GeishaGirl

Some of you may remember my post from a while back about my X dumping me. Well yesterday something seriously weird happened.

I haven't really thought about or dreamed about my X lately, but yesterday I had a dream that I went to his house and found some b*tch living there. It was this b*tch that he chats with online. For some reason throughout our relationship he held his online friends in a higher regard than he did me and ultimately their advice was part of the reason he broke up with me...anywayyyy...I was freaking out because our relationship isn't even cold in it's grave and he already had someone move in. He was trying to hide a letter he was writing from me and the only word I could decipher was the first word on the paper...love and I knew that it was a letter to her. He started raving that he loves her and wants to be with her etc...so i start freaking out and eventually my dream turns into a scene from Age of Mythology....but that part isn't important.

You maybe be wondering why I thought to mention this in the forum at all...the very day after I woke up I decided to go to 24 Hours Fitness...I am driving along, miss the turn because I was thinking about that dream and listening to a sad song. I figure okay no big deal and take the next available turn...and who do I end up behind? Him and some b*tch....damn! What kind of coincidence is that? I cried all the way home. It sounds silly, but it bothered me. It was like I was meant to have that dream and end up behind him and some girl. If I had just bumped into him and someone else without having the dream or vice versa it wouldn't have made a difference, but it was kind of like my nightmare came true since both events occured on the same day....

I guess my question is, do any of you believe in signs? Some of my friends think I should take this as a sign from God and just give up on the bastard. I know he isn't any of my business anymore, but I guess it still hurts to see him around. What hurts also is that he never really made the effort to take me anywhere and now that we have broken up he can go ahead and make the effort for others

SilviaGTO

hon, im sorry

but you shouldve given up on the bastard a long time ago.

Its corny, but as they say, time heals all wounds.

i mean hell theres plenty of nice guys on here that would treat you right, you just gotta find someone like that on the islands

fusionnv

FUK HIM! Well no but, well unless u can Forget him, I am going to make it offical u not allow to speak of this bastid anymore after this thread. He is crap and good thing u got rid of him. Now you can go meet a real man instead of keeping this boy.

ferizzo

You should have stopped hoping to get together with him a long time ago. No need for a cute girl like you to suffer this donkey. Move on! You're too young to cry over him.

swclown

Gilgamesh

Eactly...let it go he's not worth it. You are too good for him, and too good to be letting yourself go through this. Shit, if I can get a date, then you will not have any problems

Dirty note: Fly up here, I'll make you feel better (Its good for what ails ya)

darrinb

i hate weird dreams

Chinisimo

what everyone has said. don't think about him and his bs anymore. from what i read from you, you are waaaaaaaaaaay too good for him. it's his lost and not yours.

GeishaGirl

hehe aww thanks u guys!!!! And yes fusionnv this is the last thread I am wasting on his assss . It just hurts that I wasted almost a year and a half of my life on him and he can't even have the decency to mourn a little...he says he wants to be friends but WTF is he now? I mean if he doesn't want to be friends he should be up front about it, rather than just leaving me hanging

Has that happened to anyone else? Someone tells you they want to be friends after a break-up and they were lying?

Python2121

its him trying not to have you spaz out and key his car or something















































so spaz out and key his car

GeishaGirl

haha I don't want to hurt my keys keying that POS lol...but good advice!

cmark

yeah, weird dreams (premonitions) are fawked up!!! I've had plenty about this one girl and they be spooky

Miss iVTEC

I know how you feel about the guy not really putting any effort into the relationship, but then after you break up, he starts working out again, keeping a cut, etc......Luckily I haven't seen my ex with anyone yet, but I know when I do that it's going to hurt. 4 1/2 years will do that to you. I still have my down days, but just try to focus on yourself instead of him. It sounds like you were trying to make the relationship work, as was I, so take care of yourself for once. This sounds like a cliche, but every day that goes by you will get stronger, and realize that you CAN survive without this person.

AQUI NO!

oh poor geisha......hope u feel better. come to socal, it's already snowing in the mtns.

Chaptorial

Sucks for that dude. Sounds like he lost a great girl.

fusionnv

Damn It looks like all a girl gotta do on here is to post a pic of her boobs and everybody just shows up.

GeishaGirl

Yeah Agui I wish I were in SoCal now!!! I used to live there 2 years back..miss the damn place. Unfortunately while I was living there snow wasn't present.

Thanks Chaptorial !

I know what you mean Miss iVTEC. Time is a b****!

hehe and fusionnv...I wish that solved problems haha...but I wasn't the one that posted it up. Didn't want to force anything obscene on anyone

fusionnv

I think u made some acl nerdings very happy and I am pretty sure they :bukkake: all over the place.

dbox

i wanne see the boob pic

GeishaGirl

lol check Scooters post about why life is worth living

Gilgamesh

You gave 2 very compelling reasons.

GeishaGirl

haha too bad there aren't any takers lol

Gilgamesh

If I had money...I'd take

GeishaGirl

haha what does money have to do with it? .

Gilgamesh

I can't hitch hike across the pacific :P Or can I?

GeishaGirl

hahaha u could try and swim for it lol

fusionnv

Yeah ur island is like a strong hold for us mainlanders. hahaha

GeishaGirl

Damn...last night I found out that the girl who was with him was in fact the exact girl from my dream! Am I psychic or what? Gets worse though...

Last night I went to his damn house to drop off his bday gift...and it was all good. He invites me back after I finish going out to the other party I'm supposed to go to. So I ditch that other party and go back to his house and he completely ignores me...what happened to "hey if you're not doing anything after you're done why don't you come back here?"...what a bastard...seriously Should have never gone back...wasn't thinking that was a huge no no!

SilviaGTO

hon, no offense but why are you even talking to him? let alone giving him bday presents?!

GeishaGirl

I have no idea ...the bday present wasn't really a present..it was actually a goodbye letter and this CD I made for his sorry ass...I guess I just wanted closure...but as soon as I saw a glimmer of hope I just swooped in and got shut downnnnn...I now know that there is no hope...was never any hope...

fusionnv

Stop being weak. Everytime u see him/ think of him, just think of all the goddamn FUKED UP SH*T he ever did to u.

GeishaGirl

I know fusion...mannnn someone has to slap me upside the head!

fusionnv

I guess u just need somebody to sweep you off your feet. That will make your worries go away.

GeishaGirl

haha if only it were as easy as that to find someone to sweep me off my feet....

amisconception

you knew to stay away.............................................. .........................................



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but you didn't



poor thing... I've done the same thing before...

ferizzo

We'll use Dbox's cock and maybe that will knock some sense into you! I'd use mine but that might knock you unconscious...that or tickle you!

Bad move going over there. Closure should be you never talking to him! I don't understand this I need closure bullshit.