tomfoolery

The pregnancy test came back positive!!! What is the world coming to?

My girlfriend is pregnant. I'm 24 and she is 21...we are thinking late July or August. We hope to get married in March before she starts showing. Which is fine, I was going to marry her anyway, but not like this.

No more car stereos, motorcycles. No boy toys, only diapers. Ahhhhh. Actually, I'm kinda excited, kinda overwhelmed.

Learn from me. The withdraw method doesn't work.

Casper98CL

well how bout thi sforst.. go to a DR and make sure.. those tests are not always accurate.. if her urine was tanted (depending on foods, bev, etc) it may show positive... make sure... and yesyour lifestyle will change but not end...

you are blessed witha child (possibly).. enjoy it.. this will be your greatest gift to get 2 days b4 Xmas!!!

GeishaGirl

Yeah, if you were planning to marry her anyway, take it as a blessing...congrats dude!

PillsburyChoboy

Sorry, no sympathy here ... have known too many people who fuck around and have too much fun without any foresight into potential consequences.

Hope you have a full-time job or prepared financially ... do you have any fucking idea how much a kid costs BEFORE and after conception? I'm a bottom-line guy so having kids too early are like having a pair of ball-and-chains shackled to your feet (the kid and the mom). At least your accountible and it sounds like you're going to lay the groundwork for a nice future with your lady and kid. Be responsible and good luck.

mc222

Too much tomfoolery will get you into trouble! Sorry, just had to

Congrats man, I know it wasnt supposed to be like this, but nontheless - You have created a human life...Its beautiful - Things will work out financially - They always do...Hey Powerball is up to 130 mill...Go buy a few tickets

soopa

she is way too young for marriage or a child.

tomfoolery

good inputs...
I am financially set...I'm a stock broker. I love her more than anything and even though the baby is the size of a grain of sand I find myself in love with it too. I'm excited for this beautiful gift, it's just not how it's been planned in my mind.

I have thought of the consequences and before this happened we were trying to stop having sex anyway. didn't work.

as far as checking with a doctor, we are, but she is two weeks late on her period. don't need a doctor to figure it out.

95gt

Withdrawal method

Man people are still so dumb about sex. Use no protection and shock get a kid as a result. 2 friends in college got pregnant and everyone was like "weren't you on the pill last time we talked" Yeah but we decided to use the rythm method.

Damn Retards

Take good care of the kid. Congrats

Casper98CL

BS... I had this scenario.. scared me silly...

1 month late, + test and NO BABY!!!her body was waked from STRESS... dont be so sure because you will expect it and then be GREATLY disappointed... Even knowing that I could not afford it and my life would change drastically at 21 (then) I was sooo depressed when i found out it wasnt for real because i was so expecting taht it was!!!

fusionnv

WTF are u in highschool. Thank should have wrap ur tool, well in ur case u older, could have put her ass on the pill.

Casper98CL

wtf?!

tomfoolery

yeah...I'm stupid, but trojans were always ripping anyway....

Anyhoo, I'm getting what I asked for. Oh well, I'm kinda excited.

fusionnv

U can get the morning after pill. But i guess it too late now. For the other dudes, if that shit broke, the chick can get this pill and it make her have her period so no babies. It not something that you want to make a habit but it a last ditch effort if u avoiding the cradle. I just not ready for a kid yet, maybe in 3 years. I am 25 now.

That cool, see after the doctor results to see if u are really having a baby. Congrats my bro just gave this to my parents



I be an uncle in may.

Katies99CL

congratulations....i'm glad it's something you're excited about.
how does she feel?

SilviaGTO

I dont know, even if i were to get pregnant at 20.. it would definately change things and be a burden, But i would still be happy.

My friend had a baby when she was 19, she got married, but even with a baby, she managed to finish her psychology degree at unf and go to UF for law school (she has a very supportive husband), and her baby is one of the most precious things in the world.
She made good out of what couldve been a bad situation..

Chaptorial

Any thoughts on an abortion?

tomfoolery

Abortion is a huge "no no" in my book.
Why should someone else be killed for my actions???

Like I said earlier...I love this child already.

Ashburner

Hey Tom,

Welcome to the club. I look to be an expecting father too- July 25th to be exact. I'm 25, she's 27... we're not togeth but we are good friends. At this point, I'm not sure what is going to happen but I know I'm gonna love that kid like there is no tomorrow.

Good luck

PM me if ya wanna talk

JLai

Or put it in her ass.

J/K...

If this is what you want, congrats! Just kinda odd for the title to be "No No Nooooooooo"

GOOSE

I was thinking the same thing.

Seems like your posts and your title conflict with each other.

tomfoolery

ha ha, I thought of that too. It's just a funny title that I thought would draw people in.

To explain it though, this isn't want we "want", but since it is going to happen anyway, we have decided to be "happy" about it. Does this make sense?

Scooter

actually, there are pills you can take up to 72 hours after the blessed event

Casper98CL

I am sorry but FAWK That.. if you knock someone up, follow through with the consequences of living your life for your baby!!!

MAN enough to fawk, but not MAN enough to do anything responsible... I am against abortion and the pills!!! These are easy ways out of taking responsibility for ones stupidity!!!

tomfoolery

I agree Casper.

fusionnv

I think in some cases it is an option some people should have taken. Having a kid is kinda hard and some people may not be ready (tom seems to be ready), i seen some "parents" blame their kids for their crappy life, etc etc.

I not supportive really on abortion, but the pills I kinda ok with that. When u take the pills there is no baby and the doctor makes sure of that because they make u take the Pregnancy test.

Casper98CL

yea but still... if they are NOT ready to be parents they SHOULD be protected at all times or NOT have sex!!! Every action has consequences.. you must be prepared for those times that it might happen.. Accidents do happen.. but its a blessing not a curse!!!

fusionnv

I agree, but I dunno some people just become stupid or something when it comes to that. Doing things like pulling out etc etc. It may work some times, but evenutally it going to get u.