Are a lot of women bi-curious?
01-07-2009, 04:05 PM
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Are a lot of women bi-curious?
Last saturday I just randomly asked my fiancee if she has ever kissed another girl after a party while driving home. She said yes she experimented with a girl when she was 15. Then she said while drunk she kissed another girl on new years 3 years ago. Now, at first this was erotic to me, but now I wanted to know who she kissed and she has refused to tell me because out of privacy for the other girl. I have asked her on the phone 3 different times. She just gave me hints that it was a friend in hs and that she is coming to our wedding reception. I keep on asking her, but she refuses to budge. I wanted to know cause I was just curious. I intend to keep bugging her until she tells me. Is this correct? My one friend told me that is it good to know or not. I said it's good so that I know, but bad cause if it is one of her friends I may think everytime I see them her friend may be looking to kiss her again. She said that she was curious back then, but has no intentions for either a threesome or she has any intentions to kiss another girl again. What should I do? It just is driving me crazy though to know who she experimented with.
01-07-2009, 04:17 PM
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I would let it go. The past is the past and you dont want to beat a dead horse for too long or it will get ugly. That's like her demanding to know every single girl you've been with. I dont know, maybe you'd be cool with that but I dont think most would. I think most women are curious at some point in their life. Some act on it, some act on it more than others.
01-07-2009, 05:02 PM
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I'd say no, not a lot of women are. You'll find the majority of women who do kiss other girls do it purely for male attention.
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01-07-2009, 07:27 PM
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Don't ruin my fantasy....
01-07-2009, 08:36 PM
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<---Never kissed a girl. 
01-07-2009, 08:38 PM
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01-07-2009, 08:40 PM
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01-07-2009, 08:44 PM
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01-07-2009, 08:59 PM
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01-07-2009, 09:07 PM
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01-07-2009, 09:08 PM
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Last saturday I just randomly asked my fiancee if she has ever kissed another girl after a party while driving home. She said yes she experimented with a girl when she was 15. Then she said while drunk she kissed another girl on new years 3 years ago. Now, at first this was erotic to me, but now I wanted to know who she kissed and she has refused to tell me because out of privacy for the other girl. I have asked her on the phone 3 different times. She just gave me hints that it was a friend in hs and that she is coming to our wedding reception. I keep on asking her, but she refuses to budge. I wanted to know cause I was just curious. I intend to keep bugging her until she tells me. Is this correct? My one friend told me that is it good to know or not. I said it's good so that I know, but bad cause if it is one of her friends I may think everytime I see them her friend may be looking to kiss her again. She said that she was curious back then, but has no intentions for either a threesome or she has any intentions to kiss another girl again. What should I do? It just is driving me crazy though to know who she experimented with.
BTW you need to get over it and quit bugging her about it or she won't confide in you anymore because you can't handle the truth.....and what kind of relationship is that to be in?
01-07-2009, 09:30 PM
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ooh cant wait for darksom1's post 
01-07-2009, 09:51 PM
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I don't care why bitches kiss each other...just do it...and then do me...
As for your personal dilemma...
Don't start asking about her shit if you are not prepared to accept the answer or give up yours...that is just really something men don't want to do, go down the "ex" memory lane so why you do is wack...seems to me that you would be more concerned if she sucked another cock than if she tongued a chick for a second...
Now, if you sucked another cock or tongued a dude...there is a cause for concern...just be glad your wife is on the level...if you chill out, you may be able to convince her to co-sign on that threesome thing down the road...but for now, you are like Woody Harrelson in that movie about fucking your wife for a million dollars - cool at first, then freaking out at the thought of it later...
As for your personal dilemma...
Don't start asking about her shit if you are not prepared to accept the answer or give up yours...that is just really something men don't want to do, go down the "ex" memory lane so why you do is wack...seems to me that you would be more concerned if she sucked another cock than if she tongued a chick for a second...
Now, if you sucked another cock or tongued a dude...there is a cause for concern...just be glad your wife is on the level...if you chill out, you may be able to convince her to co-sign on that threesome thing down the road...but for now, you are like Woody Harrelson in that movie about fucking your wife for a million dollars - cool at first, then freaking out at the thought of it later...
01-07-2009, 09:59 PM
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One other thing...
I have never heard of two women having sex or kissing as being a bad thing (except from women who hate on it)...two women making out or synchronized licking each other, is a turn-on whether you are a man or a woman...
BUT...just the thought of two men engaging in synchro-cock-lock...is disgusting whether you are a man or woman!
So OP enjoy the view and wish it was you...
I have never heard of two women having sex or kissing as being a bad thing (except from women who hate on it)...two women making out or synchronized licking each other, is a turn-on whether you are a man or a woman...
BUT...just the thought of two men engaging in synchro-cock-lock...is disgusting whether you are a man or woman!
So OP enjoy the view and wish it was you...
01-07-2009, 11:10 PM
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One other thing...
I have never heard of two women having sex or kissing as being a bad thing (except from women who hate on it)...two women making out or synchronized licking each other, is a turn-on whether you are a man or a woman...
BUT...just the thought of two men engaging in synchro-cock-lock...is disgusting whether you are a man or woman!
So OP enjoy the view and wish it was you...
I have never heard of two women having sex or kissing as being a bad thing (except from women who hate on it)...two women making out or synchronized licking each other, is a turn-on whether you are a man or a woman...
BUT...just the thought of two men engaging in synchro-cock-lock...is disgusting whether you are a man or woman!
So OP enjoy the view and wish it was you...
its only hated on if the chicks are butch.
01-07-2009, 11:10 PM
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I don't care why bitches kiss each other...just do it...and then do me...
As for your personal dilemma...
Don't start asking about her shit if you are not prepared to accept the answer or give up yours...that is just really something men don't want to do, go down the "ex" memory lane so why you do is wack...seems to me that you would be more concerned if she sucked another cock than if she tongued a chick for a second...
Now, if you sucked another cock or tongued a dude...there is a cause for concern...just be glad your wife is on the level...if you chill out, you may be able to convince her to co-sign on that threesome thing down the road...but for now, you are like Woody Harrelson in that movie about fucking your wife for a million dollars - cool at first, then freaking out at the thought of it later...
As for your personal dilemma...
Don't start asking about her shit if you are not prepared to accept the answer or give up yours...that is just really something men don't want to do, go down the "ex" memory lane so why you do is wack...seems to me that you would be more concerned if she sucked another cock than if she tongued a chick for a second...
Now, if you sucked another cock or tongued a dude...there is a cause for concern...just be glad your wife is on the level...if you chill out, you may be able to convince her to co-sign on that threesome thing down the road...but for now, you are like Woody Harrelson in that movie about fucking your wife for a million dollars - cool at first, then freaking out at the thought of it later...
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107211/
01-08-2009, 12:31 AM
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Just give it a rest. If you're worried that she could possibly become full blown lez one day, I guess that's a valid concern. But if she hasn't done anything more than kiss in the past few years, I wouldn't worry about it.
01-08-2009, 11:17 AM
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OP, stop bugging her.
01-08-2009, 05:12 PM
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Stop asking her. So what if you know? It doesnt change anything anyways. Your getting married so obviously she's into men and you. If girls kiss, it dont mean she's lesbian. Its not a big deal. My lady friends have kissed another girl and yes I did ask who but after that i didnt care. There a lot more that should be on your mind then this.
and threesomes kill relationships. Listen to Dr. Drew.
and threesomes kill relationships. Listen to Dr. Drew.
01-08-2009, 08:22 PM
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