after he found out though, he was still all about being with me.
ehh, who knows.
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01-11-2005, 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Michiraces2much
I've never dated a guy my own age. My bf now is 7 years older then me. Older men are better because they are usually 1- more mature 2- have a career 3- know what they want out of life
1-more mature -> they might not find a lot of the funny stuff you like funny
2-are settled down -> if you choose to move, he may not want to
3-are UGLIER 9 times out of 10! I say find some 20 year old studs
01-11-2005, 11:36 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
Older men are worse because they are usually
1-more mature -> they might not find a lot of the funny stuff you like funny
2-are settled down -> if you choose to move, he may not want to
3-are UGLIER 9 times out of 10! I say find some 20 year old studs
1-more mature -> they might not find a lot of the funny stuff you like funny
2-are settled down -> if you choose to move, he may not want to
3-are UGLIER 9 times out of 10! I say find some 20 year old studs
01-11-2005, 11:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Michiraces2much
Guess I got lucky then
01-11-2005, 11:53 PM
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Ok I hear this more mature and set in his career and maybe this doesn't apply when your older but remember in high school that senior dating the freshman? Yeah he as more mature then the freshman but to people his own age he was a butthead. I hang around 20 year old girls and half the time I roll my eyes at the stupid shit they say. So if old dude sits around and still hangs out with you he is either 1)Just trying to fuck 2)Just trying to fuck and fuck your friends. 3) Women his age knows he is an asshole/immature. Most older dudes I know find young girls annoying especially college chicks and would love to fuck but not much more. Truthfully it sounds like a bad situation and I usually wouldnt agree on other levels dating because trust if you were 30 and he was 48 it would be a big difference then it is now, because 20 yr old chicks are usually ignorant about the real world.
01-12-2005, 07:56 AM
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Depends upon what his motive is -
Could be a genuinely nice guy who fell for you because of your intrinsic personality.
Could be a guy in the midst of some freaking mid-life crisis (a few years early) trying to prove to himself and the world that he is still attractive and can land a sexy young thing
Could be that he has a thing for playing daddy, which is a little sick, but works for some....
I'd hang in there long enough to figure out what his motive is, and if his feelings are genuine, let the relationship take its course. But if he's just using you to prove his own youthful vigor, I'd blow that popsicle stand fast.
Could be a genuinely nice guy who fell for you because of your intrinsic personality.
Could be a guy in the midst of some freaking mid-life crisis (a few years early) trying to prove to himself and the world that he is still attractive and can land a sexy young thing
Could be that he has a thing for playing daddy, which is a little sick, but works for some....
I'd hang in there long enough to figure out what his motive is, and if his feelings are genuine, let the relationship take its course. But if he's just using you to prove his own youthful vigor, I'd blow that popsicle stand fast.
01-12-2005, 11:05 AM
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I started dating my husband when I was 20 and he was 37. I was an undergraduate
when he was a PHd student at WVU. I am now 44 and he is 61 . . .
so I know a little about this subject. Most of the time, the age difference
doesn't matter, but it isn't entirely irrelevent. I would say for now, just have fun and
see where this takes you. If it gets serious, you may find yourself in love and it won't
matter anymore. That's what happened in my case.
Rachel
when he was a PHd student at WVU. I am now 44 and he is 61 . . .
so I know a little about this subject. Most of the time, the age difference
doesn't matter, but it isn't entirely irrelevent. I would say for now, just have fun and
see where this takes you. If it gets serious, you may find yourself in love and it won't
matter anymore. That's what happened in my case.
Rachel
01-12-2005, 11:17 AM
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Originally Posted by berlinrl
I started dating my husband when I was 20 and he was 37. I was an undergraduate
when he was a PHd student at WVU. I am now 44 and he is 61 . . .
so I know a little about this subject. Most of the time, the age difference
doesn't matter, but it isn't entirely irrelevent. I would say for now, just have fun and
see where this takes you. If it gets serious, you may find yourself in love and it won't
matter anymore. That's what happened in my case.
