Nice Guy Syndrome
10-13-2003, 04:53 AM
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Originally posted by fusionnv
You probably have to be their "friend" watch them date the biggest assholes etc and have them cheat on them of course. And sit their and have them crazy, "Y do I pick the wrong ones" hahahaa.
You probably have to be their "friend" watch them date the biggest assholes etc and have them cheat on them of course. And sit their and have them crazy, "Y do I pick the wrong ones" hahahaa.
it's the 'ol double standard chic...she SAYS she wants something meaningful, but she winds up being weak and caving into the whole sex thing...y???? i have a number of theories, wanting the attention and thinking this is the only way to be noticed tops my list
10-13-2003, 04:56 AM
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Originally posted by fusionnv
I agree. It takes a long time before anything can happen being a really nice guy. Damn it sux because even if the chick is interested in you and stuff, it can turn it to "I just want to be friends". I was like WTF.
I agree. It takes a long time before anything can happen being a really nice guy. Damn it sux because even if the chick is interested in you and stuff, it can turn it to "I just want to be friends". I was like WTF.
10-13-2003, 06:23 AM
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Girls wants someone they can change or have someone to make them feel like they are needed. its their biological nurture side coming out...the "motherly care" if you will. Its always a game, took me forever to learn that. You have to keep them interested without them knowing they can have you if they wanted. Gotta make them "earn" you. Tricky ass shit. Its always about the chase...Remember that.
10-13-2003, 06:57 AM
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I've lived every one of those...
The dreaded "hug".. OMG I"m going to barf!
Or the dreaded "phone thing"..
Yeah I generally sucked at dating when I was younger.. But I *finally* figured many of the signals where you just fold your cards and walk away. Don't get pulled into that endless teasing shit.. You def. gotta put it on the line. Life's too short.
The dreaded "hug".. OMG I"m going to barf!
Or the dreaded "phone thing"..
Yeah I generally sucked at dating when I was younger.. But I *finally* figured many of the signals where you just fold your cards and walk away. Don't get pulled into that endless teasing shit.. You def. gotta put it on the line. Life's too short.
10-13-2003, 07:02 AM
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Check this one out...I sat holding and cheering up a crying girl for 3 hours because my friend didn't want a relationship with her after leading her on **and the bad part of this is that I agreed to let him have her b/c he wanted her more** hahaha...
Things I've sworn I'll never do again.
Things I've sworn I'll never do again.
10-13-2003, 07:32 AM
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Originally posted by Got Rice?
Check this one out...I sat holding and cheering up a crying girl for 3 hours because my friend didn't want a relationship with her after leading her on **and the bad part of this is that I agreed to let him have her b/c he wanted her more** hahaha...
Things I've sworn I'll never do again.
Check this one out...I sat holding and cheering up a crying girl for 3 hours because my friend didn't want a relationship with her after leading her on **and the bad part of this is that I agreed to let him have her b/c he wanted her more** hahaha...
Things I've sworn I'll never do again.
10-14-2003, 02:22 AM
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I used to be the nice guy. during high school, I was the shy guy. I never got anywhere being shy. now, I don't give a fuc. I won't hesitate to approach a woman and start a conversation. being calm and confident will get you far. even if you are a dork like me!
10-14-2003, 07:54 AM
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Originally posted by Got Rice?
Girls wants someone they can change or have someone to make them feel like they are needed. its their biological nurture side coming out...the "motherly care" if you will. Its always a game, took me forever to learn that. You have to keep them interested without them knowing they can have you if they wanted. Gotta make them "earn" you. Tricky ass shit. Its always about the chase...Remember that.
Girls wants someone they can change or have someone to make them feel like they are needed. its their biological nurture side coming out...the "motherly care" if you will. Its always a game, took me forever to learn that. You have to keep them interested without them knowing they can have you if they wanted. Gotta make them "earn" you. Tricky ass shit. Its always about the chase...Remember that.
Just gotta act indifferent... sometimes you get lucky though
It sucks that you gotta not be nice. I think I'm being too nice, so I gotta put the smack down 
10-14-2003, 08:02 AM
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A lot of broads want guys who are nice to THEM, not nice guys in general. If they percieve you are overly nice to everyone, it means very little to them to do nice thing for them.
The "asshole" who treats them well if you will.
I am a nice guy in general, so what the fuck do I know about women though? haha
The "asshole" who treats them well if you will.
I am a nice guy in general, so what the fuck do I know about women though? haha
10-14-2003, 10:23 AM
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Originally posted by Pull_T
A lot of broads want guys who are nice to THEM, not nice guys in general. If they percieve you are overly nice to everyone, it means very little to them to do nice thing for them.
The "asshole" who treats them well if you will.
I am a nice guy in general, so what the fuck do I know about women though? haha
A lot of broads want guys who are nice to THEM, not nice guys in general. If they percieve you are overly nice to everyone, it means very little to them to do nice thing for them.
The "asshole" who treats them well if you will.
I am a nice guy in general, so what the fuck do I know about women though? haha
but the same could be said about me
10-14-2003, 11:49 PM
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Originally posted by NetamiAccord
Tone down the "I would do anything for you" stuff, be a little aloof...chicks like a little mystery every once in a while.
Tone down the "I would do anything for you" stuff, be a little aloof...chicks like a little mystery every once in a while.
The Ladder theory seems right too. Money, power, elevated social standing all color the way she perceives you.
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