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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 11:19 AM
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Love at first sight... or is it?

Have any of you experienced love at first sight? Do you believe in love at first sight? Or is it only a crush that will eventually pass?


I'm curious if any of you met someone and knew after the first encounter that you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. What happened?
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 11:23 AM
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I don't believe in love at first sight.... but that's maybe because I haven't experienced it. I think you get attracted physically first with someone, then you start dating to get to know each other better, and love can develop.
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 12:27 PM
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I think this was covered in D&R some time back. L@FS doesn't exist. "I wanna fuck you at first sight" does exist. Besides, if L@FS was valid, blind people would never fall in love.

And that would be very, very sad.
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 02:00 PM
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Have any of you experienced love at first sight? Do you believe in love at first sight? Or is it only a crush that will eventually pass?
Only with cars-- Saab Sonnett, Alfa Spyder...then I realized what bitches they would be and ran for my life.
With people, I have not experienced love at first sight. With me, it was always "Wow, she's attractive...I want to learn more about her" (before potentially committing myself to an incredibly fulfilling life with her, or a living hell with her if she is anywhere as demanding as a Fiat or Alfa....). That was even true for my crushes-- they didn't develop instantly either.
Whatever happens, just learn more right now about the person you're attracted to; the rest of your life will take care of itself.
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 02:15 PM
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Whatever happens, just learn more right now about the person you're attracted to; the rest of your life will take care of itself.

Ya, I agree with you. I had this debate with a friend who believes in L@FS. She said that when she met her now husband, she knew he was someone she wanted to marry. And they did - 5 years later they're still as much in love as they were when they met.

I guess it worked for her, probably will not work for most of the people...
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 03:20 PM
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I think you can feel a strong bond towards someone pretty quickly (things in common, similar traits), at ease (let your guard down right away), or drawn to someone (wanting/needing to see them more, and a lot). IMO, true love is a much deeper, complicated, more meaningful, intense emotion that lies deeper than only knowing someone very superficially.
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 04:22 PM
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love? what's that?
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 04:23 PM
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 05:25 PM
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 06:38 PM
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I think with guys its more of lust at first sight.
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
I feel in love sometimes, but it goes away




















after I cum
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Old Apr 21, 2007 | 06:43 PM
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and i don't believe in it. just b/c a chick is hot and sweet when you meet her doesn't mean it's love
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Old Apr 22, 2007 | 09:30 PM
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Seriously though, to say love at first sight does or doesn't exist is impossible. People are way too different emotionally. Some fall in love quickly, others never fall in love in their lifetime. If two people who connect quickly meet, and they are attracted to each other in all ways, who's to say they didn't experience LaFS? It really all depends on the two people, in my opinion.
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Old Apr 23, 2007 | 06:04 AM
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I dont believe in love at first sight at all.......Lust is something totall different
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Old Apr 23, 2007 | 08:13 AM
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Old Apr 23, 2007 | 08:15 AM
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wow

i have now changed my mind
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Old Apr 23, 2007 | 08:25 AM
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^^can we all love one girl?
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Old Apr 23, 2007 | 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted by PillsburyChoboy
I think this was covered in D&R some time back. L@FS doesn't exist. "I wanna fuck you at first sight" does exist. Besides, if L@FS was valid, blind people would never fall in love.
I agree. How can you possibly love someone you've never even spoken to.
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Old Apr 24, 2007 | 07:39 PM
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wow


im in love
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Old Apr 24, 2007 | 08:55 PM
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who the hell is that chick? My dick just demanded rations....
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Old Apr 24, 2007 | 10:12 PM
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Originally Posted by eve
Have any of you experienced love at first sight? Do you believe in love at first sight? Or is it only a crush that will eventually pass?


I'm curious if any of you met someone and knew after the first encounter that you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. What happened?
Heck no because a lot of the pretty girls I've seen when I talk to them they end up being a snob or a b****h.

Why Eve does some guy have a crush on you at work? Want me to take care of him? I mean I've seen how you look like
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Old Apr 25, 2007 | 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted by eve
Have any of you experienced love at first sight? Do you believe in love at first sight? Or is it only a crush that will eventually pass?


I'm curious if any of you met someone and knew after the first encounter that you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. What happened?
I don't believe it..... but that's because I've never met a woman on first sight and say "wow, I love you... this is the one."
However, I believe in Lust at first sight.......... I see a woman and I know I wanna do her within the first 3 seconds........

tru story........
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Old Apr 25, 2007 | 01:13 PM
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However, I believe in Lust at first sight.......... I see a woman and I know I wanna do her within the first 3 seconds........

tru story........
I think most dudes are like that.
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Old Apr 25, 2007 | 01:57 PM
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Old Apr 25, 2007 | 03:04 PM
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those has to be...........34D ... based on my expertiezzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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Old Apr 26, 2007 | 05:10 AM
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Originally Posted by BoostedJack
those has to be...........34D ... based on my expertiezzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Im going to need to hand sample...
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Old Apr 26, 2007 | 01:56 PM
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I believe in love at first sight...








... but it is usually followed by annoyance/hate/thoughts of suicide after first speak.
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Old May 4, 2007 | 03:10 PM
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who the hell is that chick? My dick just demanded rations....


im crakkin up at that at work! i think i better leave this thread! LOL
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Old May 4, 2007 | 05:10 PM
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Yes.....

I have experienced it...
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Old May 6, 2007 | 12:49 AM
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i kinda believe in it. in highschool, i met this awesome girl, who is now my friend. when i first laid my eyes on her, i knew there was something really special about her. i got to know her better and i knew that she could've been the one. unfortunately, we became pretty good friends and nothing ever happened. i moved on, but if i ever get another opportunity, i would definitely take it this time.
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Old May 22, 2007 | 08:01 PM
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if it isnt love at first sight maybe make them walk by again and see if that will work hahah
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Old May 22, 2007 | 08:20 PM
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OK fawkers if the truth be told there is no such thing as Love at first sight unless your talking about the love you have for those big ass tittys or how sweet his abs and ass looks in that wife beater and relaxed fit blues other than that What the fawk do you know about them to be in love!
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Old May 23, 2007 | 07:31 AM
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^ there is, just most of us don't seem to see that during the initial sight. It's usually LUST at first sight. When I first met my lady, it was LUST. I still remember exactly what was on my mind when I first saw her.
"whoa, she's smoking. I gotta get some of that soon!"

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Old May 23, 2007 | 07:35 AM
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I'm a strong believer in LUST at first sight.
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Old May 23, 2007 | 09:30 AM
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Lust makes sense, love is too strong of an emotion to just pop up when you first meet the person. Love at first sight is a nicety, its a nice thought, but don't think it actually exists.
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Old May 23, 2007 | 11:40 AM
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With my GF it was LUST at first sight, I fell in love a few minutes after starting our first conversation...

and after nearly 50 years I finally know what love really is...amazing!
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Old May 23, 2007 | 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by TLuscious
in that wife beater and relaxed fit blues

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Old May 23, 2007 | 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted by TLuscious
OK fawkers if the truth be told there is no such thing as Love at first sight unless your talking about the love you have for those big ass tittys or how sweet his abs and ass looks in that wife beater and relaxed fit blues other than that What the fawk do you know about them to be in love!
Welcome back....
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Old May 23, 2007 | 12:45 PM
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Lust = Let Us Sexy Time :borat voice:




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Old May 23, 2007 | 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
I think with guys its more of lust at first sight.


Call me a caveman but I'm not a believer in love at first sight. I do believe in, "Wow ... what a cool chick!" or "Wow ... she is f*ckin' hot!" but no, "Wow ... I want to marry you". Sorry.
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