lost ability to talk to girls
07-28-2004, 10:05 AM
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lost ability to talk to girls
anyone ever have the experience of loosing the ability to talk to girls, whereas back in the day you would approach a girl like its the most simple thing.
the other day at this party, i saw this girl with the most prettiest eyes and body, she was always dancing, i tried not to but i kept starring. Good thing is she always stared back. At one point I was on the phoe talking,her and a friend came out to use their phone, we just kept looking at each other, plus at one point i overheard their conversation the friend was like this guy is tarring at you, she was like i know. Then i got caught up in my conversation. To make a long storie short, she was obviously interested. To add to this, I been with my present girl for lik 5 years next month, i know i shouldn't cheat reguardless, But the simple fact that i was straight scared to even just talk to her was concerning for me. I use to talk to girls so easily now its different.
the other day at this party, i saw this girl with the most prettiest eyes and body, she was always dancing, i tried not to but i kept starring. Good thing is she always stared back. At one point I was on the phoe talking,her and a friend came out to use their phone, we just kept looking at each other, plus at one point i overheard their conversation the friend was like this guy is tarring at you, she was like i know. Then i got caught up in my conversation. To make a long storie short, she was obviously interested. To add to this, I been with my present girl for lik 5 years next month, i know i shouldn't cheat reguardless, But the simple fact that i was straight scared to even just talk to her was concerning for me. I use to talk to girls so easily now its different.
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07-28-2004, 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Scrib
Sounds like you're turning :ghey:.
Maybe you know deep down in side that your present girl shouldn't be cheated on...
07-28-2004, 10:14 AM
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yeah but i havent approached girls in 5 years. I'm trying to be faithful you know. Monagomous obviously i maight be biting of more than i can chew
07-28-2004, 10:14 AM
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Only sissys loose the ability to talk to chicks. 
It's hard when you are with someone for so long and then find yourself
single. Take me for instance. I dated my ex for 5 years and before I was
with her or lets just say 3 years into the relationship I had chicks left and
right. Then the last 2 years I have respected her more and now we are just friends. I did not play her for the last 2 years. We broke up because I couldnt'
deal with her anymore. Oh well! I'm not to concerned the ability to talk to girls
because i'm single and I can speak to whoever I feel like speaking too. On the
other hand you have a girl. That's a
.
BTW if you ever see that chick you were talking about pass her on to me.
I'll take care of her for you.
It's hard when you are with someone for so long and then find yourself
single. Take me for instance. I dated my ex for 5 years and before I was
with her or lets just say 3 years into the relationship I had chicks left and
right. Then the last 2 years I have respected her more and now we are just friends. I did not play her for the last 2 years. We broke up because I couldnt'
deal with her anymore. Oh well! I'm not to concerned the ability to talk to girls
because i'm single and I can speak to whoever I feel like speaking too. On the
other hand you have a girl. That's a
. BTW if you ever see that chick you were talking about pass her on to me.
I'll take care of her for you.
07-28-2004, 10:16 AM
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I know what you saying, and I have realized that there is nothing wrong with saying hi and introducing yourself. If your just think about it as socializing and being friendly then there is nothing bad about that. Now if your trying to hook up or plan on having her as a side fling then that's way you get scared.
07-28-2004, 10:19 AM
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Stay faithful! I know I was for the last 2 years. If you like other chicks and
find yourself not attracted to your girl, it's time to let her go. Now about
game, you should ask the members in this forum with pimp usernames for
advise. They might be able to help you.
find yourself not attracted to your girl, it's time to let her go. Now about
game, you should ask the members in this forum with pimp usernames for
advise. They might be able to help you.
07-28-2004, 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted by UNCTYPE-S
nope......if anything, having a girlfriend makes it easier to talk to girls.
It's always easier for me to talk to girls when I have a gf, b/c I am not thinking about getting in their pants.
07-28-2004, 10:23 AM
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i love my gf, she takes care of me, always doing things that take her out o her way, but i just cant stop lookin at others. I believe all man can't.
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07-28-2004, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted by The Eliminator
its weird to be affraid of girls. i feel like a idiot. however when they start the talk to me ofcourse its easier.
take advantage of the fact that you have a girl. you shouldn't give a damn what other girls think, so you can talk to them however the fuck you want. if a girl blows you off, then who gives a shit, because you know that you are going home with your girl and getting laid.
07-28-2004, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted by The Eliminator
i dont think i would be happy with anyone girl, theres always something better out there
07-28-2004, 10:32 AM
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Originally Posted by The Eliminator
i dont think i would be happy with anyone girl, theres always something better out there
to ACL. Show some respect! Atleast to the ancient ACL members.
07-28-2004, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by The Eliminator
its weird that girls scare me now
Were is CLpunisher when you need him ??
07-28-2004, 01:14 PM
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next time you are having a hard time talking to a girl just start screaming gibberish and run into the nearest wall...it's a great ice breaker.
07-28-2004, 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted by UNCTYPE-S
theliminator-u dont have to post one sentence a post. u can type all in one post.
or just wants to make his first thread look interesting?????j/k
07-28-2004, 01:20 PM
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so how about find a friend who is willing to play wingman. go up to 2 girls and shoot the shit. that way their wont be any weird silence cause one of you 4 are bound to start some kind of conversation.