there is this chick ive had my eye on for awhile now. she works at the bowling alley i bowl at on wed and fri nights. she is cool, we always exchanged smiles and stuff... we talked here and there. so a few weeks ago i started really talkin to her. we exchanged numbers and all that. turns out she has a boyfriend. which is fine, but she is constantly textin me. at one point she was complaining about how she was sore from sking and she wanted me to give her a massage. she seems somewhat into her boyfriend. i just cant figure out what she is trying to do...

 

Make her boyfriend jealous.....

 

for some broads one bf isn't enough...

 

if she's asking you to give her a massage that means she wants you to beat it up....so do it...these are the ones you go for....no strings attached...now if you want her as your girl...then thats a different story...but if your just lusting for her go after it...she cant give you any more obvious signs then giving the number texting and asking for physical contact knowing she has a boyfriend and knowing you know she does...

 

Is the other dude bigger than you?

Does she know you want to give it to her? Maybe she is looking for a friend.

 

^^ good call i know it might sound stupid but i dont wanna do to others what i wouldnt want done to me. i wouldnt wanna be cheated on so i respect the fact that she has a man. i wouldnt want some bastard messin wit my girl behind my back. im at the point where im lookin for somethin more steady. not marriage, but im ready to take it easy.

 

You're probably the first bowler she's ever seen getting out of an RL.

 

ash, ive never met her boyfriend, so i dunno. maybe she is just lookin for a friend, but she seems flirty. i dunno if she knows i dig her like that.

 

 

LOL....yup...that rl is a beast....now i hate that cheating word...your not doing anything to her boyfriend she is if she allows you to do something to her...dont hate the player hate the game...

but your right...what goes around comes around....

the simple way to find out is go str8 up...she has a man so theres nothing to lose....ask her if she's trying to mess with you...then move from there....and if you want her to drop her man...express that....

 

Maybe you're taking this whole "massage" offer wrong..... maybe she just wants a massage and nothing else.

But if she is indeed really flirting with you bro....... make sure you're ready when the bf knocks on your door. It's all fun and game when you're the one hunting, but once you're hunted it could get ugly.

good luck

 

its not all about the massage... that was just an example... maybe i am reading to much into it, but it just doesnt seem like that.

 

Straight up ask her in that gay movie way "I like you, but if you have a boyfriend..."

I wouldn't get mixed up with her boyfriend unless he has a pocket protector, and even then, your a bowler.

ibdp

Mike

 

im not at all worried about her boyfriend. im not lookin for any trouble... i never do, but i can hold my own... bowler or not. im 6'3 320lbs. get it straight youngbuck

 

Does her boyfriend bowl? Maybe she just has seen you bowl and knows you can give her a mean

 

she probably saw the skills....

 

Maybe she wants a 3 way?

 

Dude you need to proceed directly to the health and fitness forum! That doesn't sound healthy.

As far as this chick goes. I can't help but think it sounds like bad news all around.

 

Sounds simple enough to me. He's dealing with a typical filthy cheating female. You can fuck her and her boyfriend will never know. Gotta love girls and their advanced moral fiber.

 

Same philosophy I have. Who needs the extra trouble?

 

DO IT....DO IT!!!!

 

A bowler going 3 bills plus?

Very unusual.

 

Well if she's the creeping type then she's gonna do it with someone else eventually if you don't step up. So you might as well have your fun.

lol at "youngbuck"

 

Just be the "other" guy
.....just don't munch her box!

 

ive been talkin to her alot. she's been textin me every morning and throughout the day. im not gonna do anything. like i said, ill respect the fact she has a boyfriend. in my eyes, what goes around comes around. ill wait and see what she does... this girl is hot though. she's got me a bit twisted....

 

Well, I'll toss my two cents, but a female friend is an invaluable thing since they are the doorway to other females. If you were to "hit it" with the sleezy girl you get her once, but shut the door on all the other females she knows...

 

uh...Homer Simpson, the greatest bowler in the world. duh

 

you need to drop her hints like, 'its too bad you'd have a bf' or 'if you didnt have a bf' or 'your bf is one lucky guy, wish I could find somebody just like you'

 

Riiiiiiight. You should just ask her out on a date, who cares if she has a boyfriend....never stopped me.

 

That's ridiculous! Why on Earth would you ask out a girl like that on a date? If you end up going out with her, she's going to continue her cheating ways, except you'll be the one cheated on. DURRR we use our brainssz!

Either hit it and quit it, do nothing, or save another guy a headache and give him a call and tell him what she's trying to do.

 

Answer:

 

I went through a very similar situation not too long ago with a girl who goes to the same school as me. My friends told me she already has a b/f so I decided to do nothing about it. She kept on trying to hook up with me. I didn't want to get involved in this shit so I totally ignored her and now her/her friends hate my guts. hahaha I figured if she is going to cheat on her b/f now, she'll probably cheat on me if we get together.

 

I would've done the same thing.

I won't even date a girl that I know has cheated in the past, even if she's single and just wants to fuck. Just seems pathetic to me.