I am a pretty clean cut moral guy so never cheated and only had sex with one person, my current girlfriend (oral with others before that). Well lifes pretty decent but every once and a while I wonder how it would be to be a manwhore. Any manwhores, used to be manwhores? Was it worth it? Would you have been more monogamous if you could do it all again or would you be more manwhory? Just curious.

 

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:gullable:

 

Tony could give you a ton of advice/stories...............if he wasnt banned

 

yeah. the whole "the grass is greener on the other side" mentality is an evolutionary mechanism built into every male. honestly ... take any anthropology course. we just have the primitive urge and desire to procreate with as many women as possible. but you know what? whether man-whoring is enjoyable or not truly depends on the person. To some, it can be unbelieveable, but to others not so fun. i'm thinking what you have is great and something worthwhile so for now, just stick with porn.

 

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I co-sign with this guy. X__________________________


Now as far as you question.

Speaking as a guy who enjoys the company of many women while not intending to pursue a long term relationship with any of them (like how I neatly sidestepped the manwhore moniker?). I say it is enjoyable, it is highly enjoyable. I like to have my ego stroked by multiple women, I like the adoration and respect other guys give me for being able to have these women, and with every new conquest my confidence grows and grows.

Now the downside is the occasional dry spell, and the accompanying thoughts of, maybe it would be better to be with one great woman who cares about me instead of all these girls that annoy me on some level, but I keep them around for the sex and ego-stroking.

Right now I am in this mode where I feel like I will just continue to date, have fun, enjoy my freedom and the company of as many women as I like. I don't know if my one woman is out there but I kind of hope she is, because deep down I am just really a guy who is looking for a woman that I can truly love, and that loves me back in the same way. However I do know that in order to convince me to give up my freedom she will have to be one heck of a stripper.......I mean woman .

 

All real manwhores dont have the need to brag online about their experiences.

So sad that people fall for it.

Oh and im not a manwhore but my buddies are. I personally dont care for it.

 

There was a time when a one-night stand would have been an enduring relationship for me. As it turns out, quick sex turns out to be a cheap high that wears off quickly, and after having explore all of the usual paradigms and some unusual ones, I've moved on. Not a way to live for the long haul.

 

It's a yes and no answer. I see that many of my latino friends look in lust at white girls who aren't even that good looking because they've never been with a white girl or have limited experience with them. I've also seen some of my white friends look at hispanic and black girls in lust for the same reason. I'm glad I have enough experience to not lust over any and every girl who's not of my race so in that sense, it was good to be a man whore, but I've also let some of the greatest girls I ever met slip away because I felt the need to be polygamous and broke up with them. I wish I had stayed with 1 of 3 girls who were all excellent marriage material so in that sense, the answer is no, being a whore was not worth it, but not lusting over girls who are of another race would be the main reason the answer is yes, it was good to manwhore for a while.

 

As a side note - oral sex is still sex - I believe Clinton learned that.

And - think of all the things you're missing. STD risks, the very real lonliness that returns when she takes cab money and splits, or you shuffle into pants, a shirt and slippers to give her a ride to west bumfuck, or when you check to make sure your wallet is intact, or you hear her giving a debrief to her gf on the cellphone in the livingroom while you are "asleep".

The excitement of learning the exiting parts of someone else's body replaced by the complexities of explaining your own hotspots every freaking time..........

It got old, I got older, and the sight of some dotty guy beginning to hit on girls at bars is just too much. Married for 19 years, all of them happy, in every sense of the word.

 

ZING!

 

I don't reccomend being a whore, but of course I would know from personal experiance or anything

Seriously though, ultimately its not worth it in the long run. Whoring on a short term basis can be fun, but ultimately I can't say I've gotten much benefit from it except a whole lot of sex and interesting stories.

My excuse being that I haven't been in many relationships other than FTFs which really aren't relationships at all. However, if I was in a LTR I wouldn't have felt the need to be such a whore... also I guess it would also help if I wasn't so psycho too

Sometimes though, people need to whore around on a first hand basis to realize this. When I was younger a lot of my friends disapproved of my whoring ways but I never listened to them, now of course I realize that they were right. Good thing I always played it safe and never got diseased or preggy.

 

being a manwhore was fun when i was young, where i didnt care and had no morals.

btw when did pga get banned?

