you ever notice that you only hurt emotionally when you are in love with someone? love is pain but it hurts soooooo goood....The woman i am with now we are deeply in love but we have our ups and downs just like other relationships. Thing with ours is its been long distance for the last 8 months...we wont be physically be together till sometime this fall when i return from deployment....It just seems as if sometimes i acnt take her shit and i would rather just give up on her...but i cant i love her too much...thing that gets me is that all these other cats know we are together and still try to holla at her...i blanked the other day and went on a mission to find out who there were...had my homies from the area front them and see wassup...some tried to deny it others said they were just tryin to be friends...i think when i get back i might end up snapping some necks cuz of the disrespect...For some reason they just dont get it that my girl tells me everything...even if i dont want to hear it. Its funny it bothers me that guys just dont seem to care that a woman is taken....oh well ill just let my anger out when i see them...haha man im just blabbing hahaha

 

Knowingly going after another guy's girl behind his back? That's straight up one of the lowest things a man can do. I say you get Tony Soprano on those fuckers when you get back. Meanwhile spread the word that those bitches who wanna holla atcha babe best be relocating to another time-zone before you get back.

 

i aint that worried about it...the homies from BNG are handling them now as we speak...hahaha i got one of them dudes soo scared he is callin my OG and tellin him everytime a dude even talks to her at work lol...i think its hilarious =) but for those that still try i have a GloCK and an AK47 ready for them =)

 

I'm not sure if I'm interpreting this correctly... you are going to shoot some dudes who are making a play for your woman?? Man that sucks - you're supposed to get your shootin' out of your system while you're deployed

 

I feel you homie. There was a dude who was trying to get with my girl. When I confronted him about it, he threatened to kill me. That's just rude. BTW, are you filipino?

 

Going after someone's girl when you know that she has a man is a straight up bitch ass move and should not be tolerated. It's cool to knock them up side the head, but don't go the gun route, that will only lead to trouble.

 

yea and one of the cats is supposed to be one of my homies....iono man all i can think about is mudering that fool....but hmm maybe ill just beat him to death instead =). My lady wants me to just leave it alone and that makes me even more mad like she is tryin to protect someone u know. But i guess she doesnt want me to get locked up again....we will see...oh and ccarbajal08n naw im not filipino but my girl is and she is part spanish and chinese...im a mutt my pops is chinese, moms is nat. American, greek, black and white...but i get mistaken as puerto rican or mexican or latin of some sort all the time lol...funny thing is im from BNG...ever heard of it???? if you kick it in SD you should know bout us.

 

bahala na gang, right?

 

Hey bro, back in Russia we have a thing called a "temnaya" for dealing with fools like that. Wait untill he's walking somewhere alone then come from behind, put a garbage bag over his head and do whatever you want but keep quiet. He'll know who it is, but since he didn't see or hear anything there's no evidence against you.

 

Yup BNG...dats my family right there....findin out more and more that we have people all over the west coast...the bay area and shiet Seattle i didnt even know i though i was the only one that moved up there lol but i guess there is more...

 

Guys flirt with girls taken or not on a regular basis, so I don't really stress it anymore. If you think about it, in the end, your girls going home with you, not the guys that are despearately giving it a shot.

iamhomin, who doesn't mind much when other guys hit on his gf--however only to a certain extent.

 

If some guy flirts with your girl, just know that if she got love for you, she'll let him flirt and maybe just smile and do nothing back. But if you go out and get all crazy and telling your boys to search and destroy, that might send a message to her that you're not confident about yourself and your relationship. Girls want to know that their guy is confident and he trusts her....you know? Good luck with everything and look out for yourself while you are over there, we want you back in 1 piece!

 

its not about search and destroy its about respect...of of them fools straight asked her if he could well fuc$ her in the ass..and she toldhim hell no....and that fool has a girl...so i found out his work number and called him at his work while i was in hawaii on my transit over the pacific. He got quite scared when he found out who i was and where i was from..i dont think he will be bothering her again.

 

In that case, beat his ass down!!!

 

I am not one for violence....but seeing what I have seen, some dudes just need a kick in the ass.

 

....i cant wait to get home....

 

Wow...there is such violence here...

Though I'd probably do the same in your shoes, Stoke. The long distance thing really can be difficult and requires that both parties be mature enough to trust each other. I've been doing the long-distance thing for two years (well, we went to school on opposite sides of the country, but we saw each other during the winter and the summer) and I know that it's hard, but if you truly love this girl, then you have to trust that she loves you enough to put up with it.

I have a friend who's boyfriend is a Marine on deployment in Iraq. They just stay in touch as much as they can and make things work. I'm sure you'll figure out what will be best for you. Just keep the violent nature in check because it may end up ruining your relationship if your girl finds out about your jealousy.

 

its not about jealousy its about respect...she knows my violent nature..she has seen it with her own eyes....she loves me for who i am just as i love her...Respect is more important to me than friends...those who want to be friends with me need to repsect me and my lady...tryin to step in and talk ish and then make a move isnt what friends should be doing...random guys isnt as bad cuz they dont kow me but when a friend tries that shit thats stepping over his bounds.

I also think its funny that i got negative rep for this post someone too scared about my violent tendancies to leave a name while calling me uneducated...just because i have a temper and what not doesnt mean i dont have an education....you would be surprised on what i know.....