Rachel
when he was a PHd student at WVU. I am now 44 and he is 61 . . .
so I know a little about this subject. Most of the time, the age difference
doesn't matter, but it isn't entirely irrelevent. I would say for now, just have fun and
see where this takes you. If it gets serious, you may find yourself in love and it won't
matter anymore. That's what happened in my case.
Rachel
01-12-2005, 11:40 PM
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Originally Posted by MikeyTampa
because 20 yr old chicks are usually ignorant about the real world.
Originally Posted by ric
Depends upon what his motive is -
Could be a genuinely nice guy who fell for you because of your intrinsic personality.
Could be a genuinely nice guy who fell for you because of your intrinsic personality.
... he never called. my friend saw him out the other night too, and he didn't say anything (that i know of), so i guess it's all just history.
01-13-2005, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted by jlukja
Ahhh, a symbiotic relationship. You get a sugar daddy, he gets a little sugar. Although it does fall below the formula line (his age/2 + 7)
01-13-2005, 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
then me and the 38 y.o. started messing around (no sex)
(oh, and he eats great pussy).
(oh, and he eats great pussy).
01-14-2005, 04:39 AM
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I am close to 12 years older than my wife...we have been together for ten years and married for almost eight years. By the way...both of us are Very Happy! 
01-14-2005, 05:39 PM
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Like I said in Blades thread..
Love has no age limits.....
As long as your happy, feel comfortable and are not held back from following your dreams/career then live life for today...because life is too short to sweat the small things.
(print this post out and hang it on your wall, maybe he will send me a PM thanking me for hooking him up)...
Love has no age limits.....
As long as your happy, feel comfortable and are not held back from following your dreams/career then live life for today...because life is too short to sweat the small things.
(print this post out and hang it on your wall, maybe he will send me a PM thanking me for hooking him up)...
01-16-2005, 11:30 AM
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mmm.. update:
so he finally called, we went out on a date last night, it was a lot of fun. then we went back to his house
i can honestly say i haven't enjoyed myself this much with a guy in a while.
older men are great in bed. and out of bed too. he actually has a brain. who knew men had brains? lol
so he finally called, we went out on a date last night, it was a lot of fun. then we went back to his house
i can honestly say i haven't enjoyed myself this much with a guy in a while.
older men are great in bed. and out of bed too. he actually has a brain. who knew men had brains? lol
01-16-2005, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
oh one more thing.... he CAME while going down on me because i was enjoying it so much ... YEAH 
Are you sure he just couldn't get it up and was trying to buy some time?
jk Mega. Glad you had a fun time!
01-16-2005, 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
oh one more thing.... he CAME while going down on me because i was enjoying it so much ... YEAH
01-16-2005, 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Rodney
Are you sure he just couldn't get it up and was trying to buy some time?if he couldn't get it up, he wouldn't have came.
01-16-2005, 02:57 PM
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that doesn't even make sense.
if he couldn't get it up, he wouldn't have came.
if he couldn't get it up, he wouldn't have came.
Im just messin with ya. I just thought that hem being 38 he may have told you that he came because he couldn't get it up and by him saying he came he could by more time without being embarressed. Unless you know for certain that he came, then Im wrong. I just find it hard to believe a guy could come from just pleasuring you. I might possibly understand if it was a 17 year old who was young and dumb and full of cum, but a 38 year old?? But nonetheless, glad you had a good time. I take it you slept with him.
01-17-2005, 09:40 PM
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I personally enjoy the fact that dark is 7 years older than I am. I mean he knows a little bit about everything...he has seen more than I have and had more experiences to teach me (and boy is he a great teacher!!) anyway, I would never go back to dating someone my age or younger.
01-17-2005, 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted by RMATIC09
uhh 
Was he jerking off ?
Was he jerking off ?
01-17-2005, 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
I personally enjoy the fact that dark is 7 years older than I am. I mean he knows a little bit about everything...he has seen more than I have and had more experiences to teach me (and boy is he a great teacher!!) anyway, I would never go back to dating someone my age or younger.