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Old Oct 10, 2006 | 07:36 PM
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damn dude, why dont you calm the fuck down...

cuz i hate those guys who go around calling everyone G..
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Old Oct 10, 2006 | 07:38 PM
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My name is G. Willicker.

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Old Oct 10, 2006 | 09:06 PM
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Be polite, but tell her you can't trust her and she should start looking for alternate housing - I wouldn't have her come home to her shit on the curb, just make it clear it's over (on several levels) and be done with it. I'm not buying the alcohol made her do it line. Alcohol lets you do what you might have stopped yourself from doing sober - it doesn't make you do anything you don't want to. Bye bye pretty lady.
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Old Oct 10, 2006 | 10:10 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
cuz i hate those guys who go around calling everyone G..
I hate them too but that is not the case here....

trancemission = Ethan

ATXCLS = Grayson
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Old Oct 10, 2006 | 10:41 PM
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I have somewhat of an explination for her...
I have a friend who married a girl (Not Women) who seemed to love him but was friendly with every swinging ___k who came her way. She was easy in and out of love, "loving" many of those she cheated on him with. I really think she loved them, she just gets bored. If your woman is like this, you need to break it off clean and be ready for her to come back later for some loving later. I have run accross a few of these women (they seem to like being with saliors, go figure) in my travles and they are all the same. Just try to keep it a nice and clean breakup as these women also tend to be vengeful. Good luck, I hope you can carry so you can defend yourself if she gets too mean .
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:18 AM
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Do yourself a favor and dump and evict her. You may still care for her, but she is obviously not reciprocating. Your life will be infinitely simpler and better without this type of complication to come back and bite you in the a$$.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:26 AM
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Be polite, but tell her you can't trust her and she should start looking for alternate housing - I wouldn't have her come home to her shit on the curb, just make it clear it's over (on several levels) and be done with it. I'm not buying the alcohol made her do it line. Alcohol lets you do what you might have stopped yourself from doing sober - it doesn't make you do anything you don't want to. Bye bye pretty lady.
That is exactly what I think. Alchohol is just a lame ass excuse.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:30 AM
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You failed.

F off you worthless piece. I don't know what the hell you have against me, but do me a favor and take your shit elsewhere.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
G, E, Z, K, L what the fuck are u guys talking about. what the hell is this G shit every 2 posts? do you go around calling everyone G? I once had a friend like that and he drove me up the fucking wall. Please stop, or get help.


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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:31 AM
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Wow, the moderators are causing havok in this page....
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers

I was thinking the same thing, Whiskers!
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 09:12 AM
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^ go away retard
little miss sensitive. Relax.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS
cuz i hate those guys who go around calling everyone G..
do u read replies to ur posts? if u did it might explain ur frustration
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 09:33 AM
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okay everybody just get back on topic, this is getting fucking stupid.

if you dont have anything productive to say to Grayson dont post at all...
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
You failed.

wtf, when did you become so ornery?

completely uncalled for in a serious thread SS.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 01:20 PM
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inappropriate comment on a serious thread.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 01:23 PM
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Sucks dude. Considering she didn't try to even be covert about it (doing all that right in front of your sister) makes me think she felt she had nothing to lose I'd say cut your losses and move on, and find a new roomate (or tell her that she's being outbid and will have to move out at least) so you don't have to see her.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 03:13 PM
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so its been a few days..what has been done? updates?
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 03:46 PM
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Sucks dude. Considering she didn't try to even be covert about it (doing all that right in front of your sister) makes me think she felt she had nothing to lose I'd say cut your losses and move on, and find a new roomate (or tell her that she's being outbid and will have to move out at least) so you don't have to see her.
I wouldn't want to live in the same house with her after I broke up, just boot her, find a new roomie
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:43 PM
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confront her about it. if she lies again, kick her outta ur
house
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 10:13 PM
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Members: D&R forum isn't a joking forum. We made this section to allow those who are in serious trouble, or in serious need for help or advice to able to come on here and pour their hearts and souls out. If you have nothing to contribute, keep the silly comments to yourself.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 11:05 PM
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^^^lol. Titand might not last too much longer then.
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Old Oct 12, 2006 | 10:03 AM
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Grayson: Sometimes when a person ask for help or need some type of an advice. They are often looking for an answer that they want to hear. Perhaps deep inside you, you wish to hear us saying "give her one more chance, she had a weird night, etc.," But the truth is, she doesn't seem like the type that you want to spend the rest of your life with. She may be perfect in so many ways, she may make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside when she's cuddling with you. But the most important part in a relationship is TRUST. Can you trust her if she goes out clubbing again without your presence? If you cannot, then you already know the answer to your own dilemma.
Page 1 of this thread should give you an idea of how we feel about your situation. I know it's tough, but it's better to find out who she really is and how she really feels about you now than 10 years later.
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Old Oct 12, 2006 | 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted by TheMainEvEnt
Members: D&R forum isn't a joking forum. We made this section to allow those who are in serious trouble, or in serious need for help or advice to able to come on here and pour their hearts and souls out. If you have nothing to contribute, keep the silly comments to yourself.
This is a very broad statement IMO. Sometimes a little humor is well mannered and can cheer people up. This is Dating and Relationships, not Death and Racism. Lighten up
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Old Oct 12, 2006 | 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by TheMainEvEnt
Members: D&R forum isn't a joking forum. We made this section to allow those who are in serious trouble, or in serious need for help or advice to able to come on here and pour their hearts and souls out. If you have nothing to contribute, keep the silly comments to yourself.



