It's like this. There's this girl that I used to work with that I like. I think she is a very pretty girl but what gets me the most is that she has all the qualities I look for in a girl. When she first started working at my job she wasn't with anyone but I never wanted to be in a relationship with her as long as we were working together so I never did anything. She started going out with this guy and it was just w/e to me. Then a few weeks before I left that job she broke up with him. I had my chance but I didn't do anything. So now I work at a different place and they are back together but it seems like it's not going too well and they will probably break up again. I just don't know what it is in me that when I have a chance I don't that advantage of it. I know myself pretty well and if I want something bad enough I get it. But with her I just don't know. I don't know what's holding me back.

EDIT: I just wanted to add that as much as I want to and try to I just can't totally forget about this girl. Someway somehow I always end up thinking about here again.

 

If you want her for a quick fling, then sweep in when they break up. If you want something long term, she needs at least a few weeks if not a month so you are not merely a rebound guy.

 

true, give it some time so she can get back together

 

do you think I've waited too long to try something or is it still all good? I've known her for almost a year now.

 

at this point you have nothing to lose!!! you can ONLY GAIN from tryin!!!