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Old 01-06-2005, 02:47 PM
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older men..

oh man.. it was my birthday last night, so i went out to a bar with a few of my girls, and we saw these guys that my 2 girlfriends knew, and we were hanging, etc. then eventually one of the guys was buying me birthday drinks, etc, and then me and the guy start having like real conversation, it was actually quite nice.

but he's 38.

... me and one of my friends went back to the guy's (HUGE) house with his friend, and we were hanging out, then me and the 38 y.o. started messing around (no sex) and this guy is like absolutely googley-eyed for me. he thinks i'm the coolest girl, blah blah. BUT HE"S 38!!!

he wants me to go out to dinner with him in the next couple of days... i'm scared! i mean, he's pretty goodlooking, loaded, and very nice. oh, and republican

what should i doooo????

(oh, and he eats great pussy).
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Old 01-06-2005, 02:50 PM
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Go for it! See how things go, just keep your heads up.

Older men are awesome!
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Old 01-06-2005, 02:54 PM
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Damn that is quite a bit older. Almost 2 times the age.

Have fun but that seems a little bit of a stretch for a relationship.

Man I hope at 38 I can score a 20 year old.
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Originally Posted by sasha
Go for it! See how things go, just keep your heads up.

Older men are awesome!
....don't you mean...keep his HEAD down...LOL...sorry, couldn't help it...
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Old 01-06-2005, 02:56 PM
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....don't you mean...keep his HEAD down...LOL...sorry, couldn't help it...
What?! His head should definitely be up, not down!
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Old 01-06-2005, 02:56 PM
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only 38? go older...they will spend even more money on you. try the retired set!
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Old 01-06-2005, 02:59 PM
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hahahah you posted it.

We had this conversation on AIM just a little while ago

I told her to go for it, and take advantage of his spending abilites.


I also added that the age thing is fine...when i'm just about to come out of my second marriage and move on to my third I will probably be in the 40-45 year old range. If my first daughter doesn't have any hot freshmen college roomates, I might just have to go hit on girls in their young 20s are the bars.

Do it, what do you have to lose.
You eat free, he eats pussy.
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Old 01-06-2005, 03:06 PM
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What's so wrong about 38??

do it.. ride him like it's the championship rodeo..
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Old 01-06-2005, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
What?! His head should definitely be up, not down!
that's a strange oral position...unless he his holding her upsided down (by the hips), while standing up...
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Old 01-06-2005, 03:09 PM
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What's so wrong about 38??

do it.. ride him like it's the championship rodeo..
I'm 39, but since I wear my goatee salt-n-pepper...I look too old for dem yungens...Sithgirl loves it...
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Old 01-06-2005, 03:12 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithCL
that's a strange oral position...unless he his holding her upsided down (by the hips), while standing up...
Um, I was referring to the other head...
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Old 01-06-2005, 03:13 PM
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I'd say go for it but keep an eye out, as in any relationship with someone new
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Old 01-06-2005, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Um, I was referring to the other head...
...LOL
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Old 01-06-2005, 03:35 PM
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38 is not that old
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Old 01-06-2005, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted by GreenMonster
38 is not that old
right! in dog years that's only like 5..
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Old 01-06-2005, 03:42 PM
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i'd say go for it...your not old old until you hit 39
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Old 01-06-2005, 04:14 PM
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Hmmm cant wait to be 38
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Old 01-06-2005, 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted by PavDog
right! in dog years that's only like 5..
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Old 01-06-2005, 04:48 PM
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If you're both mature, age is irrelevant.
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Originally Posted by mantis23
If you're both mature, age is irrelevant.
Till his equipment goes limp and hes applying for social security.
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Originally Posted by nicholbr
i'd say go for it...your not old old until you hit 39
no, actually 39 and gray... ...LOL
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Old 01-06-2005, 06:11 PM
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The SNAPS say go for it you got yourself a DILF

SNAPS only goes for MILF's
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Old 01-06-2005, 06:15 PM
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Go for it! Old, rich men...I see no problem with it.
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The SNAPS say go for it you got yourself a DILF
Dog I'd like to Fuck
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Old 01-06-2005, 07:33 PM
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Most older men know there is more than one way to please a woman. Get some clarity on what he expects relationship wise, and if it is something that you agree with, then go for it.
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Old 01-06-2005, 08:45 PM
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hmmmm. i guess get him to buy you a new car and then trade him in for a new model
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I've never dated a guy my own age. My bf now is 7 years older then me. Older men are better because they are usually 1- more mature 2- have a career 3- know what they want out of life
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Old 01-06-2005, 09:38 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1

Do it, what do you have to lose.
You eat free, he eats pussy.


