Ok my friend brought me to a strip club last 2 weeks ago and at first it sucked because there wasn't that much gorgeous looking girls. Then it got all better when some stripper sat next to me and had a mini conversation with her. (I already know she is trying to make money off of me). She's Italian/Japanese and was a MASTERPIECE. I have never ever gotten close to a girl as GOOD LOOKING AS HER and right now I'm also dating someone.

To make it short I told her I'll go to the V I P room with her and she gave me the best dance ever. After that they called all the strippers to the dance floor and she walked straight to me and sat on my lap the whole night and she wanted to smoke outside with me so I did and it was time for me to call it a night with her since my friend had to go. She told me to visit her soon and i told her I would.

Then my friends and I ended up going there again 2 days ago. Once I sat down I was shocked that she was there and came straight to me once she saw me. She sat on my lap again and gave me like a mini 5 minute lap dance for free and I just bought her a drink afterwards and headed to the V I P room again. This time I did way more than im supposed to be doing with her but we definately didn't have S*x and I wasn't really looking forward to doing her. At the end of the dance we cuddled in the room for like 3 minutes and she wanted me to help her put her clothes on and asked for a kiss in the lips after.

After that, she said she would freshen up and would chill with me the whole night. I seriously thought she was and i was just there waiting for her the whole time while rejecting the other strippers as I only wanted her. I saw her again when she passed me but this time she passed me like i was invisible and kind of got butthurt. I knew she was trying to make money but damn I have lost interest in the girl im dating because of her. NEED SOME INPUT guys. sorry for this long thread I just wanted to vent and was wondering if any of you guys were ever in a situation like this?

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKcr5vkOxNs

i had to post that link.

anyway dude she is a stripper forget about her and focus on your girlfriend. what she was doing is typical stripper protocol to get your money.

 

stay away.......


strippers are fucked in the head.. have never met one that wasn't. I worked for 9 clubs from 1999 thru 2004 doing PC DJ setups and maintenance for them and maintaining their POS (point of sale) systems in Socal.

I quit after I became a single father and yes you guess it, the mother was a stripper from one of the clubs..

every one I hung with was a mental case, and the one that bore my child though she seemed different, was in fact a mental case..

they are only out for the money and the dope.. stay away, not worth it.. believe me.. been there done that, got screwed (financially).


but hey, at least I got my daughter out of it.. sole 100% legal and physical custody..

and in CA that in near impossible for a father, esp an unmarried father.. so that tells you how much of a winner the mother is..

 

Silly, silly, silly boy. Live and learn.

 

Thanks for your advice guys. She really got me good. Words cannot describe how "GORGEOUS" she was. She'd be comparable to Kim Kardashian or even better if I had to explain. And as I said i never had a "GORGEOUS" dime piece gf before but I had some decent ones.

 

yup she got you....stay away and focus on your real relationship.

 

like the guys previously said, its the strippers motive to get guys like you to come back and visit them this is how they get their regular customers ... shes a stripper and im sorry to break it to you , but you were just there so she could make her money at the end of the night. Put your focus back on your girlfriend and realize that shes more important than some gorgeous stripper... ima be corney and say remember beauty lies within .. lol =]

 

haha nicely said. Should've never got vip with her in the first place but i had to fall for the trap

 

The stripper was only doing her job. You were her source of income. Could have known of the tactics used in her line of work. Stay with your girlfriend or find another. The stripper is definitely the wrong person to dwell your emotion onto.

 

Yeah

 

A stripper's job is to make a man feel he has her undivided attention so that he remains a loyal customer. This one did a really good job because you actually got hurt after she ignored you afterwards. Remember, she makes money by making customers feel good about themselves. She's a different person once she steps out of the strip bar and you become just another guy lusting after her.

 

Don't be a dumb ass.

 

Buy her something nice and go back every night to see her

 

I use to hang out with a stripper a long time ago it was fun but don't expect to much out of it especially if she doesn't have any ambition to do anything else. If she was going to school and working minimal nights just to pay bills thats one thing but if she is working 4 nights a week she is not ready to settle down or think about her future.

Why you going to the strip club anyways when you got a girlfriend?

 

i dont understand that either, but ive never really understood why guys go to strip clubs anyway. you give your money away to a woman just to dance on you. so you go home with no money and and a hard dick. i can find better ways to blow money.

 

its a business, dont get fazed and let it go

 

 

So how much did you spend? Hey Malaylee remember when we went to the strip club them chicks were busted huh HAHAHA gotta love DC strip clubs in the middle of the day. Drinks were good tho.

