i just started seeing this chick, maybe went out 5 or 6 times, very low key, nothing to crazy...she's a good girl but i'm not 100% sure shes my type..like she's cool and all but i dunno..anyways, the other night i was partyin and shit and she called me at like 2 to see what iw as up to..i called her back at 6am and ended up going to her place and having sex with her..now she calls me and wants to spend time with me, but for some reason i'm kinda over it..question here is..WTF should i do..

 

what to do...


post pics for acurazine.

we'll decide from there

 

Tell her you're not "into her"?

 

You went out 5 or 6 times, then had sex. She thinks this is going somewhere. If you don't, or you don't want it to, now's the time to say something.

 

What did you think of her before you slept with her?

 

25 and you havent figured out how to ditch a bitch?

First, start with "its not you, its me" or "I just got out of a bad relationship and need more time". All pretty standard.

 

its not going to be as easy as that..ditch the bitch and yada yada..

 

why is that?

 

man this is so obvious there is only 1 thing to do

 

Elaborate please. It's hard to offer advice when you don't give crucial info.

 

well cuz for one shes persian, and so am i..so you can't just go fucking a persian girl and then be like peace out..second, she's really nice and i cant crush her like that..but i'm like already bored of her..i dunno..i think the reality of it all is that i have too many women on deck and i get bored of all of them and want something new and exciting each time...either that or i need to find like the perfect match and get married and out of the game..all of those things are easier said then done..but with this chick for the time being, i dunno what to do..maybe go out with her once or twice more and see if i'm bored still or what not..

 

Tell her you wanna before you proceed further, or it's a no-go.

 

omfg i cannot stop laffing at neteditor's avatar!!!

umm, think about how u'll really think After u leave her or whatever. and how did this "sleep over" even start? and do u tihnk that it was cuss after that night altered your feelings about her? hmm, is she ugly? lol

 

OK, so there's the culture thing. Can't help you much there. If what you did is against the norm, well, you got yourself into a little mess. The best way to deal with it is just to be honest, but not brutally honest. Don't give here the "it's not you, it's me" thing. Don't give her cliches. Go the opposite way, and be honest but gentle at the same time.

But I'm curious: You keep saying you're bored. What is boring you? The sex? Her personality? The conservation? Is she just not interesting?

 

even though you have already been in her

 

The reason you're over it is because you had sex with her.

There is a lot of things you could do, but the nicest thing you could do is tell her you just want to be friends. She will be hurt but it'll be the truth and after a few weeks she will be over you. You cannot string her along when you're already over her for good.

Such a terrible thread

 

or....

when it comes to the whole culture thing in various religions, I can honestly say that you f'ed up and now you have to dig yourself out of the hole.

You better make sure she doesn't go telling her family AND...

did you use a condom?

 

damn bro what a shitty problem.

 

Classic costanza

 

Damn, wish I had seen this thread earlier, because my first thought was ... But alas, you can always count on AZ members to give the right advice.

In all seriousness just be honest and tell her... Seemed to work out well for me in the past after the initial first few weeks where she's going through her emotional roller coaster of feelings about you (Most of them not so good).

 

I honestly don't think the whole "persian" thing should be an issue. If it were, you would not have had sex with her until you married her.

I say just tell her you want to be friends and learn you lesson. You are a one night stand man (based on previous threads), so you should not be going out with a girl 5-6 times just to nail her.

TIPS:
-> Avoid Persians so that you won't pull that out as a reason you don't want to "crush" that person when you are bored

-> Do your one night thing and be happy

-> When you get tired of that and want to actually have a serious relationship, then go out with a girl more times before having sex (if applicable)

Just my and good luck

 

Just stop talking to her...cold turkey. I did that once with some psycho that is 6 years older than me and probably looking to get married and I'm still alive

 

of course..

 

well i've come to the conclusion that its pretty much because she calls me all the time and is like all over me and wants to hang out and all the rest of that stuff..its not a bad thing, but i guess i'm just not used to it. argh, i think after thursday night everything will be ok though..just cuz i'm going to party like a rockstar on thursday and hopefully meet some new peoples :P

thanks guys

 

Just don't repeat history and make sure you take heed to the wisdom in the thread.

 

pics?

 

Just tell her you have a House In Virginia, I'm sure she'll be out of your face for good

 

for sure! thanks again

 

Having read only the initial post....

The broad is garbage..move on.

 

oooo Pull_T is back!

 

Right after "Jack" disappears...

 

 

Jack? Are you back?