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Old 11-02-2009, 12:28 PM
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My 1st clinger...

Meet this girl a few weeks ago. She's was nice & all. We sorta hit it off at 1st. She admitted she hasn't dated or had sex with anyone in a few years.(So she said) But then as the weeks went be she became REALLY clingy. Texting me all the time, asking where I was going, etc etc, I like my space & told her this & still she was a bit too much for me. I ended it this weekend.
Sunday night my phone blows up with all this hate texting. Cursing me out & whatnot.
Then this morning I get a text from her saying she was sorry & just upset & then asking me to work things out. My response was as simple NO.
An hour ago I get another text asking how my day was going & what I was doing later.

Why won't she take the hint? Crazy ich.

Ignoring all contact with her.
Old 11-02-2009, 01:04 PM
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If your not interested, don't return her calls/text.
Old 11-02-2009, 01:11 PM
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Old 11-02-2009, 04:35 PM
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You don't happen to have a rabbit in the backyard do you? Think Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction.

Scary!

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Old 11-02-2009, 07:56 PM
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she'll figure it out soon enough..

hopefully anyways..
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Have sex with her.
Old 11-02-2009, 08:07 PM
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Old 11-02-2009, 08:33 PM
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or go out with her, grab her phone and chuck it, then leave her on the side of the road. if that doesnt get through to her, well get ready to buy a ring
Old 11-02-2009, 09:03 PM
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I bet she would be down with it. But then you really better be on the look out for flying knives.
Old 11-02-2009, 11:14 PM
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I've got one of those. Unfortunately, they're tough to get rid of. At least if you want to be nice about it. I suppose you could always and then ignore her. When she asks why, just tell her you're only in it for the sex and nothing else.
Old 11-02-2009, 11:20 PM
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I've dealt with the same sort of thing. Just ignore her and cut off all contact from her. It might take a a few days, but she will eventually get it.
Old 11-02-2009, 11:49 PM
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Didn't work for me. I cut off contact like 6 years ago and I still get random texts.
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Good luck with that. I've had two of those and couldn't get rid of them fast enough.
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Originally Posted by litesout
Didn't work for me. I cut off contact like 6 years ago and I still get random texts.
Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
Meet this girl a few weeks ago. She's was nice & all. We sorta hit it off at 1st. She admitted she hasn't dated or had sex with anyone in a few years.(So she said) But then as the weeks went be she became REALLY clingy. Texting me all the time, asking where I was going, etc etc, I like my space & told her this & still she was a bit too much for me. I ended it this weekend.
Sunday night my phone blows up with all this hate texting. Cursing me out & whatnot.
Then this morning I get a text from her saying she was sorry & just upset & then asking me to work things out. My response was as simple NO.
An hour ago I get another text asking how my day was going & what I was doing later.

Why won't she take the hint? Crazy ich.

Ignoring all contact with her.
Must be a Florida thing
Old 11-03-2009, 09:50 AM
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does she know where you live?????????????????

please dont tell me she knows where you live...... if she does................. dam dude i dont even want to say it..
Old 11-03-2009, 09:57 AM
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Boys, we have a level one clinger...Repeat..
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Boys, we have a Stage 5 clinger...Repeat..
fixed.
Old 11-03-2009, 12:32 PM
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This is why phones need ignore lists.

However in the dark ages (the 80's) when I was dating there were no cell phones so clingers were much easier to avoid contact with. Text messages has given these women an whole new outlet...
Old 11-03-2009, 12:36 PM
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send her this text.

"i dont think we should speak anymore"

u can also add a comma and statements like

",im gay"

etc etc
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Yeah she does know where I live.
So far she hasn't called me.

Hope it lasts.
Old 11-03-2009, 01:18 PM
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Reply with "When you gonna let me tap that?" and nothing else every time she texts you.
Old 11-03-2009, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
Yeah she does know where I live.
So far she hasn't called me.

Hope it lasts.
dam dude..... be on the look out. i say this from personal experience.... this girl followed me home from the club cuz she "though i was drunk and wanted me to get home safe". the funny thing is i didnt notice she followed me home until a few days later when i got home from work and she parked infront of my house waiting for me. it probably is a Florida thing.... Stay away from Cafe Iguanas...... The girls there stalk you. well most of them.
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I had one like that. We dated for a few months, but she got straight up fatal attraction on me. Always wanting to know where I was and what I was doing. Showing up at my house uninvited. I ended it, and it took almost 3 months for me to finally shake her. I changed my number twice and she still found it out and would txt me like 100 times a night. Crazy bitches
Old 11-03-2009, 08:24 PM
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Send her Whisker's number. He sounds like he's been bored lately.
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@ this thread. Yeah the only thing that's worked for me is changing my number, but the guy a few posts above changed it twice and she still found out lol that sucks....
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@ this thread. Yeah the only thing that's worked for me is changing my number, but the guy a few posts above changed it twice and she still found out lol that sucks....
Yea it did.. The ONLY reason she stopped is because I had a restraining order wrote up against her, but not before she keyed the shit out of my Maxima. Thank god I didn't have my TL at the time. I prob would have killed her
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Originally Posted by BoBByLiGhT83
Yea it did.. The ONLY reason she stopped is because I had a restraining order wrote up against her, but not before she keyed the shit out of my Maxima. Thank god I didn't have my TL at the time. I definitely would have killed her

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Originally Posted by Silva-type-s
dam dude..... be on the look out. i say this from personal experience.... this girl followed me home from the club cuz she "though i was drunk and wanted me to get home safe". the funny thing is i didnt notice she followed me home until a few days later when i got home from work and she parked infront of my house waiting for me. it probably is a Florida thing.... Stay away from Cafe Iguanas...... The girls there stalk you. well most of them.
cuban girls only come second to korean girls on the crazy scale
Old 11-03-2009, 10:22 PM
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cuban girls only come second to korean girls on the crazy scale
never came across a korean but ill be on the lookout. cubans are pretty crazy though
Old 11-04-2009, 12:19 AM
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imagine how she would act if you did have sex with her! ditch her!
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Originally Posted by BoBByLiGhT83
I had one like that. We dated for a few months, but she got straight up fatal attraction on me. Always wanting to know where I was and what I was doing. Showing up at my house uninvited. I ended it, and it took almost 3 months for me to finally shake her. I changed my number twice and she still found it out and would txt me like 100 times a night. Crazy bitches
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ugh, I hate girls like that. I bet she'll stop texting you when she finds her a new man. Hope it doesnt take a few years like last time
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send her whisker's number. He sounds like he's been bored lately.
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Exactly why I didn't marry a Cuban even though I'm one.


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