Right.
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Old Oct 12, 2006 | 01:15 PM
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This is a very broad statement IMO. Sometimes a little humor is well mannered and can cheer people up. This is Dating and Relationships, not Death and Racism. Lighten up


It's about balance. If people are really coming here to fix their love life, I think they need a reality check. I mean, this is a car forum, not Dr. Phill's forum. Sure they can get some good advice here, but I don't think anyone here is a trained councillor. Nor do I think a trained councillor would choose a car forum as an appropriate medium for their advice.

Keeping the jokes in line is one thing, but eliminating all humor is another. Let's not lose sight of what this place is.
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Old Oct 12, 2006 | 04:39 PM
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 12:12 AM
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I'm not going to sit here and argue with you about when is a good time to joke around, when it's a good time to be serious. How many threads in this forum have gotten off track because a few people decide make it a fun thread? Yes it's about balance. But in a thread that calls for serious help and advice, I highly doubt that person needs any humor from you.

No one is a train counsellor, but there are those who are more than qualified.

The upper management have decided this is the direction they want to pursuit, end of story.
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
This is a very broad statement IMO. Sometimes a little humor is well mannered and can cheer people up. This is Dating and Relationships, not Death and Racism. Lighten up
Perhaps you are the one that needs a break. I suggest you smarten up rather than challenging the management. I am not going to sit here going back and forth with you on this topic.
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 01:25 AM
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Perhaps you are the one that needs a break. I suggest you smarten up rather than challenging the management. I am not going to sit here going back and forth with you on this topic.
Real mature reply . Do what you have to do...But you should realize what an Internet forum really is.....
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 08:24 AM
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Have some coitus with her......then boot her out of your house.
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted by TheMainEvEnt
Perhaps you are the one that needs a break. I suggest you smarten up rather than challenging the management. I am not going to sit here going back and forth with you on this topic.

I think you're taking your job a little too seriously.
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 12:09 PM
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Can't we just let the donkeys post whatever they want and if it's off-color or childish those that find it funny can laugh, and those that don't can choose to ignore it??
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 12:35 PM
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It is my job to tell you to stay on topic when necessary.
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 12:38 PM
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okay everybody just get back on topic, this is getting fucking stupid.

if you dont have anything productive to say to Grayson dont post at all...
This is the 2nd and final time we'll say this. Please get back on topic.
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 01:03 PM
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 01:51 PM
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Do you think that your girlfriend would lie given that your sister was there?

I am wondering if your girlfriend forgot about that fact when she told you her version of what supposedly happened.

Either way, it was disrespectful of your girlfriend to act that way.
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Old Oct 22, 2006 | 02:20 AM
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So Im interested to know if shes still in your house.

Lets recap, girl goes out, girl grinds on guy all night, girl almost tongues guy, girl stays in car alone with guy (we dont know what happened in the car), girl gets out of car gives guy number, guy gives your girl number, girl tells your sister that shes not sure about being in a commited relationship with you.

Dude......Im not sure I even want to know at this point....
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Old Oct 22, 2006 | 10:14 AM
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Old Oct 23, 2006 | 02:36 PM
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Im sry g-money!!!!! I have the same luck with women!


Only thing I can say is kick her ass out and go buy a new car!! That always makes u feel better!
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