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Old Oct 1, 2004 | 12:34 PM
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maybe your right, i will stop seeing her. its not because you told me, but God would punish me on it. thats what counts.
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 12:35 PM
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just hit it damnit..
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Batin Dean
I gave you no negative rep, but I really don't believe in adultery. Married women who cheat on their husbands are the scum of the earth. You can believe all that nonsense about the hsubands not giving them enough attention if you want to, but that's because they're out there supporting the wives' broke asses. The "he doesn't give me attention" line is the oldest and worst excuse for cheating in the book.
go and give me some bad rep points, i want you to feel better. in fact i will be right back
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted by nyc11758
maybe your right, i will stop seeing her. its not because you told me, but God would punish me on it. thats what counts.
You're a Christian and you're wondering if adultery is ok?
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by nyc11758
go and give me some bad rep points
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 01:02 PM
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its a cool fantasy when you are a young one, but fuck that. There's so much booty out there, why not find one that's single?! You too old for this shit. Cut her off and move oN!
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 01:53 PM
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why would u want to get into such a mess??? its a no brainer to me! there's plenty of other women out there....
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 02:28 PM
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Coming from someone who has done it, DO NOT DO IT! It was good at first, It was a rush more then anything. It soon faded, & I stopped it. I don't think the guy ever found out but I don't know cause I moved. I haven't talked to the woman for 3 years. She was older & had a kid to make the mess even worse.
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 03:27 PM
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man, don't you see what's happening? the chick is obviously has low self-esteem and is seeking attention from people other than her husband ... she needs it to re-affirm that she is still a "catch." from what i hear, a lot of women go through this after the marriage kind of stales. not all, but a fair amount. it's all ego.

once she's through with you, then what? THEN WHAT? she'll probably tag along with some other dude, and this feels worse than a hard knee to the balls ... that is, if she doesn't take them from you to begin with. if it's all a matter of risk and reward, what's in it for you? are the rewards that great? you're gonna bang some married chick with serious esteem issues who only needs you as a comfort blanket. yeah, that's fun. and do you want to pursue a long-term relationship with her? she could be "fine" or "have beautiful body" ... but after a while, it's gonna come down to commitment and trust ... two issues she fails miserably on. always look for behavioral patterns. if the chick cheats on her husband to be with you, she's gonna do the same exact thing to you.

if you want to get yourself in a huge mess, go on ahead. yeah, i see your point. you guys probably hit it off really well ... maybe even perfect for each other. but we all see the train coming so get the fuck off the tracks.
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 03:29 PM
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This really hits home to a lot of people i guess.

My girl and I have been together little under 2 years. It is the best relationship we have both ever had and look for nothing else. She is perfect for me and someday we will be married......but when we met she was with a guy for five years that honestly did not appreciate her. They were not married but he asked a couple times. The stress was unbelievable but it was the best decision we both ever made. If I would of walked away from that I would of continued my lifestyle at the time and very possibly be dead. Not trying to get flamed because I know it was not right but I would do the same thing if I was put back in that situation for her.

Old Oct 1, 2004 | 05:57 PM
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Originally Posted by charlesgage
I'd like to call 11/7/58 to the stand... Excuse me sir, what the fuck were you thinking? If that was my wife, you'd be having some problems with my bat.
Don't forget the wife too. Everyone always rags on dudes that hit others guy's chicks - but what about the chick?!? Bitch is just a guilty as him, sometimes more.

I've only had this problem once, and I ended it right then. Best thing I ever did (as far as relationships go). If the chick needs to find out if she is still a catch, chances are she isn't and she just acts like the hoe she is.
Old Oct 1, 2004 | 05:58 PM
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Yea. Page 3 ownage bishes.
Old Oct 4, 2004 | 01:26 PM
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update:

she is definatly a catch, over the weekend we talked, she fels dirty about the situation, while she enjoyed our lil thing, i felt the same way. It was fun but wasn't for us. We made out last time. we goin back to ragular friends. if only things were different..............
Old Oct 4, 2004 | 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Batin Dean
Married women who cheat on their husbands are the scum of the earth. You can believe all that nonsense about the husbands not giving them enough attention if you want to, but that's because they're out there supporting the wives' broke asses. The "he doesn't give me attention" line is the oldest and worst excuse for cheating in the book.
That's right there. Great advice from the "resident romancer."
Old Oct 4, 2004 | 03:30 PM
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Old Oct 4, 2004 | 04:54 PM
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omfg ad your new avatar kicks ass!
Old Oct 4, 2004 | 06:20 PM
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if u ever get a job transfer out of state, hit that and bail
Old Oct 4, 2004 | 07:18 PM
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fuck her already you fucker
Old Oct 5, 2004 | 07:48 AM
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do they have kids?, you wouldnt want to be a homewrecker would you? even though the bi@tch is a HO
Old Oct 5, 2004 | 09:22 AM
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actually they just had a baby like in febuary. i remember her comming to work with the belly. i forgot bout that. actually that makes the situation worst. but we did end it. er and her man are doing better, he actually is taken care of it again. me and her talk as friends again. Sometimes we have to be reminded what we have or had. Me i am eyeing this girl in one of my classes who is eyeing me back . I believe i have something fresh now. The only thing is she is a lil skinny.
Old Oct 5, 2004 | 09:38 AM
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Old Oct 5, 2004 | 09:45 AM
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Originally Posted by rezurex
omfg ad your new avatar kicks ass!

