I know a lot of guys prolly have gone through this...but you have such a hard time finding good women when single, and when you are not single, they pop up outta the woodwork and are all over you as soon as you are exclusive with someone. I'm happily married now, and i've lost count of how many women have gone out of their way to flirt with me/ask for #, etc...and some of these women are freakin hot as hell!!! How do you veteran married men deal with that??? btw, i'm married for 2 years now, been with wife for 6...

 

You are a sick man....How can you even think about this....If I was your wife, I would have your balls.....



Kill me...

 

hahaha..i've thought about that many times, and even though I wouldn't cheat on her for anything (got it way too good here...) sometimes it's tough to ignore women who blatantly hit on you when you are both out in public. Most ppl assume since she is caucasian and I am asian that we are not together (or maybe they do) because out in my area it's still fairly uncommon to have interracial marriages..but when the compass points north, that tends to be the direction you wanna go...

 

Wait, your are Asian and she is white???? GET HIM!!! HE IS FAKE!

 

Just because I am married to a white woman named vivian/hannah/erica/acire/wtf/etc. and own 25 strip clubs and drive supercharged acura tl's doesn't mean I am fake!!!

Seriously though, check out the pics...i'm legit homie...I bagged me a white woman!!! YEAH!!!

 

Hmmm.....

Me too!!! Highfive!!!

 

I think they're attracted to you flowing locks, pooh

 

 

Rock on homes!!!

scottman...sometimes you gotsta pimp, you know...but seriously..if only my flowing locks got me chicks like this when I was single...back then it was all these teenybopper sorostitutes I couldn't get off my wang...

 

you don't believe I got a white woman?

 

http://moderndrunkardmagazine.com/md_concerned_cad.htm

I just posted this in another thread but it applies here. Go down to the letter from "--Went From Gods' Gift To Get The Hell Away From Me."

Basically it says you're automatically more confident and don't care one way or another, so naturally you'll give off that aura and women love that. Plus since a lot of flirting is just meant to be fun teasing and nothing more, you're viewed as a caged lion locked up by the shackles of marriage that can be teased with no repercussions. But when you're single and un-caged, the teasing stops.

 

That was an awesome letter...hahaha...good find...reps to you! This caged lion is rattlin his cage at night...and by cage I mean boxers...and by boxers...I mean wang...can't say it's bad though...helps the ego when it's down...

 

This is why Internet porn > *

 

That my friend, is quite a lot of truth. Long live internet porn and peer to peer!!! Who's number one right now? My currnt faves are erica campbell and penny flame...

 

Penny Flame has wonderful titties.

But if I may, please try to find Codi Milo. She is my dream girl. I highly recommend the movie Slut School. Don't let the name throw you off. There is a scene with Codi Milo, Jenna Haze and some other not-so-hot actress, but it's a HOT scene.

 

jenna haze is a good one...I'll have to check out codi milo...penny flame DOE have wonderful titties...hahaha!!! Yeah man...I 'm diggin erica campbell...just wish she did more hardcore...watching her dance around and that's it is driving me nuts!!! tory lane is a newcomer classic too...

 

If Jenna Haze didn't do so much slutty hardcore stuff she'd be much hotter. I prefer the more "innocent" porn.

Codi Milo man. Don't forget. Codi Milo...

 

lol...ima gonna google her tonight...I trust she's a winner! But yeah Jenna Haze would be hotter if she weren't so dirty, but that's part of the appeal...tory lane is DIRTY...but hot...but SOOOO dirty....like dani woodward...so hot yet sooooo dirty...

 

Damn I thought I watched a lot of porn. Besides Jenna Haze I have no clue who you guys are talking about.

 

hahaha..maybe it's the whole internet porn craze...there's so may new faces out there it's real hard to keep track of...I assume you still use the old DVD method..lol..

 

Drink lot of beer --> fat gut --> lose hair --> problem solves itself

 

good answer...lol...but I was hoping for the more..."ego feeding" method...you know..

 

I just search for porn and take the first one that floats my sperm....

 

You need to shut them down and let them know that you are a married man. I understand that it may be an ego boast and you may feel as though you still have it, but you need to leave it right there and nothing more. I don't know why women are like that. It seem as though they only want you because you are married and testing to see if they can get you to cheat on your wife. It is stupid to me women if you see a ring you should bag off, if you were married you would not want your husband cheating on you.

