Call her on it.

"Girls usually ask for my name when they look at me like that."

or "Wow, you're pretty obvious."

She'll say something dumb, just react and be cool. Then ask her what she's doing later. If she's on the clock she might have a hard time giving you her number right there, but she may.

Yea, I know, it's annoying but you only get better with practice. Look at her as practice, don't be so concerned with the outcome. Just think that you're going to chat her up and see if she's up to playing body bingo at your place.

You could always take a chance that people might have opinions that you could never control. Look, 95% of the time you see a hot girl circumstances won't be ideal. You just have to grab your balls, accept that there's a lump in your throat, and just say "hi" - any opening works, you don't have to be that damn smooth, she's probably nervous too if she's really giving you googly eyes.

You need more practice dude. Talk to random girls everywhere, in fact. Don't even hit on them, just strike up conversations with random girls and go about your day. Once you build some confidence with speaking to them you won't feel so awkward with a girl you do dig. Don't make this thing about this one girl, make about improving your game in general.

Also, if and when you do decide to ask this girl out or whatever, warm up by talking to other girls a few minutes before her. Don't worry so much, focus on warm fuzzy clouds - anything to take your mind off not getting a stupid phone number.

 

Next time you go pay, unzip your pants and whip out your weiner.

 

amis gets it.


learn from him

 

You ever read the book "The Game"? Not that I have but I see some hints of that in your advice. Very good.

 

neil straussssssss.
I've never read it either, but the main thing to take away is to be confident and be the man.

Women dont want pussies.

 

Aight so, this one works. Just make sure to practice it with one of your friends.

Go up to her with a smile and say "Hi, do you know how to scare a bee??" she'll probably be creeped out or something and respond with "umm no"..

This is your cue! Be swift like a tiger and say " BOObee" then grab one of her boobs (doesn't matter which one).

She'll be shocked with disbelief and fall head over heals in love with the handsome, confident, and young man whom had the balls to grab her boobs at work.

Come back a week later and ask for her number.

IT'S THAT EASY!

 

I have the copy that looks like a Bible. That book has been discussed quite a few times, its always a good chat to hear what Amis thinks of it.

 

Ya, I know the book. Haven't read it and that's all I'll really say about it.

The problem with your statement is that it leaves out a lot of meat. Women react positively to confidence, for many reasons - none of which you describe very well in your sentence.

Confidence, in this context, can be described as a strong certainty about your intellectual, emotional capacity. It's about the depth to which you believe in yourself and your own ideas.

Confidence is not something you can fake for very long. Some people gain confidence in themselves, especially with respect to women, much later in life. Something about the biology of our human bodies and the evolution of social constructs and ideals plays a significant role in how we approach the entire subject.

As a guy, you can't help but try to approach the subject of approaching and nailing women logically. The difficulty is in accepting that the fairy tales we've been told to believe are not real. The unrealistic whims of our well-intentioned mothers, in enrolling us in faggy activities, maybe a father not in the picture, etc. - Those are things you have to deal with to be confident. Even then, some people are cool as a cucumber and you'll never know why.

The idea that confidence is what you really need is not without any merit, but it's not enough. To someone who doesn't have confidence, explaining the process of gaining confidence does him a great service.

True for the most part. But women sleep with guys they don't really want all the time

In fact, if you tell a girl to give you a list of what she does want, you'll laugh at how unrealistic her expectations are.

 

So much this. Plus, the more girls you know, the less bad you'll feel when a particular one says no or rebukes you. I mean, what would you care if one girl turns you down if you know 20 other beautiful women?

 

Thanks!
I was short on time and posted quickly!

Ive learned from you and 1louder.

 

Ship yourself there via UPS in a big box(Fedx will work to)..You can wrap the box if you want but make sure to wrap it poorly(nothing screams queer like a guy who can wrap good)Have yourself delivered to said market with instructions to take you to her register..JUMP out of the box with a boom box in one hand blaring Earth Angel and your cock in the other pissing all over the place.

 

 

i usually approach a cashier with money in my hand...

or a pistol.

 

Just ask her out!! If she says no ask if she has any hot friends that need a wiener in their near future.

 

Best way to win a girl is to make her jealous.

I'll give you my advice for 2 payments of 29.95. No refunds.

 

 

be confident,
you've already established a rapport, she wants what you have, make it happen!

next time you see her, tell her that you're planning an amazing night, you want her to be there, pull out your phone number, (hopefully you already have her name), enter it, then say that you already have her name, you just need her number, look at her, expecting her to give it to you. Type it in, and tell her that you'll give her the details later.

done.

I've used this and it's worked. It's kinda like magic, as soon as you pull out a phone and ask a number, people are conditioned to give it.
I've also done the note at the bank before. I only thought after how that must have looked on the camera.

 

till she gives a fake number

 

This actually worked for me once at a restaurant.

Her: "Here is your receipt"
Me: "Thank you, but I think there is something wrong with it"
Her: "What is that?"
Me: "Your phone number is not on it"
Her: "Oh, haha, nice one.. Here you go, call me later"

 

Nice!

 

So that's how you met the wifey?

 

Whatever you do, don't jizz in your pants when she asks "cash or credit?" And don't pay by check.