anyone ever have the experience of loosing the ability to talk to girls, whereas back in the day you would approach a girl like its the most simple thing.

the other day at this party, i saw this girl with the most prettiest eyes and body, she was always dancing, i tried not to but i kept starring. Good thing is she always stared back. At one point I was on the phoe talking,her and a friend came out to use their phone, we just kept looking at each other, plus at one point i overheard their conversation the friend was like this guy is tarring at you, she was like i know. Then i got caught up in my conversation. To make a long storie short, she was obviously interested. To add to this, I been with my present girl for lik 5 years next month, i know i shouldn't cheat reguardless, But the simple fact that i was straight scared to even just talk to her was concerning for me. I use to talk to girls so easily now its different.

 

 

ok

 

Wrong forum.

 

Sounds like you're turning :ghey:.

I'd seek professional help.



j/k

 

nobody here been in that situation

 

if a girl looks at you as long as your lookin at he, you should have alot of convidence. so its like whats up with me

 

nope......if anything, having a girlfriend makes it easier to talk to girls.

 

Well, that might not be that far from the truth

Maybe you know deep down in side that your present girl shouldn't be cheated on...

 

yeah but i havent approached girls in 5 years. I'm trying to be faithful you know. Monagomous obviously i maight be biting of more than i can chew

 

Only sissys loose the ability to talk to chicks.
It's hard when you are with someone for so long and then find yourself
single. Take me for instance. I dated my ex for 5 years and before I was
with her or lets just say 3 years into the relationship I had chicks left and
right. Then the last 2 years I have respected her more and now we are just friends. I did not play her for the last 2 years. We broke up because I couldnt'
deal with her anymore. Oh well! I'm not to concerned the ability to talk to girls
because i'm single and I can speak to whoever I feel like speaking too. On the
other hand you have a girl. That's a .

BTW if you ever see that chick you were talking about pass her on to me.
I'll take care of her for you.

 

I know what you saying, and I have realized that there is nothing wrong with saying hi and introducing yourself. If your just think about it as socializing and being friendly then there is nothing bad about that. Now if your trying to hook up or plan on having her as a side fling then that's way you get scared.

 

chill chief, i could take care of that, just need to appraoch that.

 

you would think, but its easier said then done

 

Stay faithful! I know I was for the last 2 years. If you like other chicks and
find yourself not attracted to your girl, it's time to let her go. Now about
game, you should ask the members in this forum with pimp usernames for
advise. They might be able to help you.

 

It's always easier for me to talk to girls when I have a gf, b/c I am not thinking about getting in their pants.

 

its weird to be affraid of girls. i feel like a idiot. however when they start the talk to me ofcourse its easier.

 

i love my gf, she takes care of me, always doing things that take her out o her way, but i just cant stop lookin at others. I believe all man can't.

 

BTW it's good if you introduced yourself to the forum chief! .

 

it isnt too weird man. I was with my last girl for just under 4 years, and it took a bit for me to get my game back. it's like riding a bike though, you never really forget what you are doing, you just might be a bit wobbly at first.

take advantage of the fact that you have a girl. you shouldn't give a damn what other girls think, so you can talk to them however the fuck you want. if a girl blows you off, then who gives a shit, because you know that you are going home with your girl and getting laid.

 

thanks for pointing that our junior

 

tru, agreed but again easier sid then done

 

i dont think i would be happy with anyone girl, theres always something better out there

 

if you think that then you probably shouldn't be in a relationship. it really isn't too fair to your girl is she is just 'good enough for now'.

 

nah its lie i lover and want her, but at same time, i want others. have my cake and eat it to.

 

You got that right chump! BTW junior why don't you say to ACL.
Show some respect! Atleast to the ancient ACL members.

 

but right it aint fair to her

 

you happy nw chief

 

like yesturday, this fine chick at my school, said hello to me while pasing me in the hall, dont mean nothing, but till easier to talk to.

 

its getting over than first appraoch

 

i aint going to sweet it to much though, girls aint worth it. Just hope in the future i grow a pair.....

 

its weird that girls scare me now

 

It's probably not all girls.. You probably just get scared by the hot ones. Work on it. The first step in recovering is acknowledging you have a problem

Were is CLpunisher when you need him ??

 

next time you are having a hard time talking to a girl just start screaming gibberish and run into the nearest wall...it's a great ice breaker.

 

theliminator-u dont have to post one sentence a post. u can type all in one post.

 

woah dude, now ur starting to scare me

 

I think he is try to get his post count up or just wants to make his first thread look interesting?????
j/k

 

i think for the fact i havent thrown down a line in 5 yrs has my game dissolved causing me to have fear

 

nahh i just type what cmes to my head at the time.

 

so how about find a friend who is willing to play wingman. go up to 2 girls and shoot the shit. that way their wont be any weird silence cause one of you 4 are bound to start some kind of conversation.