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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 10:23 AM
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need girl advice

okay i got 3 options: just i don't know what to do.

girl #1: good parts: she's hot(6 ft 150-160 lbs), she has a good job(pharmacist), and she seems to got her head on stright.
bad part: at times she can be a bitch and just uncareing, she's not sure if she wants a relationship(i'm working on her about it). she always thinks every dude a male whore and humps anything with a pulse.

Girl #2: good parts: she's okay looking(not as good as girl#1), has a "okay job"(RN), she's more caring and sincere than girl #1,
bad part: she kind of the wild girl type. she doesn't wanna commit. she just got divorced.

Girl #3:? whoever comes along and cut the other 2 loose.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 10:39 AM
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can you just 'date' 1 & 2? Both do not seem like they will be the one, so have fun and not get serious. It is not what they are looking for.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Eggplant-EX
can you just 'date' 1 & 2? Both do not seem like they will be the one, so have fun and not get serious. It is not what they are looking for.
dating both of them to rich for my blood. then you gotta buy 2 b-day gifts, 2 christmas gifts, 2 valentine's day gift, 2 of everything.
I can handle one. plus i'm saving for my "fun car". got about 5 grand saved up for my C63. so it's either option #1,#2 , or #3.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 11:52 AM
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I say go for #3. #1 is a bitch, and no one wants to deal with that. #2 sounds like she has too much baggage with the divorce.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by CL-Slick
I say go for #3. #1 is a bitch, and no one wants to deal with that. #2 sounds like she has too much baggage with the divorce.
at times i'm leaning that way cause #2. at times seems like she just wants to be friends. which pisses me off. cause i always hate it when chicks just wanna be friends.
#1. i'm trying to retain her to "debitchify" her. she knows what she's doing is wrong. just she's pulling the same shit of maybe wants to be friends.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 12:42 PM
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Don't force it man, give it time and it will come. Just chill and go do stuff accasionally, if they like you they will want to stay with you.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 01:04 PM
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 01:35 PM
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dood there's 2 kinds of Women, One's you have fucked and one's you haven't yet. You know what to do.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 01:57 PM
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dood there's 2 kinds of Women, One's you have fucked and one's you haven't yet. You know what to do.
well then my record sucks then cause the fucked to not fucked ratio like
10:9 zillion .
my record worse than the Bengals
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 02:07 PM
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I thought you have a gf who is a nurse?
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 02:50 PM
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I'd focus on #1 and keep #2 as a side dish. You're not windows xp so don't overwhelm yourself trying to multitask. #2 is a recent divorcee and that's samsonite baggage you don't want or need.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted by surfer rick
I'd focus on #1 and keep #2 as a side dish. You're not windows xp so don't overwhelm yourself trying to multitask. #2 is a recent divorcee and that's samsonite baggage you don't want or need.
#2. looking from the outside and talking to her is more exotic. not cause she's a stripper or anything like that but just she has piercings and a couple tattoos. like one a "playboy bunny" on her left boob, one a her daughters intials on her foot. plus she has 3 piercings. If i had to put money on it #2. I'll end up bagging.
plus added bonus she's bi-sexual:
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 03:51 PM
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I thought you have a gf who is a nurse?
dumped her awhile ago homie
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted by stright-(paint)balling
plus added bonus she's bi-sexual:
Well, why the f-ck didn't you mention that earlier? That trumps everything else fool!
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 04:24 PM
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Originally Posted by stright-(paint)balling
plus added bonus she's bi-sexual:
So she's not entirely "stright".

Bag #2, dump her, and then move on to #1. Repeat and move on to #3.

Or, get #2 interested in #1 and go for the threesome.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 04:28 PM
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Or, get #2 interested in #1 and go for the threesome.
Preaching to the choir
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 04:42 PM
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LMFAO!!! Girls perspective dump #1 and #2...go for #3...if your already dating 2 girls at the same time your heart isn't in it hun!! Nice to see that guys actually think about this stuff...now get out there and have some fun
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted by svtmike
So she's not entirely "stright".

Bag #2, dump her, and then move on to #1. Repeat and move on to #3.

Or, get #2 interested in #1 and go for the threesome.
not a chance #2 will go for #1. but #1 got a "playmate" as she calls it.
plus #2. got nipple rings (no y'all can't see). that's what i was getting at when i said she's kind of exotic.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 08:15 PM
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LMFAO!!! Girls perspective dump #1 and #2...go for #3...if your already dating 2 girls at the same time your heart isn't in it hun!! Nice to see that guys actually think about this stuff...now get out there and have some fun
it's not really "dating" it's kind of like you know you how recruiters from colleges go to high schools for football to watch "big name players." then they send a letter of intrest. well typically a big name kid will get 4-5 letters. well that's like me i'm getting a few chicks and weeding it down.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 08:16 PM
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How about Girl #4?

i.e. someone not related to you
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Ken1997TL
How about Girl #4?