 

I asked this very question to a female freind of mine a long time ago and she told me she thinks its because as a woman you get hit on often so when there is a guy around who isnt trying to hit on them and is attractive to them then they are all overhim because they think "this guyu isnt out just to get some so he must be a good guy" hensforth the panties get thrown.

 

I agree with your last statement...however...as far as it being a test or biological phenomenon, it's still a good feeling. Everyone likes to be admired...but i agree. In no way would I take it any further. Hence the above porn discussion...and @ whiskers' comment...that used to be my method too until I found the "regulars"...

rjanaconda...panty throwing game FTW!!!

 

Do you two know each other? You're both from Sicily...

 

hahaha...didn't even notice scotty...maybe the rules with the panty throwing game are a little different over there...

 

i when i saw the title of this thread.

 

I have the reverse problem. I hit on married woman.

 

100% As for why women are like that, it is probably because it is human nature to desire what we cannot have, specifically when it is the proverbial forbidden fruit. (Men are no different.)

Prior my being born again Christian, I also noted what pooh noted as well. I used to struggle for women's attention. Yet when I married, it came on as an onslaught. Better yet: if I acted oblivious to it, then the advances came on even stronger. Unlike pooh, I went beyond the pornography and pretty ran the gamut of adultery on a few occassions.

 

My man!!!

fuzzy, i have a few friends who have a similar disease state as you...

f23a4, shit can get crazy huh? The more you ignore it, the more intense it gts. it really does become an onslaught! Right now the porno is all I got when she's not around...

 

Unfortunately, I gave in on more than one occassion. I know better now AND I do NOT feel the need to indulge in pornography. Getting restful sleep, good exercise and maintaining a healthy diet has helped ALOT in not succumbing to temptation!!!

 

does whacking it off help? hahaha seriously, i get lots of excercise and eat a very healthy diet...not so good with sleep though...between a 24/7 home business, a one year old and a moody pregant wife...sleep is a luxury i would gladly pay for at this point if i could...man...i got asked out again today by the same woman who i run into on my jog every morning...i keep telling her I am married and she just keeps saying "so am I!"....she's freakin hot too.... morals can be torture sometimes...

 

It's not usually a problem with me if I'm alone. If I have my son with me, it's pretty bad. I've had women come up to me and the baby, start talking to him, and in a flirty way flat out ask me if I was a single parent. It's 10x worse when I'm in a baby store shopping with him.

 

Start jogging a different route if you think it's going to torture you any more. With all you have going on, the last thing you need is more complications. Plus a pregnant, moody wife is not usually a rational person.

 

hahaha...ditto! I see yours is a cute kid too..he's prolly a babe magnet...mine is too...the women can be very slick about finding out if you are single too... rock on pimp daddy!

but yeah, a new route is in order..we are moving to a new town though so I will have a new route anyway. my moody wife is definitely not rational...she's been getting pissed at me for talking to some of these women...even when it's just a simple, "sorry I don't have a watch"....she's constantly on my ass about talking to hot chicks...

 

good sleep is a battle for me as well....particularly with a 3 m/o daughter. If I could pay for consistent restful nights I would as well.

I was in your shoes about 13 years ago when I was assigned to work with the most gorgeous woman I had EVER worked with in my entire career (even to this day). At the time, I was 'amoral'....hence, sacking with her on/off for over two years was a no brainer. And as with your situation, she was also married....albeit for only a couple of years. (I can recall a coworker -- a married player himself -- telling me that I would be "a fool not to tap that!" )

It all came to a head two years after it began when my wife heard rumors from contacts she had with one or two individuals at my job. Coupled with a wealth of 'illicit' internet material she discovered on our home PC she confronted me on January 16, 1997. It was make effective changes there (no more adultery, no more porn) OR lose her forever. (Around this time was when I did come to Christ spiritually.) .....and as hard as it has been to give up the former (and it has been hard, particularly when one works in a corporate office environment), I could NEVER give up the latter. So, I pretty much stopped it all cold turkey and have NOT looked back except to shake my head in disgust.

 

I know the feeling...i used to work with a couple of guys who goaded me on all the time to "tap that"...most of which were married as well (goes to show I elevated my company...hahaha)...but yeah, I agree. I couldn't give up being with my wife for anything no matter how hard these women are pushing up on me...at least you were disciplined enough to get your wife back...she never met the other, did she?

 

I think this is pretty common with almost every guy. Whenever I'm in a relationship, I've always had my friends trying to get me to hook up with this girl they know, or that girl that is hitting on me at the bar, etc.

I've heard it from older, married guys as well. I just shrug them off though. That stuff ain't for me...