 

^ lol yeah, yo one time me and Kenny went and this whoor was shitting all over one of kens friends had him buying her drinks and shit and she was counting a knot in front of us. i left half a dollar under the edge of my drink like an asshole. win

 

Goddamn Lil Mama
U know u thick as hell u know what im sayin
Matter fact
After the club u know what im talkin bout
Me and my niggas gone be together u know what im sayin
I aint gon worry bout them really though
Im just lookin at u
Yea u know
U got them big ass hips god damn!

[Verse 1
Got the body of a goddess
Got eyes with a peak of brown eyes see you girl
Droppin Low
She Comin Down from the ceiling
To tha floo
Yea She Know what she doin
Yea yea yea
She doin that right thang
Yea yea yea yea ea
I Need to get her over to my crib and do that night thang
Cause I'm in Love with a stripper

[Chorus [2x]
She poppin she rollin she rollin
She climbin that pole and
Im N Luv with a stripper
She trippin she playin she playin
Im not goin nowhere girl im stayin
Im N Luv with a stripper

[Verse 2
Out of all the girls she be the hottest
Like n the way she break it down i see u girl
Spinnin wide
And She lookin at me
Right in my eyes
Yea She got my attention
yea yea yea
Did I forget to mention
I Need to get her over to my crib and do that night thang
Cause Im N Luv Wit a Stripper

[Chorus [2x]
She poppin she rollin she rollin
She climbin that pole and
Im N Luv with a stripper
She trippin she playin she playin
Im not goin nowhere girl im stayin
Im N Luv with a stripper

[Verse 3
She can pop it she can lock it
Take the pinderas down im bout to see this sexy girl
In My bed
She don't know what she is doin
To my head
Yea She turnin tricks on me
Yea Yea Yea
She dont even know me
Yea yea yea ea
I've done got her over to my crib to do dat nite thang
Cause I'm N Luv Wit a Stripper

[Chorus [4x]
She poppin she rollin she rollin
She climbin that pole and
Im N Luv with a stripper
She trippin she playin she playin
Im not goin nowhere girl im stayin
Im N Luv with a stripper

 

I'm sure you have a chance. She was really there just to meet you and not to make momey shaking her ass.

 

The stripper I met was at a bar and I didn't know she was a stripper till I asked her what kind of work she did and she was hesitant to tell me.

As for you sir "She is really not that into you". Now if you want to go find out if it is worth it or not go there again but dont spend any money or any attention to her and see what happens.

 

Idiot.

 

You paid her to like you...

 

Not at all. He paid her to take her clothes off and rub her tits in his face. That's it.

 

hahahaha

 

I went because my friend wanted to go and he had girlfriend problems aswell. I've only been dating this girl for 3 weeks and so far I'm not really into her. Anyways yeah I blew $200 on her. The second time was $160.

 

^whaaaat !!!!

next time send me the money and ill send you some links to porn...

 

silly mann...

I don't think you really want to date and then marry a stripper ehh? a woman that probably a thousand men had touched already.

 

how much?!?! !!!

Lol

 

what exactly did you guys do? you said more than you were supposed to. what went down?

 

$360.00?!?!?!

You seem like a decent guy KamikazeTL, but allow me to be blunt: The exchange you had with her was a business exchange. Nothing more.

Realize this, and move past it.



Terry

 

I was under the impression that all he spent was for one dance and a few bucks for a drink for her. When I read $360 my jaw dropped. My friends dig em...I don't. I spent a dollar last time I went...other than the drink money, of course. I'm best man for my best friend's wedding so I will have to take another trip. Awesome. Wasted money.

PS. at least you got to fool around with a super gorgeous chick...you would have spent that on restaurants and everything else that is involved with dating someone. Only thing is you should probably have let your girlfriend go beforehand. If you aren't digging her now and it's only 3 weeks in...it ain't gonna get any better.

 

Strippers FTL!!!!

Trust me, i dated one. She was mental.. They are all mental. Focus on your current G/F and ditch the stripper thoughts. She just did what she had to do to get you to spend money and that's it.

 

dude sorry but you kissed her too or what kind of exchange went down, no sex but what the eff 360 damn man, that coulda been something for the ride something sweet too...

 

exactly you could gotten a nice part for your car for that much.

 

:shakehead

 

not true. i know quite a few of them from working at strip clubs and granted some are crazy, some are mild, and there are a few that are really cool people. but i guess i get a different perspective since i work with them lol

 

yeah forreal dude, if she tricked you, she has definitely tricked a lot of other dudes too.

This is where the quote "You cannot turn a hoe into a housewife", applies.

$360? just give me 50 bucks and I will point you over to a few people that will work for it like its a million and then cook you breakfast and wash your clothes for the day.

Major props to the stripper for knowing how to do her job well .

 

Bhahhhahhha....

I expected more for my $20 though