who is that dude???
Old Oct 5, 2004 | 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
who is that dude???
i want him at my next party next month, that kat look like he can dj like no other.
Old Oct 5, 2004 | 11:09 AM
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He is probably the world's best DJ ever, but I'm not sure. His name is Super Greg.
http://www.vanderzande.com/nerdcult/...rgreg_com).htm
Old Oct 5, 2004 | 01:33 PM
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wow that was intersting site. The dude looks mad uncomfortable in that red alfit. does he work in anything else he seems to live in that suit.
Old May 27, 2006 | 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted by nyc11758
the other day we talke, and decided to stop talking, but she been calling me alot, i cant lie, i really like the way she does what she does. i want to stop, but its like pressure. theres so many things i like about her. before this i use to love looin downher low cut shirts at work, she got the best 34dd's i seen. i wish i could stop talkin to her but cant.
I guess I'm in a little late, but my uncles always told me to mess with married chicks because they HAVE to go home at night. It's the single ones that have ALL the time in teh world to go psycho on you! So tap that ass till you can't no more!!!! (bad grammar, I know)
Old May 27, 2006 | 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted by 1killercls
dont get your honey where you get your money.
If THAT were the case, 40% of couples in America wouldn't be married. Plenty of folks meet their mates at work; heck we spend a third pof the day around our coworkers.
Old May 27, 2006 | 03:46 PM
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Originally Posted by pebecl97
would u want someone fucking your wife?? didnt think so
I agree.
Like the saying goes "once a cheater, always a cheater!" I won't last even if she "fits the bill"
Old May 27, 2006 | 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by nyc11758
yeah but she is my type, she fits the bill.
a dirty cheating whore who would do the same to you as him is your type?

then yeah, you belong together.

just remember, you're not special. if she's sleeping with you she's probably sleeping with 10 others... one of whom has crabs. have fun scratching!
Old May 27, 2006 | 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted by fast-tl
I guess I'm in a little late, but my uncles always told me to mess with married chicks because they HAVE to go home at night. It's the single ones that have ALL the time in teh world to go psycho on you! So tap that ass till you can't no more!!!! (bad grammar, I know)
rednecks.
Old May 27, 2006 | 04:18 PM
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Holy old thread.

Thread starter hasnt been on the AZ since 12-06-2005 2:15 PM

Why do people bump threads from 2004?
Old May 27, 2006 | 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Why do people bump threads from 2004?
Because people have nothing to do on a Saturday afternoon.
Old May 27, 2006 | 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted by nyc11758
I use to work ith this girl, I always wanted her but she married. Well a few months ago I roke up with my ex, me and the married chick didn't talk for a while, so when she alled she asked how is your gf, i said it was over and done, and she was like we should chill one day. We have hung out before but always a friend bases. So when we meet up for a while, she was like drive me to my car, so i was like ok. While i drove her we talked and she was like i wonder what it would be like to kiss you. I thought ok its just a kiss, next thing I know it went further in fact too far. We didnt have sex but i still didnt want to take it that far.

Was I wrong in doing this, i spoke to her husband once on the phone and asked for her, so he aint my boy.

Now she calls me alot and wants to meet more, i can only gues why. Should i continue to meet her.
never,never, (did I say never) hook up or even date a married chick. my wife and I are going through a rough part of our marriage. and I flat out told her I'm not gonna date or even flirt with any chicks until either the divorce is final.
Old May 27, 2006 | 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Water-S
never,never, (did I say never) hook up or even date a married chick. my wife and I are going through a rough part of our marriage. and I flat out told her I'm not gonna date or even flirt with any chicks until either the divorce is final.
Yeah, but did she tell you she isn't going to flirt or date any men before the divorce is over?
Old May 27, 2006 | 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Amoeba
Yeah, but did she tell you she isn't going to flirt or date any men before the divorce is over?
she agreed to that to the same "terms" as I'm on.
Old May 27, 2006 | 08:46 PM
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Makes you wonder how this all turned out. Anyone in NYC know the OP?
He's probably been killed by the husband by now.
Old May 28, 2006 | 01:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Holy old thread.

Thread starter hasnt been on the AZ since 12-06-2005 2:15 PM

Why do people bump threads from 2004?
Damn. I got owned by the bump.

I should ban the bumper...
Old May 28, 2006 | 09:30 AM
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Holy crap! I just realized how old this thread was.
Old May 29, 2006 | 05:33 PM
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I got a headache trying to figure out what the fuck he was trying to say...
Old May 29, 2006 | 09:51 PM
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Stop bumping old threads like this one...
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