 

 

do whatever most falls in lines with what you feel like doing right now that you are young. By that I mean if you like spending lots of time with one girl then the LTR is good for you now. When i got out of college I was having way too much fun with friends to want a serious gf, so you just go along and do whatever suits you at the time.

 

If implying the Xeno...I never have, I posted about moral issues that eventually included pics.

 

OK I lied...I forgot that I posted that freaky sex story. Im no manwhore....

 

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When was PGA banned and why. I thought he had protection.


And about the man whore, it really depends who you ask. It got to be too much work juggling different woman all the time. Not worth it IMHO. Just stick to your girl, its like a post count no one gives a fuck but you and it really dont mean that much

 

get of my jock .

 

to call me gullable, you gotta prove me wrong.. right?

 

i was just fucking around stop taking shit so seriously.

 

done.

...but this isn't the first time from you...

 

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I knew that was coming!

 

had to be done
Remember that before getting involved in another one

 

I am not old(24) but would trade all of the "good times" I had for the love of a good woman in the blink of an eye. I've only had 2 real relationships that were anything more then partying and wild times- they were nice, but ended due to a number of factors...... There comes a time in every man's life where he realizes there is so much more to be had and even growing tired of playing the field. But having someone to share all of those special moments(the little things that we all take for granted) with, that's what its about. As other's have said its all in your head and only matter's to you.

It doesn't matter if you've slept with 150 girls or 1 if you are happy ignore what everyone else says. Sure the grass is always greener on the other side.... but don't screw up a good thing because your curious. Chances are high you've already got it as good as it gets.

 

Yah...Dont be a manwhore, You'll end up getting in fucked up situations ie...my whole telling the truth thing. Actually no, nothing wrong with being a manwhore...just being a manwhore with a girlfriend.

 

i'm a slut from hell, and i'd rather be able to say i've been with ONE girl.

 

It's all fun and games until you have to pay the doctor a visit.

 

dont be a fool, wrap you tool. Dont forget to get check out once a month by your physician for all you manwhores out thur.

 

its scientifically proven that the high you get from sex wears off pretty quickly, reason being that you need to have the urge again to have sex

anyways....one of my best homies is a manwhore....fool fucks alot of girls.....but at the end of the day hes always telling me how much he hates bitches because he cant find a decent girlfriend

i think youd be happier in life fucking the person you love over and over again, garunteed everyday

 

Manhoring was GREAT!

At the same time I always a steady and manhored on the side. The worse thing about that is that I have a bad memory. I found myself not talking to my main girl too much because I couldn't remember if I had already had that conversation with her or if it were another chick.

Anywho... I manhored in my late teens and early twenties and looking back on it now I just SMILE! I am VERY glad that I can look back on it though. From the pretty chicks to the tall chicks to the thick chicks to the short chicks to the skinny chicks to the one nighters to the crazy chicks to the chicks that taught me a thing or two to the Jamaican chicks to the Delta Zeta chicks to the... It is just great to think of the different kinds of sex, the different styles of sex, and the different specialties that chicks had. There are times when I just sit back and think of days and a huge smile overcomes my face.

Fast forward to the present... I feel more mature not being a manhore. I don't for a second want to be one of my friends my age that are still manhores, it just seems so childish to me now.

 

Um He's not a manwhore, he's an

 

Hmmmmm. I guess I had reached my peak of being a manwhore when I was 28. I had built an immpresive list of women who would service me on request. From a ghetto ass Dominican chick from down town Chicago to a doctor in Lake Forest I had quite the life. I eventually put them on a schedule. Here was my weekday schedule. At 9:45 I would this Navy helicopter at her apartment, then at 11:15 I would meet the doctor at her office for an "Oral" check up. at7pm I would meet up with this bad ass mexican chick who was an xray tech. (damn could she suck a D. than there was the ghetto Dominican chick who woul call me at 1:30am to tell me her boyfriend fell asleep, could she come over?. I would tell her that it wouldn't be worth the 45 minute drive to my house, I would last 15 minutes MAX. But she would do it anyway. Walk in, ride and leave. Kept that up for about a year. Oh yeah, and here's the secret.....................Don't LIE. I got more women tellin them that they ain't shit, and that they were not the only one, than trying to be nice.

 

Wow you sure satisfied those overworked women in the medical profession.