Well, here is a summary of what the ex has been texting me with over the last few days.

and one today saying happy easter, but I think that one went to all of her phonebook.

The first one has me confused and was sent outta the blue, we had not seen each other for like a month, and probably had not chatted for a week or more, and the last time we chatted, she also initiated saying that we used to text each other a lot, etc...that one was after we had not had any contact for about 2 weeks, the day after her roomate saw me and this other girl...you know (which was not intentional on my part, that just happened to come together when she was invited here by my roomate's girl)

I went to the get together, and we chatted for a few minutes in the hall as I was about to leave. Just general stuff about how things have been, school, etc.

WTF do you guys think is going on? There are three options I see:

1. She just wants to be friends.
2. She is working her way up to asking me for computer help again.
3. Things did not work out with her ex that she ditched me for, and she is working her way back into my good graces, or so she thinks.

My guess would be number three, but I think she is still seeing that guy, but I could be wrong...

 

I pick #2.

 

^ Hah, she's in for a nasty surprise if she thinks that is happening. That is a good part of why I did NOT go over tonight, since then I'm the asshole if I say no.

Her and her roomate are hosting an Easter get together which I was invited to...

 

you obviously still like her, and care for her. Or else you would not care what she thinks.

 

^ I never said that I didn't. She broke my heart though and I cannot just do things for her anymore. And there is no way I'm going back without some serious changes to her behavior.

Its been getting better as time moves on but I'm still probably a little crazy about her.

 

Women are crazy. It could be all three. If you still haven't gotten over her, it's best just to cut her out of your life. If you keep seeing her, it's only going to take longer to heal the wounds. I would stop trying to figure out what she wants and figure out what the heck YOU want.

 

I know what and whom I want...but if she asked for me back, it would be hard to not seriously consider it...

I'm over her as far as over goes, it no longer bothers me to be around her, though there is certainly some awkwardness there...

 

Her behavior sounds a bit manipulative to me.........

and nope, you don't sound "over" her yet. Until you are, you're not likely to be rational about her, and your dialogues with here are likely to be based on some level of manipulation. I'd send her a text message back that said she hasn't been seeing a lot of you because you and she are no olonger seeing each other, and let it go at that.