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Originally Posted by mesmerize
important lesson:
whether or not you're being truthful about your number, consistency is key. if you tell me that you've slept with 15 other girls... don't come back a year later and say you've been with 13 girls. that's just retarded.
(this happened to me recently... yea i get all the winners)
whether or not you're being truthful about your number, consistency is key. if you tell me that you've slept with 15 other girls... don't come back a year later and say you've been with 13 girls. that's just retarded.
(this happened to me recently... yea i get all the winners)
...j/k
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especially when she can't remember all of them...that's just unexcusible...downright slaughty.
I guess that the guy's friend who started this thread wanted to know her track record of relationships so he could make a decision on whether to take the relationship seriously. He has to base the relationship on something. In my opinion, you have to know something about your significant other's history. She might lie about it, but you can never actually. So, he has to know something about her.
Did she cheat?...how long were her past relationships?...Have you slept with a lot of people?....Have you had a one-night stand? These types of questions are some that asked my girlfriend.
Question to the women: How many is a lot if your boyfriend told you how many girls he slept with?... >5, >10?
I guess that the guy's friend who started this thread wanted to know her track record of relationships so he could make a decision on whether to take the relationship seriously. He has to base the relationship on something. In my opinion, you have to know something about your significant other's history. She might lie about it, but you can never actually. So, he has to know something about her.
Did she cheat?...how long were her past relationships?...Have you slept with a lot of people?....Have you had a one-night stand? These types of questions are some that asked my girlfriend.
Question to the women: How many is a lot if your boyfriend told you how many girls he slept with?... >5, >10?
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I think the inherent challenge for girls is they know they can get it whenever they want, but they have to be careful they don't look like a whore. So the "game" they need to have is to be smooth with the guys, but not so much that they're made out to be a whore (given that they care haha).
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From: Estero/Tallahassee, FL
Originally Posted by MisterMehoff
especially when she can't remember all of them...that's just unexcusible...downright slaughty.
I guess that the guy's friend who started this thread wanted to know her track record of relationships so he could make a decision on whether to take the relationship seriously. He has to base the relationship on something. In my opinion, you have to know something about your significant other's history. She might lie about it, but you can never actually. So, he has to know something about her.
Did she cheat?...how long were her past relationships?...Have you slept with a lot of people?....Have you had a one-night stand? These types of questions are some that asked my girlfriend.
Question to the women: How many is a lot if your boyfriend told you how many girls he slept with?... >5, >10?
I guess that the guy's friend who started this thread wanted to know her track record of relationships so he could make a decision on whether to take the relationship seriously. He has to base the relationship on something. In my opinion, you have to know something about your significant other's history. She might lie about it, but you can never actually. So, he has to know something about her.
Did she cheat?...how long were her past relationships?...Have you slept with a lot of people?....Have you had a one-night stand? These types of questions are some that asked my girlfriend.
Question to the women: How many is a lot if your boyfriend told you how many girls he slept with?... >5, >10?
dude, i am not a guy.
from my point of view, i say more than... 13 is a lot.
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From: Estero/Tallahassee, FL
Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
I think the inherent challenge for girls is they know they can get it whenever they want, but they have to be careful they don't look like a whore. So the "game" they need to have is to be smooth with the guys, but not so much that they're made out to be a whore (given that they care haha).
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From: Estero/Tallahassee, FL
Originally Posted by MisterMehoff
Is that age-dependent? the older you are, the more people you should have slept with?
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
Apparantly they give the best head....or so i hear. Because that's the only action they get 
they slob it all up...don't let nothing go to waste...heck they are cheap
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I can't believe I am fixing to say this...but I agree with Waddy...it's not the number, it's the type and lengths of relationships and whether the female has learned from those to improve the next relationship that comes along...like Aaliyah said...number aint a thang!!
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
Apparantly they give the best head....or so i hear. Because that's the only action they get
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
ok, so i was talking to one of my really good guy friends, and he was saying how his gf (of over a year) won't tell him how many guys she's slept with before him. This really bothers him, as he really loves her but is afraid she might have a past..
he thinks her number is under 5, but even that makes him uneasy. i mean, she's 22, if she's had a few boyfriends at least since high school, what is so outrageous about sleeping with 4-5 guys? now i'm pretty sure he has slept with more girls than she has slept with guys, but why does the number make a difference?
do all guys think like this? if a girl has dated a few guys, and had a couple one-nighters, is she doomed from settling down with "the one" b/c he won't be happy with her past? does this really bother guys?
this was also discussed in one of my classes, when we went over the dating chapter. our prof said most guys aren't comfortable dating a girl who has slept with more people than him (even if it's just one or 2.)
your thoughts?
he thinks her number is under 5, but even that makes him uneasy. i mean, she's 22, if she's had a few boyfriends at least since high school, what is so outrageous about sleeping with 4-5 guys? now i'm pretty sure he has slept with more girls than she has slept with guys, but why does the number make a difference?
do all guys think like this? if a girl has dated a few guys, and had a couple one-nighters, is she doomed from settling down with "the one" b/c he won't be happy with her past? does this really bother guys?
this was also discussed in one of my classes, when we went over the dating chapter. our prof said most guys aren't comfortable dating a girl who has slept with more people than him (even if it's just one or 2.)
your thoughts?
I personally go for more experienced chicks myself. They are more comfortable with their bodies sexually, and are usually a great lay. also for all you prudes out there, I would like to ask: how the fawk do you expect her to gain the experience neccesary to satisfy you?
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
umm, it doesn't make us feel any better when a guy has screwed a lot of girls either...
no one wants to feel like they're just another number on the list. that's why it's important that if you're going to be commited to someone, you need to show it and make sure they know that right off the bat if you want the relationship to go anywhere, even if they know your sexual history. actions speak louder than words, or numbers in this case.
no one wants to feel like they're just another number on the list. that's why it's important that if you're going to be commited to someone, you need to show it and make sure they know that right off the bat if you want the relationship to go anywhere, even if they know your sexual history. actions speak louder than words, or numbers in this case.
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
umm, it doesn't make us feel any better when a guy has screwed a lot of girls either...
no one wants to feel like they're just another number on the list. that's why it's important that if you're going to be commited to someone, you need to show it and make sure they know that right off the bat if you want the relationship to go anywhere, even if they know your sexual history. actions speak louder than words, or numbers in this case.
no one wants to feel like they're just another number on the list. that's why it's important that if you're going to be commited to someone, you need to show it and make sure they know that right off the bat if you want the relationship to go anywhere, even if they know your sexual history. actions speak louder than words, or numbers in this case.
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