i.e. someone not related to you
very funny she isn't related. all of them.
besides chick #2. is a Michigan fan she'd SOOOOO be kicked out of the family, concidering my great uncle coaches for Ohio State.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 08:26 PM
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the weird thing with chick #2. is she doesn't want a relationship but she calls my cell like 3-4 times a day. she says oh how sweet i am. all this jazz. but she claims she doesn't want a relationship because of being hurt. i don't get it.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted by stright-(paint)balling
the weird thing with chick #2. is she doesn't want a relationship but she calls my cell like 3-4 times a day. she says oh how sweet i am. all this jazz. but she claims she doesn't want a relationship because of being hurt. i don't get it.
Chick #2 really wants to be in a relationship~we try to act that way and say we don't want to get hurt and be in a relationship...ya we like ya if were call you 3 or 4 times a day LOL!!
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 09:07 PM
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Questions about relationships and girls are best asked to the girls. Because everyone already know how guys think.
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Old Oct 18, 2008 | 09:55 PM
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Neither one (option 3). If you can't clearly choose between 2 women, then neither one is good enough for you.
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Old Oct 19, 2008 | 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted by ifs2
Chick #2 really wants to be in a relationship~we try to act that way and say we don't want to get hurt and be in a relationship...ya we like ya if were call you 3 or 4 times a day LOL!!
she keeps on saying she wants take things slow, blah,blah,blah, she doesn't wanna get hurt, blah,blah,blah. but then she'll be on the net during i'm at her house and she'll be like "wanna see something cool?" i'm like "sure" she goes on to a sex toy page and be like " i got that one and that one." i'm like "uh cool."
just she's sending mixed signals cause one minute she's saying slow down, next minute she's showing me her sex toys online.
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Old Oct 19, 2008 | 08:49 AM
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Originally Posted by stright-(paint)balling
she keeps on saying she wants take things slow, blah,blah,blah, she doesn't wanna get hurt, blah,blah,blah. but then she'll be on the net during i'm at her house and she'll be like "wanna see something cool?" i'm like "sure" she goes on to a sex toy page and be like " i got that one and that one." i'm like "uh cool."
just she's sending mixed signals cause one minute she's saying slow down, next minute she's showing me her sex toys online.
LOL!!! looks like you got a wild one on your hands~you both should link up have some crazy fun sex and ask her to show the new toys...That's What's up
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Old Oct 19, 2008 | 11:11 AM
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give the transsexual a shot.
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Old Oct 19, 2008 | 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
give the transsexual a shot.
Judy(the bi-sexual chick) isn't tranny i've seen the equipment upstairs and downstairs. plus she gave birth so until dude's give birth she's a chick.
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Old Oct 20, 2008 | 08:15 AM
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Yeah dude, take it from the girl. The more they say that garbage about "not wanting to be in a relationship now" but calling you 4x a day means they want to. Just like when a girl you just met says "we're not having sex tonight" that means she's already thinking about it and probably will give up the buns if you work it right.

Actions speak louder than words.
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Old Oct 20, 2008 | 09:01 AM
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One thing to think about when going into a relationship. Never go in trying to change someone, it won't work. If your trying to change #1 about her bitchiness, good luck.......
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Old Oct 20, 2008 | 10:14 AM
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I dont know about any of you guys...but this thread is just a cloud of invisible fairy dust until some pics of these supposed women are added.

I have seen pics of water, and have seen his posting history here. That puts him in the "Couldn't get laid in a whore house with a hand full of hundred dollar bills" group.
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Old Oct 20, 2008 | 01:36 PM
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i want to see his definition of "hot"
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Old Oct 21, 2008 | 12:20 AM
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i want to see his definition of "hot"
2nd cousin?
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Old Oct 21, 2008 | 11:07 AM
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he wont be back.
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Old Oct 21, 2008 | 11:52 AM
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use #2 to make #1 jealous (by focusing on #2 and leaving no attention on #1)...then you can bone #1 & #2...girls always want what they cant have
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Old Oct 22, 2008 | 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted by tsx 2 nv
use #2 to make #1 jealous (by focusing on #2 and leaving no attention on #1)...then you can bone #1 & #2...girls always want what they cant have
I'm 60-70% sure i'll get a little "something something" from #2 this weekend.
haven't talked to #1 in about a week or so whatever.
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Old Oct 22, 2008 | 07:56 AM
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Do the jealousy thing!

There's this girl that has liked me for the longest time and whenever I'm around her she starts to talk dirty to me and kinda eyefucks me but I don't act on it. Last time she did it, my gf was around and she got jealous of the other girl and so my gf was all over me even more that night
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Old Oct 23, 2008 | 06:47 PM
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^ haha Funny. Go for #2 shes just sayin she doesnt want to get hurt cuz of the divorce. She says it so she thinks she wont get hurt... Buck Fuddy is the answer. lol
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Old Oct 23, 2008 | 09:34 PM
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Um, I never really picked up what YOU wanted from these girls? Just sex, or a relationship?

If it's a relationship - neither and don't waste your time. It's nearly impossible to get a girl into a relationship that does not want one. And if you're listing "pros and cons", you've got the wrong list of girls.

If it's just sex, why are you even asking? Which ever one takes you home ought to do the trick, right?
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