Gotta be the best reply I have seen on here!!


Yes, go for it!!
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Old 01-06-2005, 10:07 PM
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Originally Posted by gdubb
Gotta be the best reply I have seen on here!!


Yes, go for it!!

Thank you. :masksface:
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Old 01-07-2005, 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
started messing around (no sex)
(oh, and he eats great pussy).
I didn't know eating pussy was considered just messing around I guess it's not sex, but it is oral sex and the real deal isn't usually far behind. Anyway, just have fun w/ the poor smuck. He old enough to know better than to get all googly-eyed over a chick he just met, but......Who cares about age really, same with inter-racial dating. It doesn't matter, it's a new millenium, do what you want, take it for what it is and don't get all caught up in the age difference thing.
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Old 01-07-2005, 07:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Michiraces2much
I've never dated a guy my own age. My bf now is 7 years older then me. Older men are better because they are usually 1- more mature 2- have a career 3- know what they want out of life


There is higher probability that an older man is mature due to tons of experience (so they know how to please a girl), confident without being arrogant, and has direction in life. But of course, not all of them are like that.

I prefer older men myself. As they say, men age like fine wine.
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My wife is 12 years my junior.
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Old 01-07-2005, 07:54 AM
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My wife is 12 years my junior.
smart man....
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Old 01-07-2005, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
oh man.. he eats great pussy).

He's had somewhere in the vacinity of 25 YEARS of experience, I would hope he has it mastered by now!
I would say go for it and see where it takes you. But beware.
I had a friend that started dating an older guy (22-36) and things started getting serious and a year later she thought that she had changed his playing ways that things were going great, blah, blah, blah.....needless to say that the "you can't teach an old dog new tricks" saying turned out to be true, and she was crushed to find out he was doing FOUR other girls behind her back. Then she felt foolish for thinking she was going to change a man who had been a player for the last 20 years. It was then she realized that she wasn't the first to "get fucked" by him, and probably won't be the last.

But I realize that not all old single men are like that.

Not only all that, dating an older man like that makes that whole hanging out with friends thing difficult, a 38 year old man will probably not have the greatest of times hanging out the 20 year olds on the weekends, and generally, a 20 year olds idea of fun does not tend to be hanging out with a group or 35-40 married couples......just a thought
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Old 01-07-2005, 09:40 AM
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My wife is 12 years my junior.
I though she your daughters' friend before you got married?
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Old 01-07-2005, 09:44 AM
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Older men issue

Have some fun with it and maybe even some nice gifts.

Just don't get to emotionally attached because he's more than likely just looking for a good time with a hot young girl.
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Old 01-07-2005, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted by joeshmoe
Have some fun with it and maybe even some nice gifts.

Just don't get to emotionally attached because he's more than likely just looking for a good time with a hot young girl.
Enjoy it while it lasts.
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Old 01-07-2005, 09:53 AM
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Originally Posted by joeshmoe
I though she your daughters' friend before you got married?

Not quite THAT young...
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Old 01-07-2005, 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted by joeshmoe
Have some fun with it and maybe even some nice gifts.

Just don't get to emotionally attached because he's more than likely just looking for a good time with a hot young girl.
ok - so let's recap. a man old enough to be your father is flashing his money around, is buying you drinks (when you're not legally able to drink), and takes you back to his house the first night he meets you and appears to have fed you some pretty decent lines.

20 year-old girls see things a lot differently than 38 year old single men. just be cautious. if you're out to just have fun - that's cool - just look out for #1
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Originally Posted by 1killercls

Not quite THAT young...


not going to say what i'm thinkinkg, but you know.
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