damn i've so fallen for this chick its not even funny..but she lives in SD and i'm in LA..but, she has a semi on and off bf..which i'm assuming is off since we made out and fucked around (drunk and high) last weekend..we like talk for hours on end, but i dunno what to do. she's commin down here this weekend, and i dont want to rush things, but shes soooo perfect its not funny! ideas?

 

Picss are best - as you well know. Let her set the pace then take over and have your way with her.

 

If she goes for the PIITB day 1 she's a keeper

 

 

 

Well yeah first you'd have to post pics here Have a good time with her, but remember the semi on and off thing means she's just playing the field, keeping her options open and looking for something better. So you're the better guy for NOW, but keep the pimp hand strong and don't let someone else become the better guy later.

 

what's to stop her from doing the same thing to you? Scandalous

 

Well if he keeps the pimpin up, he won't have to worry about that

 

the 'on/off' bf is going to be the issue. right now she's playing you both for what she wants, so keep thinking with the right head.

good luck though

 

yeah def watch out and don't let her play you if that is her intention...

 

Well, "falling for her hard" is probably the wrong mindset considering she has a (on/off) bf. So like others have said, keep your feelings under your hat. Dont get too attached without feeling the situation out a little more.

 

hottie... go for it bro...

 

I suggest you don't rush it for two reasons:

1.) She has an on again-off again BF, so until she has severed her ties with him, I wouldn't invest too much into her right now.

2.) You had a "drunk and high" make out session with the girl. That really does not constitute falling for someone and does not equate to love.

From what you have stated, it's way to early to be in love with this person. The first thing that popped into my mind is "Since she already has a BF (doesn't matter if it's on-again, off-again), what makes Akura think she won't do that kind of stuff to him if they become official?"

Just my

 

play her...at leat until she drops the other bf. my

 

Shes deffineatly cute Props to you....but seriously i would be careful with a girl that goes back and forth. Dont get emotions involved until she is 100% yours or you might be in for a let down

 

I don't see any pic

 

 

this is great advice.

 

well not only did we make out while drunk and high, we did it the next day as well..and we've been chatting almost everyday for hours on end..i dunno, a world of change is comming about in mylife, and hopefully this will work out in the end as well

 

Good luck to you, but I think my reason #1 on why you should be careful should be addressed ASAP.

 

I don't keep up on all the goings on in your life, but from what I have seen you tend deal with two types of girls:

1 - The random chicks you meet and have fun with
2 - Girls that have something going on that make them a challenge for you - the Persian Virgin comes to mind.

I'm wondering if you would feel the same about her if she were crushing hard on you and didn't have any attachments?

 

Ali G never fails with the pics. (Take a hint, ShavedH22CL )


Nice rack BTW

 

I'll be on the lookout for her...........

 

Ahh yes Moe, just when I thought you were out of useful observations, you come back with this.

I salute you sir and

 

Umm.. thanks?

But when did I ever have any useful observations?

 

i say, play the shit out of her. take her for what she is right now, don't stress the pseudo bf, if she's messing w/you, she probably isn't too happy w/him. Don't get caught up in your feelings either, that shit will make you lose focus

 

good point

 

Just from the picture, she looks slutty hot. Not your typical nice girl who you would bring home to your mama.... The fact she gets high and drunk with you already said alot......

In my opinion I think this is a receipe for disaster..... it would work out, she could be dating you and next thing you know...... you catch her banging her on/off bf in her bed.
To me, there's girls where you just "F" around, and girls who you can date and bring her home to parents after awhile. She's just not the 2nd type.

I'd suggest you let her go, but that's just my opinion.

 

Option 1. Hit it then quit it
Option 2. Threeway

 

Drunk and high.......thats good sex. Just let it flow man, thinking to much will hurt you.

 

The phrase "Having her cake and eating it too" comes to mind for some reason...

Hmmm wonder why that is.

 

That would be the little one right? right? God only supplied us with enough blood to run one at a time

 

you're 25 and still getting high? yah, she's def. a keeper...?

Glad she seems perfect, but think about what you want in the future before you jump into something serious. Also, if she's "playing the field" with this guy on the side, ave you ever thought that he may not know this? If they are currently dating, even while she's been "talking" to you, would you care if she did the same while she was dating you? Watch out babe, can't be too careful - girls are scandelous.

 

not to get too off topic, but what the hell is that supposed to mean? I know a few people in their 40's that are financially sucessful, and still smoke some green every once in a while. It's not just something that "young people" do.

more on topic: I don't see a pic.

 

where is this said rack

 

One of my good friends smokes b/c her mom is a doctor and writes her a prescription - her mom smokes too and she's 50something. I'm not saying it'll make you a bad person, I'm just saying that I believe it is a bad choice. Just expressing my opinion, that's all.

 

post the nudes

 

i dont see no pictures? hrmms shes from San Diego ? and your from LA ? LA have A LOT OF FINE GIRLS ! im not ssaying diego doesnt im from diego.. hrmm lets see your 25 and how old is she ? mann your just like my friend thats going through the same thing but the girl is finally realizing that my friends a better person than her boyfriend. her boyfriend calls her a bitch, whore, hood rat, stupid ass trick etc and accuse her of cheating many times when she havent ever .. and im not sure but updates will be up tomorrow after i see whats up with them.

 

so....... are you still bangin' her?

 

just went thru the same shit lol trust me when shes back "on" wit the bf ... you will be ignored and put on the back burner ... and im sure this guy is a huge asshole which is why she keeps goin back to him... thats how it works.. be careful she doesnt play you .. good luck man!